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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was with this girl for 5 years and she decided to break it off with me out of no where and was dating two other men not even a week after. I was crushed but then met another girl that i met through a friend and it took a while but i ended up dating her for a year but i broke it off with her and went back to my previous girlfriend of 5 years. Now i realize that i have made a big mistake and don't know what to do because i'm not happy like i thought i would be and no where near as happy as i was when i was with the other girl in just that one year. I don't have her number anymore but theres not a day i don't think about her, but i see her quite often but can't work up the nerves to talk to her let alone i wouldn't know what to say. What am i to do?
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reader, honestheart  +, writes (12 September 2007):
The first thing you need to do is break it off with the one you're not happy with. Give yourself some space and time to think things over. You must have broke up with the girl you want for some reason in the first place and you need to consider this before you approach her. If you find it difficult to approach her, why not try writing herr a letter telling her how you feel. Explain that you are willing to give her all the time she needs to think about what you write and leave your details so that she can contact you. If she doesn't contact you, then unfortunately you may just have to put this down as a lesson learned in love.
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