Help! Is there any way to get rid of the discomfort of wet dreams?
Q. I sometimes have wet dreams. It is very annoying and uncomfortable. My clothes get wet, some parts of my body gets wet and I've to clean my body parts and change my clothes. Those all are very uncomfortable for me. I don't want to bear such ...
A. 8 January 2010: Find some more private time and masturbate more. Hopefully doing this will discourage your brain from thinking about sex all the time even when you sleep, but there's no guarantee.... (read in full...)
My cheating wife says she wants her family back.
Q. I recently learned of an extramarital affair my wife was invloves in. I came home early to discover her texting on her cell phone. When I asked to see it she screamed empahtically no and ran into my 4 year old childs room. Upon convincing her I ...
A. 16 November 2009: Even if there wasn't sex involved it's still an affair. Your wife is trying to down play what she's done to you and your marriage.
Why are you living in hotels? You didn't cheat, you did nothing wrong.
Please ignore the other anonymous poster... (read in full...)
My cheating wife says she wants her family back.
Q. I recently learned of an extramarital affair my wife was invloves in. I came home early to discover her texting on her cell phone. When I asked to see it she screamed empahtically no and ran into my 4 year old childs room. Upon convincing her I ...
A. 16 November 2009: It doesn't sound like shes sincere. You caught her and she's only guilty she got caught, not that she was having an affair.
An affair is an affair, it doesn't matter if it's emotional only or physical.
It sounds like you need to destroy her l... (read in full...)
I like guys who look more feminine. Is this normal?
Q. Is it normal for a girl like me to be attracted to androgynous guys? (Like Johnny Depp or David Bowie) I'm 100% straight, but I just have this fetish for guys that are kind of feminine. Is that normal for a woman?...
A. 17 July 2009: Kevin Spacey is gay, he came out of the closet a couple of years ago, I remember reading an article about it.
Did you ever hear the term "Different strokes, for different folks"? That's because everyone's sexual turn on's are different. There's ... (read in full...)
How do you forgive and forget the lies and deceit?
Q. Two years ago my husband had an affair and ended it. The affair lasted about eight months. I didn't know about the affair, but I was suspicious about his whereabouts during that period. Against my better intuition, I chose to trust my husband at the ...
A. 17 July 2009: You don't forget, that's unfortunately the cross you bear by choosing to stay with a cheater. I'm comfortable in the decision I made to stay with my cheating wife because I know that if it happens again I will have no problem putting her out.... (read in full...)
One night stand with Lothario leads to pregnancy!
Q. I went on a girls night out a few weeks ago, had a good time, had fun, but unfortunately I couldn't resist the advances of a good-looking Lothario, and I slept with him. I didn't plan to sleep with him but was under the influence at the time. A se...
A. 17 July 2009: You're husband is being a little to cool headed about all of this, there's something else there that you don't know about. He may be cheating himself and now that you've done it as well and are pregnant because of it he's relieved and feels justif... (read in full...)
Should I take it now? How long does it take for the pill to work properly?
Q. How long does it take for the pill to start working properly? Im in a relationship with my bf, but we are waiting to have sex until I feel ready and until we have been together longer. Although Im not ready yet, I want to be prepared for whe...
A. 15 July 2009: Actually the last time my wife was on the pill the Doctor said that we should wait a month before having unprotected sex to make sure that it was fully working. Of course that was about 10 years ago so I'm sure the pill is better now. You shoul... (read in full...)
He's starting to spend all his time with his friends
Q. I've been with my bf for a little over 3 years. Things have always been pretty good Recently, he's gotten in touch with his friends from back home. Being the cool gf I am, I let him hang out with his friends. (even though he made me give up mine)...
A. 15 July 2009: Here is why you received the advice you did. Normally I would have suggested that you talk to him, but you've already said that you tried that nicely and he freaked out and called you controlling. So it doesn't sound like anything you say... (read in full...)
Why stay married if I don't feel loved? Then again, is divorce always the wrong choice?
Q. What is the main reasons of staying a marriage if it does not work? When is the limit of bad things? What if it's not bad enough to leave, but not good enough to stay? I have security, and stabilty. But I don't have affection, joy and fun. Am...
A. 13 July 2009: Divorce isn't always the wrong choice, but in your case I would make sure that you've exhausted all avenues before seeking that final definite ending to your marriage.
You need to ask yourself "Is affection all I'm missing from my marriage... (read in full...)
Why do men want to get me into bed, then forget about me??
Q. I am hoping to get some input on my dating situation. I am 33 mother of 2 boys that live with me, 10 and 12. I have been single for a few years now. I started dating about 6 months ago. I have met two guys that I really liked. Seems like ...
