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writes:okay so my ex and i have been very up and down and he has a very strong mean streak (reason why i dumped him). like i think i am over him. but i dont know for sure. like i have wasted 2 years on him hoping he would chnage and stop being so mean to me but he wont. like he changed for a SHORT bit because i said i would be done with him if he didnt stop. so he was nice for about a month. but now he is back to ignoring me and treating me like he could careless. but he says he cares but you never really know what he feels. Last night i had a dream about him with him being all sweet and saying i love you and i want to be with you and for a second in the dream i was like awwe i love you, your so amazing but then i was like wait no your not, this isnt you. Your just playing me again. i dont know what this dream means but i would really like it if someone could like help me with what it might be please! and what you think i should do about him. thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): ...think if there is water around its relates to emotion - if its a desert i would guess you seeing as a lack of emotion...
but you have split up ? so what does it matter now if he is good or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit was in a desert. it was weird. but felt so real... and he imed me this morning. i just dont get it. and i want him to be nice and good to me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): think its just wish for fillment - you want him to be perfect, but know he never will be. Either that or Sex?
(has to be in there somewhere) - where was it ? the dream that is - by a river? on a boat?
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reader, gemmaxx09  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 the way he was in your dream is probably the way you want him to be all the time, my ex was lk tht id end and i say change your behaviour we wud get bk he wud behave and be great for bout 2-3wks then start his nonsense agen, being moody, cold, hardly tlk and wen i say summin he wud snap at me and sometimes he wud go mad and start screaming at me.
It sounds like he is never going to change, dont waste anymore time on him and start concentrating on yourself, like he is doing because men lk them are so self absorbed, esp my ex
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): My mum had the same problem with my step-dad. She used to tell him if he didnt stop being nasty to me and hitting me that she'd leave him, so he'd be a really fake nice to me for about a month and then revert back to his old ways. It just kept going around in circles like that until eventually she said enough was enough. It took him to beat us both for her to do it. I dont want it to get like that for you. He seems very volatile and could turn on you at any minute.
The dream is a reflection of what you wish would happen, but its just a dream, that doesnt mean its ever going to happen. You deserve better than him! Get out there and find someone who does care about you! Good luck!
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