I don't understand what he means
Q. Hey aunts. Ok so me and this guy have known each other for 4 yrs and we really good friends. At first we liked each other but due to certain things and people it ended. He knows that i still like him. Not long ago i stopped talking to him coz he ...
A. 28 December 2008: He seems very selfish. If he lied he should be the one writing a list of ways to say sorry not you writing a list of things you haven't done. This all sounds very selfish on his part and i'd be very cautious to trust him.... (read in full...)
Want to get rid of my by and feelings for my bf's cousin
Q. My son's father and I have been together for four years, and he is really starting to fall off; he's not working, taking care of himself and is becoming a miserable and angry person. However, I have been faithful for the length of our relationship ...
A. 28 December 2008: You said it yourself this relationship isn't working out. I have been in more than one relationship where i have wanted out but not acted on it but made myself miserable. I have also been cheated on many times. While you are still together you ... (read in full...)
I wish I could know how to get out of this complicated relationship. Help!
Q. Ten months ago, I started dating this guy. I barely saw him b/c he lived in another town. After two months he found out he was leaving to another city so he started acting different: he called me really late at night or didnt call at all, i ...
A. 28 December 2008: It sounds harsh but it seems like he has the best of both worlds. He hardly contacts you and when he does it's brief. It would seem he is in a relationship where he is but at the same time still is intersted in you. If he wanted a committed ... (read in full...)
Did I really start my period?
Q. Okay this is kinda awkward but I have been getting this brown discharge (it started last month for about a week) and I know that it means I'm about to start my period for the first time, well about two days ago it started again and today when I got ...
A. 28 December 2008: Yes most likely you have but when you first start it can be few and far between. Just be prepared, have plenty of towels/tampons and some pain medication. You will start to bleed heavier and more often but don't worry it's natural. You may get ... (read in full...)
What can I do in order for him to tell me what he thinks about our friendship?
Q. Idk what to do in order for him to tell me his information. He´s very secretive. The thing is we met like a year ago , he´s Air force and we did made click when we met,we flirted but we didn´t actually had any chance to do anything cuz he left sho...
A. 17 April 2008: I wouldn't bother. You are doing all the running. Does he eve contact you without you contacting him first. It seems to me his responses to you are very neautral out of respect for his family. He may feel uncomfortable about his wife and family ... (read in full...)
I would like to get to know him before I leave school, how to start the conversation? - I'm shy.
Q. Hi, I really like this boy in the year below me at school. Only im really really shy and not sure if he likes me back, im 18 and he is 17. He doesnt really know me right now, although he has acknowledged me at school a few times. Im leaving sch...
A. 17 April 2008: Perhaps try and find out what classes he's really good in. If you have any exams coming up, you could approach him and ask him for a little tuition to go over the subjects that aren't your strongest, saying that you need to go over what you learnt ... (read in full...)
I love him so much but he doesn't trust me and I feel jealous abut his friend-What should I do?
Q. Never in my life love someone like that the way I love my boyfriend well I don't think if I should call him my boyfriend cause thing are different between us now. When I wana talk about our relationships or sex life, he always he doest like talking ...
A. 17 April 2008: You hurt him and he's obviously not over this. If he was cheating he could be discreet but it seems to me his 'best friend' and he are doing their best to wind you up and think the worst. Relationships nee dtrust or they will never work. If he ... (read in full...)
I told her I liked her many times. I have her number but don't know what to say
Q. hi, Please please please someone help?? Basically, when i used to go to school, i really liked this girl who was 2 years below me, this is in upper school. I did't say anything as i was scared and all the rest. she use to smile at me ...
A. 17 April 2008: I hate to say this but it sounds like you're obsessed with nthis girl. You've like her for years but she's always been disrespectful to you and has always given the impression she doesn't want to date you so why waste the time. If she did give you ... (read in full...)
I'm going out with my ex's friend, is this okay?
Q. I have a boyfriend of 5yrs. We have a crazy relationship. On then off, then on again. Just recently we had a problem where we stopped talkin to for a couple of days. I decided to accept an invitation to dinner with a male friend of mines. But now my ...
A. 17 April 2008: By the fact that you say this guy likes you, it would be unfair to carry on going out with him while you are still with your boyfriend as it would give him the wrong impression. You need tosit down with both guys and talk seriously. Do you see a ... (read in full...)
Is LOVE evading me or do I have a chance?
Q. I have known LOVE for 10 years. LOVE is 26 yrs old while I'm 18 yrs old. Our dads are best buddies. Unfortunately, we didn't get the chance to meet up often as distance set us apart (we are frm different states). Besides, he's studying Medicine in ...
A. 15 March 2008: Just ask him straight out do you like me? what have you got to lose. from what you say, he does like you but perhaps he's worried about the distance? long distance relationships can work but only if you both want them to. Please ask him straight ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm going to be a virgin forever and if I do have sex, he'll just laugh at me!
