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I'm 14 and in love with my 23 yr old married cousin! Help!

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Question - (8 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im 14 and in love with a 23 year old.

Im 14 and in love with my 23 year old cousin. She is married, has two kids and is my cousin by law.We tell each other we love each other and flirt constantly. I know I should try to forget about her but i think about her all the time. Help?

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A female reader, honestheart United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2007):

What you're cousin is doing is dangeous. If you take it further she would be breakig the law and your families would be so hurt and would probably reject you. Is it really worth the risk? Why would you want to break up a family. Think about it...as a kid, how would you feel if someone came in and destroyed your parent's relationship?

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A female reader, kindhart03 United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2007):

kindhart03 agony aunthiya,poor you ,it must be so difficult to be feeling these feelings for your older cousin,and not being able to act on it ,unfortunatly she is a lot older than you and has a husband and children ,when you say she loves you ,that gives me cause for concern as this is inappropriate behavour from a woman of her age ,she shouldnt be stringing you along its wrong on so many levels ,i know you lot seem to grow up faster these days and mature earlier ,but if your cousin should act on her feelings she would be breaking the law ,and if you could get with her why would you think she would be a good cach for you ,if she left her husband for you and you ended up as a dad to her kids at 14 ,think about it.

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