A. 10 July 2009: There's a good chance that the guy's you've met are married and they've only used you for a booty call. That's why they've ether stopped talking to you or toned everything down afterwords. I've never tried dating online so I don't have much ... (read in full...)
Why do men want to get me into bed, then forget about me??
Q. I am hoping to get some input on my dating situation. I am 33 mother of 2 boys that live with me, 10 and 12. I have been single for a few years now. I started dating about 6 months ago. I have met two guys that I really liked. Seems like ...
A. 10 July 2009: That's a tough one. But like Honeypie asked how long do you know them before you sleep with them? If it's pretty quickly then you probably give them the impression that you're just in it for the sex.
You also could be meeting the wrong kind of ... (read in full...)
We want to be porn stars!
Q. My girl friend and I want to be porn stars how do we tell our parents we want to do this for a living and how we get into porn we are only 18 ...
A. 10 July 2009: First of all there are hundreds and hundreds of men and women who want to be porn starts. You'd think that because it's porn it would be easy to get into, but it's not. Also be prepared for her to get in and you to not make it. I've heard tha... (read in full...)
I have a thing for my cousin's daughter
Q. I have a thing for my cousin's daughter. We are both single and we are far from children. She is very bright and interesting, and there is a physical appeal. We spoke recently at a party and she actually told my mother in a telephone conversation ...
A. 10 July 2009: What you really need to take into account here is how will your family react if you have a relationship with her?
And do you know if she really is interested in you in that way? Just because she told your Mom that she likes spending time with you... (read in full...)
What happens when a girl hasn't had sex in awhile?
Q. Hi. Just wanna know, what happens to a girl's vagina if she hasn't been having sex for a while? About seven months......
A. 10 July 2009: It forms a hard candy coated shell that can't be penetrated. :) Just kidding.
Nothing happens, which is the same thing that happens to your vagina between birth and the first time you have sex.... (read in full...)
What would be the outcome if I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a unprotected sex quite a few times. I know it was stupid as I have condoms and I have birth control pills which I choose not to take. Long story short - I am a dumb fifteen year old I suppose. I've been on this sit...
A. 10 July 2009: It wasn't a mistake, it was a conscious stupid decision, there's a difference. You're mother is angry because she doesn't want you to have to go through the same thing she did. Having an abortion is an extreme emotional and painful process.... (read in full...)
Why don't I want to have sex with either women or men?
Q. I have no real desire to have sex with a woman or a man. The only thing that gets me aroused is my own stomach and some other young men's stomachs who are just the right amount overweight. I just masturbate to myself. No other part of a body, man ...
A. 10 July 2009: Constant masturbation will significantly lower your libido. Now I don't know if you do it constantly or not, but if you do that could be one part of the issue.
Obviously you have sexual desires or you wouldn't masturbate. Possibly you have som... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting? Was it the alcohol making her behave this way?
Q. Question: Am I over-reacting? I know is that I have been in a period where I have cut myself off from friends and family. I think I've been trying to sheild them from how I have been feeling - or maybe I feel embarrassed. In any case I haven't f...
A. 9 July 2009: I don't think that you're over reacting, I think your GF is a user.
I know this is easier for me to say than you to do but you need to get out of this relationship now. Dump her like bad garbage. She loves to have you around when you're making m... (read in full...)
Help on Sex Positions please!
Q. i was wondering about when riding a guy during sex what do you do? because me and my bf want to try new positions, and me on top of him was what he suggested so how do i move? what do i do? thanks x...
A. 9 July 2009: Honestly guys are easy, if it's in we're happy. So when you're on top focus getting yourself to orgasm. Don't worry he'll be enjoying it too.... (read in full...)
I find my 19 year old step son attractive!
Q. Hi. I'm a 32 year old woman. i recently found myself attracted to my 19 year old stepson, and i am seriously trying to fight these feelings. i would never pursue him or make any moves, because i think it's wrong, and i love his dad too much, but i ...
A. 8 July 2009: First your husband is not going to be the only person that you're attracted to in the whole world. There are a lot of people out there and some of them are pretty nice to look at. So far you haven't done anything to show him that you think he's a... (read in full...)
I'm married, she's married, we're both unhappy and have an affair, should we keep it going?
Q. Hi I'm a 36 y.o man unhappily married with two beautiful girls ages 10 and 6. My lover, whom I met 9 months ago is also married she's 33 and has a teenage boy. My marriage has been on the rocks since about 3 years ago. thanks to my wife's me first ...
A. 8 July 2009: Cheating on your spouse is never an option even in a bad marriage. What you and the other woman have done is turn yourselves into cheating, sneaking, and cowardly people. Is that the type of person that you want to be known for? Because believe ... (read in full...)
How do I handle I like one girl but got another pregnant?
Q. Here's what happend. I'm in the military and I recently when on two sets of leave (vacation time): The first set of leave I went to a friends wedding out of state for four days and I met this great girl that I really like. We kind of hit it o...