Q. im 18 a female, i feel im going to be a virgin for ages, i dont want to get to 20 and still be a virgin, although i do value being a virgin but im just frightened i will be one for a long time and when i finally do have sex the bloke will laugh at ...
A. 15 March 2008: I lost my virginity at 16. I though at the time it was right. I was old enough to make my own decisions. I'm now married and i'm not saying i would have reserved my virginity for my husband, my boyfriend at the time seemed the ideal person to ... (read in full...)
She wants to have a break but I don't know how to play this...
Q. Hey guy's... I've been with my partner for 10 months and after a hard morning texting her we decided to meet after work and talk about things as the past 4 or 5 weeks have been tough, we've argued quite a lot, she's been changing her job as she's...
A. 15 March 2008: Does your partner know exactly how you feel about her? That's one thing you failed to say in your post. If she knows you love her and she says the same thing then you probably need time apart. If she doesn't know, then as a woman, the best thing ... (read in full...)
35 and single, what do I do?
Q. I'm 35 and not married. I feel like Bridget Jones. I'm tall, slim, attractive with blond hair and intelligent - have an amazing job, well paid and lots of friends. I have no idea what the secret to finding a man and having a long lasting ...
A. 15 March 2008: You seem desperate for love and men can detect that. Many men would be thankful to find someone like you but if you're good looking and know it, men know this and will find you intimidating. Just relax, be yourself and stop worrying about men. I ... (read in full...)
What are the signs for me to know she likes me?
Q. I'm friends with this girl I met her through a friend. I really like her we talk and have a laugh... But I don't know if she feels the same way so I don't want to ask her out and lose him as a friend.... she 1 year younger than me... Please help ...
A. 15 March 2008: At the end of the day. what have you got to lose. You could lose her as a friend but you could gain her as a girlfriend. Talk to you friend to get the gyst of how she feels. If she's not interested you can maintain the friendship but if she likes ... (read in full...)
I usually don't think about guys with boyfriends, but I can't help it.
Q. Recently, I have started to fall for this guy(17)I know from school and I really want our friendship to develop into something more romantic. For a while now things have been really flirty and we have got to know each other better. However, last ...
A. 19 November 2007: Agree to meet with him but you need to be honest with him. Tell him you like him but that while he's got a girlfriend, you'll respect her not to take things any further. He may feel the same about you but he must end it with his girlfriend first. ... (read in full...)
Which one of us is in the wrong?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for over 3 years now and just over a year ago we were going through a difficult time, always arguing etc, anyway we had a major argument and fell out but not properly and he kissed a girl at work (who i might add ...
A. 13 September 2007: You were both in the wrong. He was wrong for cheating and you were wrong for tricking him. The thing with pretending to be someone else to trap him is that the truth will always come out. You don't trust him and he no longer trusts you. Trust is ... (read in full...)
Please help! I'm 11 and want to know how to approach hugging and kissing my girlfriend
Q. Hi.im 11 and i've been going out with my girl for 3 weeks.i dont know how to hug/kiss my girlfriend.i also dont know how to tell her i love her....
A. 13 September 2007: Listen you're only 11 years old. What feels like love now is probably just infatuation, especially just after 3 weeks. You don't want to scare the poor girl off! Just take things slowly and let things develop naturally. As for hugging/kissing, ... (read in full...)
I know its wrong, but I am attraced to my best friend's fiance. Please help!
Q. I am a happily married 37 year old female and I am attraced to my best friend's fiance. I think he is attracted to me also. We always give a hug and a kiss when we see each other and I feel attracted to him. He always kisses me straight on the ...
A. 13 September 2007: You're both going to end up hurting those you love if you let this carry on. How would your best friend feel if she found out? You say you're happily married but if you're feeling like you want to stray then you need to take a deeper look at your ... (read in full...)
Why am I so paranoid?
Q. Am 18 and my b/fs 22 we’ve been together for almost 6 months now and I love him very much, he says he loves me too and I believe him. But I just cant seam to stop thinking that he will/is cheating on me and I get extremely jealous of other...
A. 13 September 2007: If you carry on like this, you will push your boyfriend into the arms of another. Like you, i was fed up of being cheated on and disrespected. You need to talk this over with your boyfriend. Explain how you;ve been hurt in the past and that you ... (read in full...)
Long distance and no affection for me, what should I do?
Q. I feel that my boyfriend is not affectionate enough. We are in a long distance relationship, and as much as I try to be sweet and nice with him; he does not seem to show the same affection towards me. I feel like he just talk to me 'cause he have ...
A. 13 September 2007: It seems that your relationship is pretty one sided. Back off for a while and wait for him to contact you and make the effort. If he doesn't then you'll know that he's not worth all the time and heartache. I've dated guys like this before but ... (read in full...)
Ashamed of my stretch marks, what's your opinion?
Q. i am an 18 year old virgin, who has never been in a relationship. the reason is because i have no confidence in myself. i have stretch marks all over my boobs, thighs and hips and im totally ashamed and feel discusting. i have met a lad, 21. who h...
