My boyfriend had a gay relationship. I have prayed and I have been patient but he won't open up to me...
Q. I am a woman in my 30's and I have been in a relationship for 4 years now. My boyfriend is 9 years younger than me which could have posed a problem but it hasn't. Anyway, a few years ago I was on my boyfriends computer do my school work and I ...
A. 18 June 2008: Ok first of all, Prayer is not going to get you anywhere in this situation. You need to realise your "boyfriend" is a gay man and he cannot be changed. He is a bit confused at the moment but if he is having sexual relations with a man than he is ... (read in full...)
What do you think to these 3 situations?
Q. Hey ok i'm gonna give you 3 situations that occured regarding this lad im on a course with and who i like and i'd like you to tell me what you make of these, such as what they mean and stuff and could he be showing he liked me. Anyway you get the ...
A. 12 June 2008: My god that was hard and boring to read!!! End all these situations and just ask him out for god sake... If he likes you he will say yes and if he doesn't you can stop wasting your time with all these "situations" and find someone who likes you.. ... (read in full...)
Since moving in together we just fight about little things and it's getting me down. Please help!
Q. I moved in with my boyfirend about 6 months ago and we keep having these stupid rows over little things. I can't take it anymore I feel like screaming at him, he's cracking me up... I love him to bits but I just wish he didn't nit pick on ...
A. 10 March 2008: He has actually moved into my house not the other way around... And even if I had moved into his house I wouldn't be abiding by anyones rules, we are an equal partnership, i am looking for some proper solutions... thanks laura1318... (read in full...)
How can we get our sparkle back?
Q. I don’t know what to do. Me and my bf (were both 21) have been together for just over a year and we have been arguing for the last few months. Its always about the same thing. I say that he doesn’t show me enough affection and doesn’t kiss me enough ...
A. 31 January 2008: To be honest I'm having the same problem myself at the moment. Its hard to know what to do. I am seriously thinking of breaking up. My personal opinion is that they are being lazy and need a kick in the bum. He needs to start appreciating you more.. ... (read in full...)
Am I being foolish to toss away a good 5 year relationship for another guy?
Q. I have been in a 5 year relationship with a very kind loving man. im 23, hes 25. iv started having feelings for a friend, hes 30. i know he feels the same 4 me, but am i being foolish throwing away 5 years.. im jus not sure about my feelings f...
A. 15 January 2008: Be very careful.. I was in a similiar situation a couple of years ago accept my boyfriend had feelings for another girl. He broke up with me, started seeing the other girl and after a couple of weeks he was back begging me to take him back (imagine ... (read in full...)
Do women actually like the 'needier' man and enjoy caretaking him?
Q. Does anyone think that some women can actually like needy guys who never got love from their mothers?I guess I'm asking are there women who like to take care of men? And if so,why?...
A. 15 January 2008: Yeah I'm one of them, I think its a bit of a control issue. I'm with my partner for 2 years and he is very needy, oh and his mother is an old bag which makes me kind of feel sorry form him. ... (read in full...)
Will any boy ever like me, as I am overweight? Also, can you suggest ways to lose weight?
Q. im 15 and im heavely overweight and i no i am the docters have told me as well im trying 2 lose weight atm but i still im very annoyed cos ive never had a bf and never evern kissed some1 im 16 in aug and it feels really stupid that at nearly 16...
A. 11 January 2008: Hi there, the best way to loose weight is just give up all the crap your eating and just get up and walk.. Believe me thats the way I lost it.. It's great and you will feel great after you've done it and don't worry about the boys hun, your very ... (read in full...)
Sex with underaged - why is this case exceptional regarding punishment?
Q. i have an 18 yr old mate who has just been to court for sex with a girl 13. now take in mind that he is 18. he says hes not on the sex offenders register has no sex offenders programme to go on and is allowed to carry on seeing this child. i al...
A. 11 January 2008: What kind of friends do you have that have sex with underage children... You need to change your circle of friends mate... They both should be punished, and you need to get a grip of yourself and seeing the wrongness here... (read in full...)
With a great guy, but he has anger issues and is paranoid
Q. Dear Help, In May i came out of a 5 year relationship because he takes drugs i tried to make it work but it didn't no matter how hard i tried. When we finished i swore i would never get serious with anyone again. Then i met this lad he has every...
A. 10 January 2008: Hey there, Im in exactly the same kind of relationship. I have had to sit him down and explain to him how im feeling about the situation.. Talk to him, tell him he's making you unhappy.. If he is unwilling to listen, you should write him a letter ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 2 years went on a christmas party with work... Now I'm a little concerned about text messages he has recieved. Am I reading too much into this?
Q. Hi aunts, just want to say thanx for your advice in the past and just some more advice and info on another question.... My boyf of 2 years went to his Christmas party with his boss and few other guys last week. It was one of them huge party nites...
