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writes: OK, so you're so gonna hate me for saying this but I'm genuinely in distress. My problem is that I've never had a boyfriend, not because I'm ugly or weird, but quite the opposite. I've never met anyone who I feel is good enough for me. To say I'm stunning is an understatement, I have a fantastic personality and I have a wealth of great friends surrounding me. I have an amazing sense of humour and am smart and beautiful. In all my life I have never met a guy who can match this, and why would I want to settle for someone who is less perfect than I am, after all, I am pretty perfect!!All I'm asking for is some help in finding someone as hot and amazing as I am- (like what do I do?, where do I go?), although I think it's a pretty tall order!! Thanks guys, loveya x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 October 2005):
 Hey chickie, forget about finding a guy. Just take yourself down to the closest HomeDepot (or the like) and buy yourself lots and lots of mirrors, cover the walls and ceilings! Or you could pay someone to bust up your perfect face and solve that part of the problem real fast. Just a couple ideas....
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reader, Green_Eyez +, writes (5 October 2005):
This is a wind up right? If not I feel bloody sorry for you. You're going to find it hard to find somebody who will ever be as in love with you as you are with yourself. Contrary to what you think nobody is perfect and your attitude stinks. It's great to be self-confident but you are beyond the pale. Grow up and realise that people don't have to fit into your warped idea of 'perfection'. You aren't perfect and your post emphasises that massively.
You will NEVER find love until you loosen up a bit and accept that everyone - even you - has flaws. It's what makes us who we are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2005): I agree..this posting has got to be just a prank. I cannot believe anyone could honestly write such drivel.
If you are this egotistical & vain, girl-then you don't need a guy..because you're too much in love with yourself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2005): Come on guys this post has to be a joke. There is no such thing as perfect. You really can't be perfect if you think you are. That is a huge flaw itself! With an attitude like that then you will never meet a hot guy with a hot personality, coz he will be turned off!
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reader, pops +, writes (5 October 2005):
Beauty is really only skin deep. Remember the man who was looking for the perfect wife. He found her years later, but they did not marry. She was looking for the perfect husband. YOu have turned that story around, but you still face the same dilemna. I think you have to look deeper, and get beyond the perfect smile, the ten thousand dollar teeth, the perfect tan, etc. in a man, and look for a man who you respect- and you don't seem to respect many men at all- who is able to hold an intelligent conversation with you on a variety of subjects, who is interested in learning more, and is interested in you. If he is willing to put up with your ego, and narcissism, you have a winner. Many of the rich guys you may meet because you are a model, are trust fund babies, without a brain of their own, and simply floating along on daddy's money. Because they are rich, they are used to getting any girl they want. There are still too many pretty gold diggers out there. As you get older, they get younger. Find someone who is working hard to make his own living, but for whom money is not the only reason for being. getting there as a couple is what makes having a partner worthwhile. Take another look at John Waynes shameless ripoff movie McClintock, that takes the story for Taming of the Shrew, and puts it in a westen setting. There is a scene in the movie where he is talking to his daughter about what he is going to leave to her and a prospective husband, and why it won't be his entire fortune. Its worth hearing again. Good luck. There really is a Mr. Right out there for you. But he may be a poorly paid University professor. Stop looking in all the wrong places.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2005): How can you be so heartless? You need to grow up, girl! Relationships cannot be based on physical attraction alone! There's more to life than that. You need to realise that you will fall in love with a guy whom you get on with, whom you like just the way he is! Quite frankly I could not believe my eyes when I saw your question. How could you go on and on about how great you are? If that's all you do, then it is no wonder you can't see people's good qualities! Cos you're too busy counting your own supposed qualities.
If you carry on the way you are right now, TRUST ME, you will NEVER get a boyfriend. Stop being so stuck-up, start being friendly and you'll find someone you have lots in common with- in no time!
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reader, pdude +, writes (4 October 2005):
Let's us date each other. I have the same problem :-). I understand your point that at times a person is so complete, he/she hardly finds someone who matches up. Sometimes being perfect or close to it can be dangerous as well.
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reader, kelly16 +, writes (4 October 2005):
K high opinion of urself but that's a good thing, hun mayb u sud stop judging boys on looks and look personality wise, that's sumthn iv experienced, not all good looking guys are sweet and romantic, i'm not telling u 2 jus settle down with any1 but mayb u sudn b so jugemental, looks ain't everythng, why don't u get 2 know a boy and u might fall in luv with his sense of humour and personality, i undastand wot ur saying though coz i used 2 b da same, but honestly ur gona spend ur whole lyf looking 4 dat ryt boy,im sure u r pretty and everythn, but rememba not every1 is blessed wid good looks instead their blessed with sumthn else, thnk bout it hun.xx
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