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*etright11
writes:OK. so i just found out this senior has been spreading rumors about him screwing me. before he found out that i knew that he would smile at me, and try to talk to me. now that he knows i know he can look me in the eye. now he just looks at me nervously like i know(which i do) he also tells his friends me and him do stuff together. um now his friends are trying to really figure out whats going on. and one of them has been following me and my friends around trying figure out what we talk about. i was thinking i could just go along with it, because i really like him. would u ever go out with a guy that went out of his way to get your atention? hes a good guy in all but i just dont know what to do? because all i do is talk about him and stuff. well i do like him. im just confused what he wants me to do next? ok btw im freshman. and idk why he chose me, cuz alot of girls like him.so what should i do?
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reader, getright11 +, writes (19 January 2009):
getright11 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thats really GOOD advice.
but the sick thing about it is that i like that attention. sort of. & i know hes really into me, but hes just really shy so thats why he decided to make rumars about me. he is a good guy and not everyone knows about it. only like tight people know and like the otheres dont. you know what i mean?
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reader, getright11 +, writes (16 January 2009):
getright11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis boy is 17years old. & people do look at me like "did you really have sex with him" and guys would look at me like"dammmnnnn hoe" or something. i just dont know what to do. no other guy will approuch me becuas he already marked his terrortory on me.... im stuck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): 1st of all I would tell you to be very careful, this guy is a senior but the way he is behaving is more like a 13 year old boy, why would he need to go around telling people he slept with you if he didn’t do that? Do you know what something like that could do to a girl’s reputation? Girls as young as you don’t always realize it but just that rumor that he has slept with you could change you and your whole life, a bad reputation does not go away its like a shadow that will follow you through out your life, if this guy was boyfriend material and he cared about you like a boyfriend should he would never ever have spread that horrible lie about you, I know that him saying he had sex with you might make you think he is saying I like her but he is actually saying I concurred that girl, and no do not play along with his sick game, if you think that he likes you because he said he had sex with you, can you imagine how much he must love his hand then? ? ? The only point I am trying to make is that sex is not a way of showing someone how you feel, first look at his actions does his actions tell you that he cares for you? Yes he does probably think you are a beautiful girl but what he’s doing is turning you into something you are not, people will look at you and think that you slept with him, and he is not even your boyfriend, you don’t know what this guy could be telling people, for your own sake rather not entertain him, don’t let this biog mouth boy ruin your reputation, stop him before it is to late, if I may ask how old is this boy anyways
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