A. 21 December 2007: Listen finding out can't be as painful as the anxiety your feeling right now. Its time for you to be strong and be straight up with him and just ask him. Its better to know, honestly.. I still think it's quiet innocent, do you knwow what he is ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, pregnant and scared
Q. Please help, I'm 18 weeks 3 days pregnant. I've always thought that if ever I fell pregnant I would have an abortion. I found out I was pregant last tuesday. I'm 17, and have split up from my ex as he cheated on me. I can't even say I was in love ...
A. 19 December 2007: Hi there, the exact same thing happened me when I was 17, I had just finished my exams and i fell pregant. I am also catholic and my parents were very supportive. I was made to keep my son, Now don't get me wrong I adore my son, he's my whole life ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but I'm not sure how to prevent pregnancy
Q. I want to have sex but I am scared That I will get Pregnant Btu I really want to have sex so what should I do??...
A. 19 December 2007: firstly get yourself on the pill, then always use condoms.. You don't know what STD's are hanging around out there....... (read in full...)
He gave me a 2nd chance and I've blown it! I love him so much and would be destroyed if he left. What can I do?
Q. i kissed a boy 8 months into my 3 year relationship with my bf and i told him the next day and he was very upset and i begged him to take me back so he did and i swore i would never hurt him again like that and i had sex with the same boy about a ...
A. 18 December 2007: The sooner you tell him the sooner you get it over and done with. I know it's a bad time of year but no time will be good to drop this bombshell. I know this is hard and you've had some harsh answers but it's for his own good and your sanity. You ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's been moody and off with me, he says he's ok, do I push it or leave him alone?
Q. my boyfriend get along great. were COMPLEATLY oposite. COMPLEATLY. dont take that lgihtly. but somhow it still works. now. last night, he was in a bad mood. and i was talking to him. i was like, "i wish there was somthing i could do to he...
A. 18 December 2007: Give him some space.. He's just being a moody man.. Seriously I bet if you back off and leave him to it he'll come running... Keep yourself busy, don't sit around moping and don't ring to check if he's ok... If you take a step back he'll think he's ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 2 years went on a christmas party with work... Now I'm a little concerned about text messages he has recieved. Am I reading too much into this?
Q. Hi aunts, just want to say thanx for your advice in the past and just some more advice and info on another question.... My boyf of 2 years went to his Christmas party with his boss and few other guys last week. It was one of them huge party nites...
A. 17 December 2007: You need to ask him about this. To be honest it seems quiet harmless and the chances are it is but you need to put your mind at ease...
I don't think he will mind too much, especially since he's not hiding his phone but just bring it up casu... (read in full...)
He gave me a 2nd chance and I've blown it! I love him so much and would be destroyed if he left. What can I do?
Q. i kissed a boy 8 months into my 3 year relationship with my bf and i told him the next day and he was very upset and i begged him to take me back so he did and i swore i would never hurt him again like that and i had sex with the same boy about a ...
A. 17 December 2007: How can you say you love him when you have done the worst thing you can do in a relationship. He deserves to be told and you deserve what ever happens after that. I'm sorry if i'm being harsh but your whole relationship is a lie and you need to tell ... (read in full...)
I paid for us to go away but now we have split up he won't pay his share. How can I get him to pay?
Q. I recently bought tickets for my bf and I to go on a trip out of the country. He had no intention, it turns out, of paying me back, and now that we've broken up, I have a feeling I'll never see that money again, but IF there is a chance of getting ...
A. 14 December 2007: Write it off as an expensive lesson my friend and just beware the next time you find someone new..
sounds like he's an a**hole so your better off with him..Go on the trip yourself and have a ball... (read in full...)
What aftershave attracts girls?
Q. What aftershave is the best to wear to attract the girls?...
A. 14 December 2007: Hugo boss is always a good after shave.. Woman do like a man who smells nice, also Issy Miaki (think I've spelled that wrong), that is a seriously sexy smell, oh and the new David Beckham after shave is the job.. Hope that helps hun ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong - or was it him?
Q. Ok, I'm going to try and have this be the last question I post because I'm getting a little out of hand with posting questions on here. Anyway, I need reassurace like always because I have a lot of self doubt now that I broke up with my ex fiance ...
A. 11 December 2007: Look, you did the right thing.. You obvisiously wanted out so you took your opportunity.. Keep going girl, it will get easier I promise. The arguement about the shampoo was just minor, the horrible things he said to you about the house etc, that's ... (read in full...)
Last night I cheated on my husband. Should I tell him?
Q. I have a terrible dilemma--I cheated on my husband last night and I don't know if I should tell him or not. We have been together for over seven years (married two), I met him when I was 18 and he's the only guy that I had ever slept with or even ...
A. 11 December 2007: No, don't tell him.. If it didn't mean anything to you and you never want to do it again there'e no point in hurting him. There will be nothing to gain from this situation, only you easing your conscience, You deserve to live with the guilt so don't ... (read in full...)
