His mother's comments have put a huge hole in my confidence about our relationship
Q. My boyfriends mother invited me round for dinner while my boyfriend was away, and got talking about various tings, after a few drinks she asked if we were using 'extra protection' as my boyfriend has a son from a previous relationship that wasnt ...
A. 4 August 2009: I think your trying wayy too hard to prove that you are different from your bf's ex. I commend you for encouraging him to see his son, you seem like a real nice person and to be honest he should be thanking his lucky stars that he found you. Your bf ... (read in full...)
I met his his parents, and it didn't go too well! How do I deal with it next time?
Q. I am so confused right now, I dont know what to think or make of the situation I am. Firstly let me start by saying I am 19 years old and my bf who I have been dating for over a month now, is 24. I recently met all of his family. However I...
A. 5 July 2009: its never a pleasant experience meeting a bfs parents but uve only been with him a month. I wish i never met my ex's parents soo soon. You should just get to know eachother first before dealing with the families. My exs family had such profess... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my BF and risk the social awkwardness or say no?
Q. My boyfriend has just invited me out to a "works night out". He has just started working at the place. This is the first time i have been invited to one, normally he doesn't bother asking. I would love to go but i am a bit worried about a couple of ...
A. 2 July 2009: You need to calm down, you should be thinking you must be really important to him for him to want you there. I wish my ex was like that. Im 20 and i get ID'd and to be honest if i that comfortable with my bf i wouldnt be emabrassed that i got id'd ... (read in full...)
Someone please help! I don't know what to do about my ex-boyfriend!
Q. Hi I broke up with my boyfriend that I have been seeing on and off for the past 4 years he treated me terrible not just terrible but how noone should ever be treated! he sprayed me in the face with pepper spray, he slit all my tires, he called me ...
A. 2 July 2009: no ur not crazy, i split from my ex four months ago, he was horrible but if i thort he was with someone else my stomach would turn. The only thing thats got me through that is whoever is with him next will be treated just the way i was and i feel ... (read in full...)
15, 7 months pregnant and afraid mom is stressing out my baby!
Q. im 15 and 7 months pregnant.me and my boyfrind are so happy together,and he always helps me out when ever he can. but something has poped up that he cant help me with.my mom.i know she loves me but what she is doing isnt right.see me and her argue ...
A. 29 June 2009: There must be issues bewteen you and your mum that are much deeper because you are only 15 pregnant and want to get married. Your mum must be very worried about you, you need to put yourself in her shoes.
Imagine in 15 years your child is in the s... (read in full...)
I don't have any faith or confidence in myself since the breakup
Q. Thank you in advance to anyone who can offer me some good advice, I really appreciate it. Im sorry for the length, I just want to make sure you understand my situation. I am now in my second year of college and just getting over alot of really h...
A. 1 June 2009: yeh the first love is so hard to get over, mine dumped me out of the blue too coz of his parents, been having some help to deal with it, but he wont leave me alone.
Good for you sorting your life out, maybe you could ask him out as friends ... (read in full...)
Worried about getting braces!
Q. Sorry if this is really long and bores you but I really need some advice. I've had a lisp since I've first learned how to talk, well it isn't a lisp it's with my t's and d's and I use the roof of my mouth to say them and not the back of my teeth but ...
A. 28 May 2009: i had braces when i was 16 for a couple of years, they will really help your teeth, mine were bad b4 i had them and im sooo glad i decided to have them. I wont lie they really hurt for a few days when you have them at first, i was in agony, but im ... (read in full...)
Hurt,confused, angry, sad & lonely all because of him!
Q. I am 20 years old and this guy and I have been going together off and on for 3years. Last year for my b-day he gave me a ring and told me it was b/c he really loved me and cared for me and wanted me to kno that we were in a serious ...
A. 25 May 2009: well obviously the relationship is just not working. Its very hard to hear that the person you love has slept with someone else, together or not. You have got to think can you forgive because sometimes you might love a person with all your heart but ... (read in full...)
We broke up but are still friends, she wants this, I'm very uncomfortable about it
Q. i broke up with my girlfriend a month ago....she was(and still is) deeply and madly in love with me whereas i soon realised that she isnt the one i am looking for....so before it got too late, i broke it off without any warning and she was ...
