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writes:hi, Please please please someone help?? Basically, when i used to go to school, i really liked this girl who was 2 years below me, this is in upper school. I did't say anything as i was scared and all the rest. she use to smile at me all the time cos i'm sure she knew i liked her! I really liked her and i think she knew. After which i saw her at a bus stop once and wanted to talk to her since i though i'd never see her ever again because i had left school. I though it would be my only chance ever! I went up to her and my mind went blank. I just came out with "I really like you" outa the blue!! like a clown!! she just laughed or you could say smiled and said "fuckoff", as like a clown i went up to her in my car!! yes, i'm stupid!! lol Then i went upp to her again to say "i'm sorry" the next day at the busstop, she said "okay", she said "was it you", i said yes. like a clown i said "i really like you" again!! yeah i know im stupiD!! lol Then i went up to her agin after a couple of months when she was in her car, i walked up to her and said to her, "can i have your number, i need to talk to you". She said why? I said "just?" She laughted and said "No"!! this has happened over 3 years ago. I can get her out of my head. I love her to bits, but dnt really knw her, again its crazy but i knw i love her, cos if i dont, then i dnt knw what love is!! I have asked people who might have knwn her, but everyone says they dnt see her no more, i recently got hold of her number from her cousin brother through facebook, who dosnt know that i like her and he dosnt really knw who i am. I just told him she use to go to same school as me and i wanted to talk to her. Well basiclly i have her number and want to tell her how much i care about her and love her to bits and want to be with her. I think about her 24/7. YEAH I'M CRAZY, i cant help it!! She has the most beautifull smile in the world. Every time i see her she makes me melt!! I havent seen her at all for this last year, or the year before really, and i mis her sooo much!! I guess i'm a weid shit, cos i dint think, and use to drive past her all the time just to see her baby face and gorgeous smile, she probably thinks im wierd too!! i really regret it know, just wish i could turn back time. I have her number but DON'T know what to say, as when i went up to her about three years ago and asked her for her number she said "NO"!! How should i talk to her, what should i say, i want to text her. I want to txt her but dont know what to say? And i don't know what to say if she asks me where did i get her number from? Please someone help, i don't know what to do. I'm dying everyday.
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reader, rally +, writes (18 April 2008):
rally is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks Becca, the thing is, i went up to her once and asked for a number, and she replied "No". So i dont know what to really say! If i say a school friend then she would say who? which school friend? lol!! I'm sure she does remember me, but she doesnt really knw me!! Please, would you write something out for me, that i could send her, cos i'm not good at stuff like this? Thanks you soo much..:) take care.
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reader, honestheart +, writes (17 April 2008):
I hate to say this but it sounds like you're obsessed with nthis girl. You've like her for years but she's always been disrespectful to you and has always given the impression she doesn't want to date you so why waste the time. If she did give you the time of day, she'd probably still be as rude and obnoxious. Okay she may be pretty but personality counts and would you rally want to be with someone that treats you like dirt. If she was interested she would have told you and tried to get in contact with you. I'm sure she's heard you've been tracking her. She may be scared as it's been a long time for you to be so obsessed with her and what you are doing is on the verge of stalking. You can get in trouble for this. There is probably someone who likes you and has done for a while but has felt unable to talk to you because of your fascination for this one girl. Forget this girl because your feelings will never be reciprocated, open your mind and heart to the possibility of other girls and i'm sure you'll find the woman of your dreams who will treat you how you deserve to be treated... with love and respect.
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reader, xXBeccaTxX +, writes (17 April 2008):
 You might love her,but she ,may not remember you...
Just text her and tell her you got her number off a school friend and that,of course,you know her from old school times.
Tell her you would like to get to know her as friends,Because you don't want to scare the shit out of her!! and ask if she wants to meet for a coffee...Once you get to know her enough as friends then just ask her out to the movies or something.
But you have to take it slowly,because,to her you may just be a strainger...
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