My hair is fallling out, I keep getting headaches and feel sick, my partner says he will leave me if these are signs of pregnancy, help!
Q. Okay, I have a problem here. My hair is falling out, and I keep getting these headaches at around 5:00 PM and then again at like 11:00 PM, never in the morning, also the second i wake up i feel really sick to my stomach, and then though out the day ...
A. 14 October 2008: Do a pregnancy test asap. Believe me - you don't have to have 'a feeling' - take it from someone who's been there.
Next, if you are pregnant, you need to decide what to do because, frankly, your bf sounds like a complete toerag. It takes 2 to mak... (read in full...)
My Ex-Girlfriend is lying, I want to confront her but how without letting on that I've been spying!!!?
Q. My Ex Girlfriends Lies yesterday (tue 23rd) my ex girlfriend walks through the door after work to say she got a phone call from a lad from manchester a friend of hers so i thought nothing of it at first until i noticed she was trying to hide h...
A. 24 January 2007: Well, it took some time to make sense of your message but here goes:
Mate, she is your EX!!! Which means she can see who she likes, when she likes and it is none of your business. If you can't handle this then just stay away from her.
Checkin... (read in full...)
What does it mean when the girl breaks it off but says she wants to be your best friend ?
Q. What does it mean when a girl breaks off with you after 4 months and wants to be your "best friend" and writes a msg saying i care soo much about you and i'll alwayz be there for you? thanks...
A. 18 September 2006: She wants to end the relationship but can't face losing you from her life altogether. You have to decide whether it will be too hard to stay friends with her, having only a platonic relationship after being romantically involved.
From past expe... (read in full...)
We want a FUN evening date!! - any ideas?
Q. Does anyone have any exciting date ideas? Something that will make us both laugh together and be lots of fun? We want to do something exciting Friday night, but i just cant think of anything to do in the evening that fits the bill. I can thi...
A. 8 September 2006: Do you know what....my boyfriend and I had the same predicament a few months ago. We've been together ages and hadn't done anything 'fun' for a long time - just the same boring day-to-day stuff. So we went to a theme park for the afternoon and had ... (read in full...)
Been having an affair for the past 5 years, he says he loves me but he won't leave his wife!
Q. I am 28 and been involved with a married man for the past 5 years. I love him to bits. He won't leave his wife but he says he loves me! What should i do? ...
A. 8 September 2006: This man doesn't love you - he loves having 2 women on the go to fulfill his every selfish need. Do you honestly think after 5 years he is suddenly going to up-sticks and leave his wife for you? Trust me, you're flogging a dead horse with this one ... (read in full...)
Should I trust the man who had an affair with me?
Q. After having an affair with a married man for three and a half years, am I a fool for trusting his word on anything? I have just found e-mail correspondence from him to another young woman which seems perfectly innocent, but is this man incapabale ...
A. 8 September 2006: You say you find it difficult to believe he can be such a convincing liar, yet how do you imagine he's managed to keep your very lengthy affair a secret from his wife?????
This man cannot be trusted and you should get rid of him. He say's he... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a much older man. What should I do?
Q. Recently I found out that my 15-year-old daughter is is dating a 46-year-old man. She's not planning to marry him or anything; just dating him. However, the 31-year age gap makes me shiver; I fear that this guy is up to no good. How do I bro...
A. 4 September 2006: I'm not suprised you're concerned. What kind of 46-year old man dates a 15 year old. If it were my daughter I'd be on the phone to the police. Seriously.... (read in full...)
I was sprung when I sent a text to a girl who's not my partner!
Q. I sent a text message to a girl and my partner found it on my phone. It read "hello sexy,when r u back in town ?". What do I do ?...
A. 17 October 2005: Not a great deal you can do except start crawling big-time in order to save your relationship. Face it - you've been caught and it serves you right. Start apologising now if you don't want to lose your girlfriend. Some flowers and an expensive meal ... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on the hot, funny and intelligent guy I work with?
Q. I have a bf have been with him for three years in November but I am not sure how I feel about him anymore because I find he is too controlling and we have not much in common. I just started a new job and have met this new really gorgeous, funny, i...
A. 7 October 2005: This man sees you as nothing more than an easy lay and you are going to end up very, very hurt. You have absolutely thrown yourself at him, massaging his ego like crazy, and he basically knows you are a sure thing. All that crap about him being ... (read in full...)
Eight years ago, he thought I was "beautiful" and sexy. Now he says I just don't do it for him. Help!
Q. I've been in a relationship for over 8 yrs. I really love my BF but am a bit disappointed in the way he allows me to be the man/women in the relationship. I feel I do everything. I would like to take a step back and let him look after me for a wh...
A. 7 October 2005: Take it from someone who knows - I was in a relationship with a shit like this for 5 years. What you've said is virtually parallel to the way he treated me. He never came near me and made me feel bad about myself. I found out he had cheated on me ... (read in full...)
When we met, we told each other all about our pasts. It turns out he didn't tell me even half of his!
Q. Hello agony aunts, I have a problem. I can't deal with my boyfriend's past. Well, we've been together for 3 years and it's been a happy 3 years. I was a virgin when I met him. He wasn't which wasn't an issue in the beginning. Before we had sex we a...
A. 6 October 2005: I can understand why this has upset you so much but you need to get a little perspective. Despite the fact that he lied, your boyfriend sounds like a nice guy (and they are few and far between). I would hazard a guess and say that the reason he lied ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's joining the Army. Should I accept his proposal of marriage?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for the past 6 months. In January (3 months time) he's planning to join the army and will be away for months at a time. Recently he asked me to marry him, and I'm not sure if it's what I want to do. My friends ...