A. 13 September 2007: I have to say i have loads of stretch marks and my body's not that great but i'm about to get married and my boyfriend loves me for who i am not what i look like. Many men feel uncomfortable with the "perfect" woman, they would rather have someone ... (read in full...)
Would getting in shape and getting a job make me more attractive?
Q. Looking for a womans advice here... I'm not in the best of shape (I'm not fat, but I ama bit above average), and I'm unemployed atm, I was wondering if I would appear more attractive to women if I got into bettr shape and landed myself a job. ...
A. 13 September 2007: As a woman i can honestly say, it doesn't matter how you look or if you have a job. Just be yourself and let your personality do the talking. Any decent girl will like you for you not what you look like or how much money you earn.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and in love with my 23 yr old married cousin! Help!
Q. Im 14 and in love with a 23 year old. Im 14 and in love with my 23 year old cousin. She is married, has two kids and is my cousin by law.We tell each other we love each other and flirt constantly. I know I should try to forget about her but i t...
A. 12 September 2007: What you're cousin is doing is dangeous. If you take it further she would be breakig the law and your families would be so hurt and would probably reject you. Is it really worth the risk? Why would you want to break up a family. Think about ... (read in full...)
I think I may be on the verge of a relationship with a girl who has just turned 18. Is it respectable to date a girl with this age gap?
Q. Hi, I'm 23 years old and I turn 24 in a couple of months. I think I may be on the verge of a relationship with a girl who has just turned 18. Is it respectable to date a girl with this age gap?...
A. 12 September 2007: My partner is 31 and i'm 24 so there are seven years between us but we've never been happier. He's the oldest guy i've ever dated but we've been together three years and are getting married in February next year. Age is just a number, as long as ... (read in full...)
My guy accuses me of having a friend with benefits, but I don't!
Q. i am engaged to a wonderful guy,and have been for a number of years,but lately things aint been to good,he constantly accuses me of having a friend with benefits,which is untrue and he is constantly suspicious of whatever i do,yet he`s made it quite ...
A. 12 September 2007: It seems to me like this guy is doing his best to push you away. In his heart he knows you're not guilty of cheating but he feels that if he keeps accusing you, you'll have enough and leave. I'm sorry to say this, but it seems his heart really is ... (read in full...)
Sex with my step aunt?
Q. i was wondering if anyone could help me with this question... my step aunt is really hot and i think she wants to have sex with me. i want to also but im not for sure. she is touching me sometimes and i like it. i dont know what to do....
A. 12 September 2007: She may only be your step-aunt but she is still a member of your family. This is far too close to home. You need to tell her to stop what she is doing as a lot of people could get hurt. Tell her you're flattered but that things cannot go any ... (read in full...)
We've been fighting for seven years. Can we work this out?
Q. Hi, well I am in a situation that I don't know how to get out of. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 years. All of 7 we fight. She is very aggressive, tempered. I am kind of scared of her but then again I'm not. Everyday we argue. ...
A. 12 September 2007: You must leave this woman right away. Love is displayed by kindness and trust, not violence and abuse. You are an abused spouse whether you like it or not. There are support networks out there who help men as well as women and you may benefit ... (read in full...)
We both want sex, but she loves me and I don't love her. Is this right?
Q. hey, im fifteen years old. I want to have sex with this girl. I think she pretty, sexy, and mad hott. we went out for a little bit and from that I got a blow job. Some issues arrose and I broke up with her. She's in love with me and I want to have ...
A. 12 September 2007: This girls things she wants sex because she believes you love her. Her first time should be special and with someone she can trust, not with someone who just wants to use her. Let this girl go and find someone who will respoect her for who she is, ... (read in full...)
I am with someone but pine for my ex. What am I to do?
Q. I was with this girl for 5 years and she decided to break it off with me out of no where and was dating two other men not even a week after. I was crushed but then met another girl that i met through a friend and it took a while but i ended up ...
A. 12 September 2007: The first thing you need to do is break it off with the one you're not happy with. Give yourself some space and time to think things over. You must have broke up with the girl you want for some reason in the first place and you need to consider ... (read in full...)
How can he go from declaring his undying love to not even returning a phone call?
Q. What should I think? I never really understood men.... I have had my ex text and call me for the past few months. Chatting about what was and what could be. We decided it was hard to make any plans without meeting up to see how we felt. S...
A. 11 September 2007: It seems to me that he was being selfish and wanted to boost his ego by wanting to see if he could still make you want him. I doubt this is the first time he's played with someone's heart and i doubt it will be the last. You're much better off ... (read in full...)
I feel like my ex is stalking me
Q. it feels like my ex is stalking me...let me explain hes constantly txting me and emailing me and generally harassing me and is always giving me dirty looks when i even tlk to another guy...its freaking me out like crazy...ive tried tlking to him and ...
A. 11 September 2007: I went through the same thing a few years ago but just put up with it. I realise how silly that was now. You have taken the first step by trying to talk to him. If that still fails to work, keep a record of every time he contacts you and what he ... (read in full...)
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