A. 23 May 2009: you did the right thing by breaking up with her because you dont feel the same way as she does. However, if you keep talking to her and calling her, telling her about the good times, you are hurting her to the core. I feel so sorry for her, she must ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend falls for fake dating site profile, how to confront him?
Q. Hi there I need some advice please. I met this guy on an internet dating site we have been together about 3 and a half months and it was going well until I realised he was still checking the site everyday, I was doing this as well but I deleted...
A. 23 May 2009: You should have told him straight away instead of acting as normal but its too late now you need to confront him as soon as possible and ask him how serious he is about your relationship. Its a good thing you didnt snoop he would have prbz chucked ... (read in full...)
He doesn't understand that I'm quiet and that's my way of dealing with things
Q. My boyfriend thinks i'm avoiding his friends but i'm not, i just feel awkward around people i dont know. I've always been the same, i'm very quiet at first and i dont speak unless im spoken to. When i'm comfortable in someones company i will add my ...
A. 23 May 2009: You shouldnt be pressured into meeting your boyfriends mates. I wasnt fussed on my ex's friends, the first time i met them, it was in a house party and my ex went upstairs and drank on his own with his best mate and left me with a bunch of ... (read in full...)
Never been kissed, never had a g/f!
Q. I don't know whats wrong with me i'm 18 and never been kissed i've never had a girlfriend.i've had a few friends who are girls but nothing happened i have very low self esteem and don't think highly of my self i'm not good looking and a bit over ...
A. 23 May 2009: your only 18, i wouldnt worry, im 20 and had my first bf at 19, thort id never have a bf coz i had such low self esteem, until u feel good about urself and learn to love your self for who u r, u will find somebody special. One day you will meet a ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or is it a joke? And how do I make it more obvious I like him?
Q. I am really confused right now. I like this guy who I think he likes me. Once in a while, he would say he loves me and misses me on msn; but...I don't know if he's actually talking real or kidding, so I just take it as him joking. Then, he asked me ...
A. 23 May 2009: you should make it a joke too, the boys in my college always wind me up wen i did brill in my work they sed did u do something with the teacher to get tht mark.
Unfortunately boys are rlly immature and cnt express their feelings well. You shou... (read in full...)
Boyfriend goes mad when I check his laptop but does the same to mine. How do I check up on him without him knowing?
Q. I have a boyfriend and we’re been together nearly 3 years now. I have a trust issue; it’s just that I always found out that he’s chatting with some women behind my back. He watches porn/hentai. He even created new msn account. Last year I found ...
A. 23 May 2009: what are getting from this relationship? you dont trust eachother, whats the point living ur lives checking up on eachother, there should be a respect of privacy and if you dont trust eachother you should be having a serious talk because if there is ... (read in full...)
Tell me what to do to get over this man!??
Q. Will I ever get over the man I love? Do I need to stop all communication with him to get over him?...
A. 23 May 2009: i feel the same as you, i dont kno how i am suppose to get over my ex, i love him to bits but i kno we cant be together. I cant get over him because he wont stop contacting me. I think if we stopped contact all together i could move on with my life, ... (read in full...)
What to do about my ex and what does this dream mean?
Q. okay so my ex and i have been very up and down and he has a very strong mean streak (reason why i dumped him). like i think i am over him. but i dont know for sure. like i have wasted 2 years on him hoping he would chnage and stop being so mean to ...
A. 22 May 2009: the way he was in your dream is probably the way you want him to be all the time, my ex was lk tht id end and i say change your behaviour we wud get bk he wud behave and be great for bout 2-3wks then start his nonsense agen, being moody, cold, ... (read in full...)
Emotionally abusive, can I change him?
Q. i've just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. we always had to do what he wanted to do, everything was always my fault, there were rules on what i could and couldn't do, he took away my property and stopped me from leaving. i feel lib...
A. 22 May 2009: Im in a similar situation with my ex, he wants to take control of everything but i wouldnt let him, i kept ending it with him when he tried and then he blamed me for finishing with him. I told him hes the one with the problem not me and he says im ... (read in full...)
I need to get him back
Q. I broke up with him, but now i regret it everyday. I miss him so much that I couldn't sleep. I keep on having nightmare or dream about him coming back to me. But he's not. He said he doesn't want relationship right now. I know he still cares for me. ...
A. 22 May 2009: My ex broke up with me and is begging me to take him back, its not going to work if you keep onto him, hes probably hurt that u broke up with him, he could be afraid that if you got together again that the same thing would happen. The previous ... (read in full...)
