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writes:I broke up with him, but now i regret it everyday. I miss him so much that I couldn't sleep. I keep on having nightmare or dream about him coming back to me. But he's not. He said he doesn't want relationship right now. I know he still cares for me. I'm not sure if he still loves me or not. We dated for 2 years. Before that, we were best friends. Now it's so hard to stay best friends because every time I see him, I want him back; i get very emotional. He doesn't call me. I call him. I tried not to call him much. But i really can't help it. I miss him. I really want him back. I tried to move on, but it didn't work. Is there a way to get my ex back? I know i have the option of moving on. But I want to go back. We broke up because we had problems and did not understand each other. But would he believe me if i tell him that I can change. I really need advice on how to get him back. I can't go on like this anymoreThanks
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reader, gemmaxx09  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 My ex broke up with me and is begging me to take him back, its not going to work if you keep onto him, hes probably hurt that u broke up with him, he could be afraid that if you got together again that the same thing would happen. The previous reader is right, you should stop thinking about what you want and think about how hes feeling and what he wants. You need to leave him alone and and give him space to think about what he wants.If in the future you both feel that you can work things out then great, hope it turns out gd for u
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): You aren't going to get him back by pressuring him and chasing him. He said he's not ready for a relationship right now so you are going to have to put your "wants" aside because you aren't going to get what you "want" by asserting yourself where he doesn't "want" you. Give him space, leave him alone and maybe he'll come around.
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