A. 8 July 2009: Someone needs to throw you a condom. Do they not sell them in your state? Was the drug store or market out of them the day you decided to "hook up" for your one night stand and get someone pregnant. Were you unaware that wearing a condom helps to ... (read in full...)
Do all mothers care for their children no matter how old they are?
Q. Introduction: I'm in my early thirties and unemployed. I live with my parents adn because of lack of money and friends. I almost never go out except to church and to buy things for my family or do them favors. I'm not a kid person and my mother ...
A. 8 July 2009: First off a lot of parents disapprove of their childrens actions or hobbies. My mother to this day still hates it when I wear tank top t-shirts because they show my tattoo's, but I do it anyway. Second, why are you still living at home? I real... (read in full...)
He's starting to spend all his time with his friends
Q. I've been with my bf for a little over 3 years. Things have always been pretty good Recently, he's gotten in touch with his friends from back home. Being the cool gf I am, I let him hang out with his friends. (even though he made me give up mine)...
A. 8 July 2009: Unfortunately I have a guess, but you're not going to like it.
I did something similar to a girlfriend of mine many many years ago. The problem was I wanted to break up with her but didn't have the guts to do it to her face. So I was pushing ... (read in full...)
How can I protect my baby sister from my step dad?
Q. My mum has just had a little baby girl she's only 6 months, im really worried about her future and safety. My step father used to touch my other younger sister (17) when she was only 5.He told her he would kill her if she told my mum. But she did...
A. 7 July 2009: People like this don't stop molesting children. This will happen to your baby sister and since your mom won't do anything about it then you should.
My wife was in the same situation with her step dad, her mom knew what was going on but didn't d... (read in full...)
I get the most stimulation by having sex doggystyle...is this strange?
Q. Is this a fetish? Or is it strange at all? I like sex of course, all types of positions and with my partner. But it seems in all my relationships, even in high school, I always got the most stimulation from doggystyle. Sometimes I couldn't even ge...
A. 7 July 2009: Everybody likes different things, "Different strokes for different folks" is the phrase. It doesn't make you strange nor is this a fetish. That's like say that liking blonde women is a fetish, and it's not.
I personally like it when the girl is ... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair with a guy who has stopped contacting me! Is he over me already? Or just confused?
Q. I have been married for 13 years and have 2 children. My husband has had terrible bouts with alcohol and just recently decided to go to AA. I feel he is really trying, but I hold years of resentment from the pain he has caused my family ...
A. 7 July 2009: First repeat after me "It's not ok to cheat on my husband no matter what the circumstance". Now say that a few times out loud until it sinks in. You're now a cheater, and that's not a good place to be. You've now turned yourself into a liar and ... (read in full...)
Not having orgasm from sex. What's this about?
Q. I'm 16 and I've been having sex for over a year now. when I have sex I always feel pleasure from it but never have an orgasm. when I masturbate I always orgasm, quite quickly. Whats this all about?...
A. 7 July 2009: Certain positions provide different results and all women are built differently. Explain to your partner that you need more stimulation during sex, have him reach down and rub you with his hand, or you can do it as well during sex. That way y... (read in full...)
She's ignoring me over a misunderstanding, so should I keep trying or forget about her?
Q. My girlfriend recently broke up with me. It is kind of a long story so I won't get in to all of it but long story short she misubderstood something I said, took it as being a control freak said it brought up a red flag. She agreed to talk to me last ...
A. 7 July 2009: Move on, if she blew up over a misunderstanding or something small then it was probably her way to leave you. Most people don't have the guts to tell the person they're with that they want out of the relationship so they'll create an argument and ... (read in full...)
We're both married, but I think there is an attraction between us. What to do...or not do?
Q. I am writing to ask your opinion about my friendship with a married man. I am married also, and over the last couple of years we have become quite friendly. We only see each other about once a week very briefly at school to say a few words, and we e...
A. 7 July 2009: Yes, stop working on a relationship with another married man. Are your morals really that low? Why would you break up your family and his for something that could turn out to be nothing in the long run?
If you want to start dating, or hate the... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my weight?
Q. i have one question. i am 5"0 and i weigh about 79 my family and friends are worryed bout me but i don't make myself thow up i eat normaly i am a vegatarian so idk if this is bad. any help?...
A. 7 July 2009: Being under weight is just as bad as being over weight. If you're not doing anything specific to keep your weight so low then I would have your family take you to a doctor. You can discuss with him/her your options for gaining a few healthy pounds ... (read in full...)
Are your weight and wrinkles related?
Q. dear aunts!! Im 24 and I can see some fine sines of wrinkles around my eyes while laughing!!! Due to this im bit tensed and dont want to laugh loud!!! Im bit thin am 45kg. Does the weight have any connection with wrinkles??can you give me some tips. ...
