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writes:Ten months ago, I started dating this guy. I barely saw him b/c he lived in another town. After two months he found out he was leaving to another city so he started acting different: he called me really late at night or didnt call at all, i almost didnt see him at all for the following months and one day he wrote saying he didnt want to get too into me cuz he was leaving, and dat's why he started acting diff. I let it pass cuz for some reason, i juss cant get over him. And then we would talk like if nothing happened. Well when he left we never broke up but never said we'll keep on. He called me like five times in five months, nd guess what we juss talked ,like normal so imagine. A week before he came back for break, he called; i dint want to pick up but since he wouldnt stop calling i finally called back. He's always got the right words dat just make me forget we havent talked foreva and u noe. SO since he came i've seen him twice, he says he loves me and I know i LOVE HIM...but guess what, he's acting the same again, he hasnt called for two days nd i wont call him b/c he said he was gonna call me so. I'm sorry I don't want to bore you no more so my question is do you think I'm really stupid for letting pass his lack of care for me or is it just that I may have fallen in love with him. It's so hard for me just to let him out of my life b/c when we together I'm really happy and I just like him a lot, i know he likes me too, not sure if he really loves me cuz he dont show it but I wish I could know how to get out of this complicated relationship.
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reader, honestheart  +, writes (28 December 2008):
It sounds harsh but it seems like he has the best of both worlds. He hardly contacts you and when he does it's brief. It would seem he is in a relationship where he is but at the same time still is intersted in you. If he wanted a committed relatinship he would be in touch more often and you have to think are you willing to be part-time love no matter how much you may love him. you deserve someone who will be fully committed to you and be able to have a proper relationship togethe.
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