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anonymous
writes:I really want to be in porn. It's my dream. What do I do. I'm even on chatrooms where I meet up for all sorts of sex with all sorts of people and send photos of me. Everyone says I'm a stunner and I really just really want to be a porn star. Advice please!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): Hi, I remember that fantasy too, but to be honest... Try to break into the fashion modelling industry rather than porn. It're really grim and a woman's career is on average a few years. I've been doing research on it for school, but check out this site yourself. Read this article: http://www.thepinkcross.org/pinkcross-blogs/shelley-lubben/february-2009/michelle-avanti-leaves-porn
Good luck!
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reader, gtgw9090  +, writes (27 March 2009):
 Porn probably isn't the best career choice.
Do you honestly, really and truly want people watching you have sex?
Really? I have a hard time believing that.
Please think about this. Please.
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reader, guppypig +, writes (24 March 2009):
1) You should stop hanging around pedophiles.
2) You should discover that thing between your ears, encased in your skull, and seek to use it, despite the evident strain.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2009):
 Ask Mommy and Daddy to drive you to see an agent. I like to see young people who aim for the stars.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): Having lots of sex does not make a girl "loose". This is a misconception. Just saying.
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reader, pinkgoblin15 +, writes (24 March 2009):
 Umm alright uh first your not old enough so you will have to wait till your 18. But I would suggest waiting longer then that because look at how this would affect your family there neighbors would look at them and think there daughter is in porn. Plus your sex life after awhile would go down the drain because you would get really loose lol. Im not trying to say not do it im just giving you my imput. Im not really sure how you would get in porn but you would probably have to move to H.W for that. I hope you make the right decision that fits you best! Good Luck
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reader, InterCntlCHmp  +, writes (23 March 2009):
Make friends with someone else in the business (female star not a male producer) Learn from their mistakes and ask them for advice.
You shouldn't be sending pics out over the internet. Remember the internet is a reservoir of information and those pics you send will never ever go away. They will always be available. This could damage your would-be career several ways.
Also you should not be meeting up with people for 'all kinds of sex'. The least of which problems with this is how can you expect people to pay for the cow when your giving the milk away for free.
Also if you are going to get into porn or stripping be aware that there are not many porn actresses/ strippers who have a long and successful career. So bank everything you make because once your past 22 sweetie your male clients are onto the next best thing.
Also try and create a niche. The porn market is swamped with young girls who want to be the next Jenna Jameson. So make yourself stand out by doing unique porn.
Stay off drugs. Remember its a sleazy business. Bank your cash. Get a good accountant. And don't give your ass away for free to ANYONE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): you are soo underage. so no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): Wait till you are of legal age first. Then, speak to some real porn stars about what their lives are really like. There's a documentary called 9 to 5. It shows some who have made a success of porn, and some who are broken, empty shells of human beings whose lives are just tragic and empty.
Persoanlly at your age I think you don't properly grasp what it means to be in the adult entertainment industry. Being "a stunner" is all very well and good, but you have to be able to perform, do many difficult and degrading acts, and ultimately have thousands of people witness you doing it. Contrary to how it might seem, there is talent involved, and being horny and pretty is not all it takes. Most porn "stars" never actually make it, like regualr actresses, and have to do the worst work for the least money. Then, if they decide to do something more serious later in life, they have the risk of it coming back to haunt them.
And then, there is the fact that you are VERY young. You are asking for trouble having sex with strangers over the internet. I don't care if this hurts your feelings: what you are doing is stupid. PLEASE talk to your parents about this. If you're not ready to tell them your new career decision then of course you're not ready to show the rest of the world/strangers.
Very few porn stars make any money or become famous. Most of them burn out, some commit suicide, most get on drugs and do themselves harm, most get STD's at some point, some of them get TORN, some get stalked and beaten by "fans" etc etc.
Please, this is a stupid idea!
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reader, Meep! +, writes (23 March 2009):
I don't believe you're for real, but if you are, I can only warn you against this and ask WHY do you want to be in porn so much? It really is not as glamourous as it may sound.
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