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We both want sex, but she loves me and I don't love her. Is this right?

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Question - (12 September 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey, im fifteen years old. I want to have sex with this girl. I think she pretty, sexy, and mad hott. we went out for a little bit and from that I got a blow job. Some issues arrose and I broke up with her. She's in love with me and I want to have sex with her and she wants to do the same. We're both virgins and it would be our first time. The only problem is; we both want to do it, but she loves me, is it right for me to have sex with her?

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A female reader, war37 United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2007):

Hi dont do it,shes in love with you as it is and after sex she will be really inlove with you..........also the Baby thing many girls like to have babys these days so dont have sex until your older have found the right girl and the time is right as it should be special.Yes sure you want to have sex with each other but theres no rush.

If your feeling arent the same for her as hers are for you you will split eventually,if you have sex with her she will then just say you used her?

Take a step back from the sexual side of this relationship,tell her you want to wait until 16 if she wont then maybe she should come round my house and look after my 2 year old ;) x

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A female reader, L.O.S.E.R. Serbia +, writes (12 September 2007):

L.O.S.E.R. agony auntI agree with them all,don't do it mate!Become an ethical man haha.Look,you'll have plenty of chances to get laid in life,no need to take every one of them.You're just gonna hurt her a big time and it's wrong thing to do.I know you have it in you or you wouldn't waste time asking for advice online...Support to that

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007):

babe, if you're just looking for someone to have sex with, there are plenty of slutty girls out there. Don't use this innocent girl. She thinks you love her & she is going to be crushed when she realizes you've used her.

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A female reader, honestheart United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2007):

This girls things she wants sex because she believes you love her. Her first time should be special and with someone she can trust, not with someone who just wants to use her. Let this girl go and find someone who will respoect her for who she is, not her body.

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntwell consider what you are doing. Having sex with a girl whe "loves" you and be her first. Mostly 'cus shes mad hot and turns you on. Man ive felt like this before but its not the right thing to do. Think about her here. Shouldnt se have sex with someone who returns her love back to her. Do the right thing here.

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A female reader, princess_sparkle United States +, writes (12 September 2007):

It is absoultely not all right for you to have sex with her if you do not love her. You are both young and you need to save yourselves for the right person. believe me, if you guys do have sex, you will both wish you waited in the long run. You need to wait before making any hasty decisions about sex.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (12 September 2007):

What would a gentleman do? At the vary least consider her age and her lack of maturity. You must live with yourself.

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A male reader, DJ8433 United States +, writes (12 September 2007):

DJ8433 agony auntTalk with your uncle or another older man in your family that you trust. Have a chat with a female in your family as well. After that, ask yourself the question you are asking here. Then you will do what you need to do. If you think your old enough to have sex, then your old enough to be a man. A man makes his own decisions and then lives with the consequences.

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