Is he a controlling boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, we've been together before but split up for about half a year before getting back together. Lately, I've noticed a lot of things in him that i see in my parents relationship. My mum is very ...
A. 21 May 2009: Yes that is very controlling, don't let him do that, tell him if u wanna piercing that your going to get one, if you let him tell you what to do he's gunna do it coz he knows you will listen, just because your in a relationship doesn't mean he can ... (read in full...)
I'm being messed about by my Ex. What should I do?
Q. my ex broke up with me over a txt months ago, i think i still got feelings for him so when he emailed today i agreed to meet up with him but he keeps avoiding to come and meet me saying we shoud meet when your better to talk He's been begging me ...
A. 21 May 2009: i want to move on, but he emails me lk 10times a day, it rlly gets me dwn, hes the 1 tht broke up with me in a txt coz his parents told him to and he says im over the top when he wants to behave the way he wants like punching walls, getting drunk ... (read in full...)
Does the amount of lovers you've had in the past matter?
Q. Hi, I'm 24 and just broken up with my boyfriend. He made me feel pretty bad a lot of the time and one of the things he said which upset me was that I've slept with loads of people and I'm a slag. He used to count on his fingers the people he kn...
A. 21 May 2009: if a guy truely loves you for you as a person, he shouldnt and wouldnt care how many people you hve been with, if some guys say that then they are very immature ... (read in full...)
Fed up of my boyfriend's friends!
Q. I'm fed up of my boyfriends friends... Me and his friends don't get on... I've tried everything to sort it out but because of me and my ex (he's at the same school as my boyfriend) had a huge argument when we broke up all his friends obviously are ...
A. 21 May 2009: i thort i would have trouble with my ex boyfriends friends but its his family, if your with him for a very long time do u think hes still gunna be friends with those same ppl in 10years time, probably not, hes trying to be the big man and show off ... (read in full...)
Seeing ex and her new b/f made me very angry!
Q. I went out to a bar last night, where some friends were playing in a band. I had a few drinks before I came out. Whenever I arrived, I found my ex girlfriend and her new boyfriend were there as well. At first it didn't bother me, but as the night ...
A. 21 May 2009: its a normal feeling to be jealous wen u see an ex with someone else, you prpbably miss the company you had even if she wasnt the best gf, and no u cnt blame it on alcohol but drink doesnt help, ur reactions are different when drunk, and if she is ... (read in full...)
Do guys get over their first love and girls dont?
Q. i just want to know one thing,which is really frustrating so guys get over their first love they say they do but y cant i ever agree to them although i want to.. isn't it hard to forget the first love? ...
A. 21 May 2009: your first love is the hardest person to get over for a male or female, im only 20 met my first love at 19 we broke up a few months ago and i just cnt stop thinking bout him all the time, some people do get over their first love but it is very ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me, dumped me and wants to think about where we go from here, I am heartbroken, what do I do now?
Q. My boyfriend of one year and three months just broke up with me because I tried to discuss my feelings. He has a past of cheating with me and after the incidents it left us with the problem of me not being able to trust him, that was back in Sept...
A. 21 May 2009: i know how u feel to be heart broken, its the worst feeling in the world, my ex deeply hurt me, after being with him for a year, his parents didnt like me so they told him to end it and he txtd me one day saying we have different views and its over, ... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything since my ex boyfriend broke up with me in a text!
Q. my ex boyfriend of a year broke with me in a text and and weeks later decided he wanted me back but i dont want to because he doesnt deserve any other chance with me. Its been months now and i dont think ive got any feelings for him but everytime a ...
A. 21 May 2009: yeh i loved him a lot, he keeps emailing me all the time to sort things out, its been bout 4months now, ive refused to talk to him or see him, it was a shock he sed he was coming over then i get a txt saying its over we hve different views, i dnt ... (read in full...)
How do I get over an abusive ex-boyfriend?
Q. Hello...here's the story- I went out with a guy for 4 years who I loved with all my heart and when we were together the first two, things were okay but he always had a really bad temper and things started getting bad in our relationship- he would ...
A. 7 April 2009: hi, i have bene going through a similar situation with my ex boyfriend. Its weird because he did so many things to hurt me, i ended it but he still reeled me back in each time, such as constant texts and even ringing my house which was my parents ... (read in full...)
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