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writes: Hi there. I need help on how to get through what I'm going through. My wife-to-be is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with work or life. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): same as me pal theres nothing else to do but that!us men are the real victims just dont get another bird and be a player my missus left me yesterday and i feel like hell! get a beer down you man!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, a shoulder to cry on  +, writes (12 March 2007):
If she doesn't want to be with you, you need to accept that. its very hard but time truely is a great healer. sooner or later you will find someone who loves you in the same way you love them. if you convinced her to stay with you what sort of future would you really have? you never know who's just around the corner. try to focus on work to distract yourself and try not to spend to much time on your own, you'll only end up making yourself feel worse. you deserve someone who really loves you, we all do, so just hold your head up and wait for that truely special girl.
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reader, frizzylizzy  +, writes (4 September 2006):
 I know exacly how your feeling. My fiance left me last year. But I am in a new relationship now.. time is a great healer but you need to keep yourself occupied. Find yourself a hobbie, hang out with your friends, believe me if you keep your mind occupied you will be fine. As they say "what's for you won't pass you". This girl was obvisously not the one for you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2006): I know this probably won't help much now but you should think if she doesn't want to be with me why should I want to be with her. My fiancee left me after 8 years and she lied about the whole thing, she had fallen for someone else. I still miss her like hell 6 months on but, forgive the cliche, time is a great healer. Look on the internet, do a google search on "just been dumped" there is a lot of good information. Don't try and stay friends it does not help, and this will be for her benefit, and not yours. Clear out all her stuff and try and move on, it may sound impossible but as time goes on it will get easier. Keep busy and don't rebound it doesn't work. Good luck.
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reader, Zanders +, writes (1 September 2006):
 MY girlfriend and I have just broken up after 16 years, I know what you are feeling trust me.
if u have a crushing pain in your chest and find it intolerable to carry on go and see your Doctor, he can prescribe you some Diazepam in the short term. it will help,Sleep will happen again.its still working for me now.
I know it all looks bleak now but the the way I see it is that you have been spared the heartache of marrying someone who wouldnt of stayed with you.
The right person is out there for you, give it sometime, get some hobbies, I am looking at Salsa dancing and maybe learning to play the keyboard.
take this time to find out who you are, the pain will subside eventually - thats just how it works.
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reader, Taija +, writes (1 September 2006):
 think to yourself why is she leaving me? if its a good enough reason then so be it but if she hasnt given you a reason then i dont think its worth panicking about hun. if its a reason that you can say well how about a break then then go for it.have you tried sitting down somewhere nice like on a beach or at home somewhere like that and talked about it. if not maybe thats something you might want to try. good luck and remember dont panic everything happens for a reason your reason maybe the right person is going to come along soon. xx :o)
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (31 August 2006):
 Do not panic, it is all for the best if she doesn't love you then she doesn't deserve you ok? Hold on you see that things will go on well and you'll find the right person dearlove
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