A. 6 October 2005: Don't even think about accepting a proposal after just six months with this guy - especially as you are still young. I think you already know it would be a mistake - you wouldn't have written this letter otherwise.
A couple of friends of mine made... (read in full...)
Nobody's really good enough for me!
Q. OK, so you're so gonna hate me for saying this but I'm genuinely in distress. My problem is that I've never had a boyfriend, not because I'm ugly or weird, but quite the opposite. I've never met anyone who I feel is good enough for me. To say I'm ...
A. 5 October 2005: This is a wind up right? If not I feel bloody sorry for you. You're going to find it hard to find somebody who will ever be as in love with you as you are with yourself. Contrary to what you think nobody is perfect and your attitude stinks. It's ... (read in full...)
After my husband's affair, and dealing with my own problems, I'm fed up with my marriage and my kids!
Q. I am married with three kids. I have been married for 15yrs now. I'm 32, yes just 32. I got my parents to give me permission to marry. We have had a hard life with finding ends meet but we have and still are putting up with it. The thing is 2 1/2...
A. 5 October 2005: It sounds like you've had a very tough time of it over the last few years. With your husband's infidelity and your subsequent sad losses, I'm not suprised you are starting to feel so thoroughly miserable and lost. Have you spoken to anybody about ... (read in full...)
We've both been cheating on our partners, and last weekend, we almost got caught!
Q. Hi all. I am in a seriously confusing situation, and I need all the help I can get. I have been in a relationship with Bill* for almost 3 years, and its always been unstable, we fight almost every day, and never agree on anything. We've broken up ...
A. 4 October 2005: First of all I think you need to address your situation with Bill. You two are obviously going nowhere and whatever happens with Paul, I think you should just break it off with Bill.
Once you have addressed that issue, you need to have a seri... (read in full...)
Can I get my ex back from his pregnant girlfriend?
Q. I really like my ex boyfriend still, but the problem is now he has met someone else and she has fallen pregnant. He says he likes her but gives me signals he likes me too. I still really miss him. I just don't know what to do. I want him back....
A. 3 October 2005: As hard as it is, this man is now expecting a child with another woman and I think you should try to accept this and move on. I know it must be very difficult for you - especially if you were together a long time - but do you want to be the woman ... (read in full...)
My relationship with my friends is starting to change, and I'm getting the blame...
Q. I've got two best friends and we've known each other since we were about 4 years old (we're all 17 now). Recently, one of my friends (*Dee) has got a boyfriend and she spends all of her time with him, and as a result, me and my other friend ...
A. 29 September 2005: This all sounds very 'school-yard'. Dee sounds like she is very jealous and you should confront her about her childish behaviour. Explain to her that she has a boyfriend now and just because you and Shannyn hang out whilst she is with him, doesn't ... (read in full...)
Three in a bed and we were all drunk. I swear I thought it was my boyfriend touching me!
Q. I have done a really bad thing and I just don't know what to do! The other night my Boyfriend of 4 and a half years and myself stayed with one of our very close male friends. We shared his bed, which we have done before. I was in the middle. We w...
A. 27 September 2005: This is not your fault. This guy took advantage of you and I don't believe this nonsense about him not realising what he was doing. He knew exactly what he was doing. He was testing the water and if you'd have responded positively I have no doubt he ... (read in full...)
Should I help out my engaged friend by having sex with him?
Q. I really want a engaged man!! We have spent the night together after a few drinks and have been out a lot. After that we are so good togther! His fiancee lives miles away and he tells me how much he needs sexual attention all the time as he hasn'...
A. 20 September 2005: The fact that you are even writing this letter tells you your answer? Why don't you put yourself in her shoes? How do you think she would feel if she knew about this? How hurt do you think she'd be. Don't be sly and don't be the other woman. Tell ... (read in full...)
My 16-year-old son wants to marry his girlfriend... soon.
Q. I am concerned about my 16 year old son who has expressed the desire to marry his girlfriend soon. What problems will he face if he marries now? Thanks, Janet...
A. 20 September 2005: Your son is far too young to be getting married - somthing I'm sure you already know or you wouldn't be posting here!! I think all you can do is gently try to dissuade your son from making, what will more than likely be, a huge mistake. You could ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm nothing more than a slave to my boyfriend in prison!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. He has spent most of our time with each other in jail though, and the thing is, when he is at home we are great together. I couldn't have been happier but the way he is now is changing the way I feel ...
A. 20 September 2005: Deep down I think you already know the answer to your question don't you? This guy sound's like complete scum. Things might be great when you're together, but the fact that this man has spent the majority of your relationship in prison just smacks ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cries... And cries... And cries...
Q. i think my girlfrend crys too much, i want to have more sympathy but i find it hard. I realised that my sympathy ran out when she was crying because she was ill and she 'dident have time to be ill'. Surely no one has time to be ill? and crying will ...
A. 7 September 2005: I think you should have a good talk with your girlfriend as she's probably one of two things:
1) An attention seeking drama queen - in which case is she worth the hassle?
2) Stressed out - this could be making her weepy. Has she always been lik... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid after my dream about my sometimes violent fiancee?
Q. i am about to get married and last night I had a dream that i was confronted by a woman who had sexual relations with my fiance recently. I know it is my subconscious going crazy but it has brought up issues from our lengthy relationship where many ...
A. 7 September 2005: You are not being paranoid. you should think very seriously before committing yourself to this man for the rest of your life. I cannot tally your comments about his lying, his infidelity and worse, his violence, with your end statement about him ... (read in full...)
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