Am I being silly or do I have a reason to be irritated?
Q. Given all the questions about photos of ex's on this site I thought I would throw my own worry into the mix. My boyfriend has pictures on his computer of his ex posing very provocatively in her underwear, touching herself, naked, bent over,etc...
A. 28 November 2007: Three words for you girl, DELETE DELETE DELETE and then dump him... He has no respect for his ex girlfriend and none for you. He sounds like a realy prize loser and you deserve a hell of a lot better than him.. Seriously you need to have some res... (read in full...)
?She needs space what do I do?
Q. Hi there, my girlfriend for 5 months now needs space but she says she loves me. It's been about a week now and she texts me I do miss you. Why is that she told me that she needed to be single for a while and be on here own and she can't be my ...
A. 28 November 2007: Hi there, to be honest if she needs space after just 5 months together that is a serious problem. You should still be in the happy honeymoon period together. I think you need to nip this in the bud and just ask her straight out what's going on.. You ... (read in full...)
I know he has moved on, so why can't I?
Q. Well all these feelings started last night when I went to a concert, and saw at least 20 people who resembled my ex boyfriend, once of which, my friend was getting close with. It sort of hit home that I'm not over him yet, and I really miss how it w...
A. 27 November 2007: It sounds like you're better off without hm. Believe me the pain will go away as soon as you meet someone else... It doesn't sound like he was very nice anyway so you can do much better than him girl you just need to raise your standards.. Hang out ... (read in full...)
Worried about pubic hair and a guy's reaction to it. Options to shave?
Q. I am 16, I was wondering if guys expect you to have no pubic hair?? If they do what are good ways to do this? I have tried to shave but my hair is too thick and it does not work. I do not want to go to a salon or wax it myself? any other option...
A. 8 November 2007: Hey there, I had a similiar problem with my boyfriend when I started seeing him. I was like a forest down there. He mentioned it one night and I got really embarassed so I went and got a brazilian done. I have to say I totally swear by it, now don't ... (read in full...)
I told him my past and now he doesn't trust me and is hurt by it! What can I do?
Q. I've been with my boyf for a year. He's so sweet and loving and great most of the time (except when he gets mad). Everything was good until we discussed my past. I never had a boyf before. I had had a friends with benefits thing three years ago (i ...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi
I am in a similiar situation with my boyfriend.. And I'll be honest with you, you've done nothing wrong.. Your past is your past and it is none of his business. Don't feel guilty just stand up to him. It's not like you did any of those things w... (read in full...)
I'm 15 years old with a baby on the way and I'm incredibly afraid about my future. I need help badly!
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl with a baby on the way and has a 20 year old boyfriend. I really don't know what to do. I am incredibly afraid and I have no idea what's going to happen. I am NOT getting an abortion, it's totaly against my morals, plus I ...
A. 18 April 2007: hey there, I was 17 when I got pregant with my son. That was 12 years ago and he has changed my life for the good. Try speak to your mom again and see if you can sort something out with her.. What does your boyfriend want you to do. can he support ... (read in full...)
Worried that my boyfriend may be going off me...
Q. Hi everyone Sorry if i drone on in this but i really want some help please My bf and i have been together just over 6 months He is my first ever bf and im in my early 20's We used to be long distance as he was away with work a lot but now ...
A. 31 January 2007: Hi, I think you are worrying too much. Ye have to get used to seeing each other so much. Maybe he was just tired last night and didn't have much to say. You need to relax a but and enjoy the relationship and stop looking for problems where there are ... (read in full...)
He moved back in w/ his ex, so I won't let him see the baby b/c I want him back!
Q. Im in a real fix. I have a 5 month old baby, and the dad has left me and moved back to his ex girlfriends house. When the baby was born we got on well, (although we never lived together - he said he was happy sharing a flat with a friend) but he ...
A. 22 January 2007: Your priority here is your child and by the sound of it your well out of that relationship.. This guy doesn't sound like someone who is good to be around you or your child. If I were you I'd be counting my blessings that he has left your life and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has changed for the worse. Please help me I'm so confused!
Q. dear cupid, i had this hard time with my boyfriend for 7 months and as time goes by, he changes. like he used to call me and send me text messages almost everyday, but now he just sends me messages twice a day and gets angry when i send h...
A. 22 January 2007: Stop asking him questions about how he is and stop texting him so much. I guarantee if you back away for a while he won't be long about thinking there is something wrong with you. Don't be so available to him. Men hate that. To be honest from the ... (read in full...)
My fiancee is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with life. Please help
Q. Hi there. I need help on how to get through what I'm going through. My wife-to-be is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with work or life. Please help...
A. 4 September 2006: I know exacly how your feeling. My fiance left me last year. But I am in a new relationship now.. time is a great healer but you need to keep yourself occupied. Find yourself a hobbie, hang out with your friends, believe me if you keep your mind ... (read in full...)
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