A. 7 July 2009: Some people are just more prone to getting wrinkles faster than others, like how some people go gray at a young age. Most of them are just laugh lines.
Try some of the hydrating creams that are out on the market, they do wonders for softenin... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife have a fling?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 12 years. We married young and both have had few partners before marriage. My wife is starting a bit of a mid life crisis and wishes she had played the field a little more when younger. I am afraid that it will ...
A. 7 July 2009: No, never allow that. Marriage is built on trust and respect, if she goes out and sleeps with another man then that is gone. You could try swinging, but it takes a special kind of couple who can do that without fracturing their relationship. ... (read in full...)
I cheated, I regret it, and I want her back!
Q. im need of help my girlfriend of 5 yr also lived me as gone and left me she found out i cheated on her which ive said im sorry and i honestly do regret it she does mean the world to me and i just dont know why i cheated on her back in march and a ...
A. 7 July 2009: This is going to sound mean, and I guess it it, but I always try to be as honest as I can on this board, so here it goes. You don't deserve her, if you cheated before the chance that you'll do it again is really high, especially since it sounds ... (read in full...)
She makes plans with other guys and then lies to me about it!
Q. i Hve been in a relationship with my gf for about 4 years. The main issue in the relationship is trust. Specifically about other men. My gf has this tendency to make plan to meet with guys for beer or conversation, but oftentimes lies to me about ...
A. 7 July 2009: Now is the time to get out. If she's cheated before and she's still meeting guys on the sly then she's probably cheating now. She is probably trying to find another guy while keeping you in the wings so that she won't be alone. Relationships ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date your best friends brother?
Q. Hi, needing some advice. Nothing has happened yet but I want to get some advice before it does so that maybe I have a better idea of what I'm doing. A few months ago my best friend went away abroad for a year - shes studying abroad. We're r...
A. 7 July 2009: I'm not a woman so in your situation I can't be exact, but I'll throw the male point of view into it. :)
If my best friend wanted to date my sister, then I would really like him to ask me first out of respect. Hopefully your friend won't ha... (read in full...)
Can pre cum make you pregnant?
Q. What if a male produces a lot of precum, and he only inserts half of the head of the penis into the vagina... is there any chance that she is pregnant? or what if he has precum on his fingers and inserts his fingers into the vagina...?...
A. 1 July 2009: If it has sperm in it, then yes it'll get someone pregnant.... (read in full...)
We live very far apart, attracted to each other, but neither wants to move..so why is she acting this way?
Q. Long question, sorry. 2 parts actually. Part 1: I just got out of a 7 year relationship a little over a month ago. I left her due to a drinking problem she had (binge drinker, angry drunk). How long should I sit on the sidelines of the dating wo...
A. 30 June 2009: Some times the dream is better than the reality. I'm sure you care for her, but remember there are lots of "dream girls" out there for you. And there is no specific time line one can follow to know when they're ready to date again after a br... (read in full...)
Are we two freaks or do other couples act this way?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We do have kids. My wife has always been more on the conservative side. I have always hoped that she would try to open up more sexually with me. Try new things etc. but was afraid to ask. One night...
A. 29 June 2009: Yep, you're freaks, just kidding. :)
There is nothing wrong with sprucing up your sex life with new things. Seriously after you've been with someone for many years any position that you use over and over again can become very dull. I'm 37 and h... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get into a relationship!
Q. I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life generally. However, the one thing that I can't seem to get is a relationship. Some women seem to think I'm a gay man just because I'm sensitive, kind and caring - however, it's my personality and that's the w...
A. 29 June 2009: I only brought up acting gay because you've said that girls have mistaken you for a gay male. Of course that could also be because they don't feel like you're trying to get into their pants every second of every day.
No, it's not somethin... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my boyfriend won't want to try again after miscarriage in unexpected pregnancy.
Q. Had an unexpected pregnancy with partner when our relationship was quite rocky. A shock to us both, he especially had a really hard time coming to terms with it, and was really unhappy and unaccepting for the first several days. He said he was ...
A. 29 June 2009: Try getting married first, if he won't marry you then why would you want his child? That doesn't make any sense, if he won't commit to a marriage then why do you think he'll be a good provider and father to your child?????... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get into a relationship!
Q. I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life generally. However, the one thing that I can't seem to get is a relationship. Some women seem to think I'm a gay man just because I'm sensitive, kind and caring - however, it's my personality and that's the w...
A. 29 June 2009: Even if you can or can not verify if the girl you just met really has a boyfriend would it make any difference? If she doesn't are you going to stalk her?? No, so if she say's she has a BF that's just her polite way of saying she's not interested. ... (read in full...)
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