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anonymous
writes:Hey ok i'm gonna give you 3 situations that occured regarding this lad im on a course with and who i like and i'd like you to tell me what you make of these, such as what they mean and stuff and could he be showing he liked me. Anyway you get the idea basically just what do you make of these?Situation 1I came up to class with some mates and he was already outside the room standing on the stairs, now i stood on the flat part leaning next to the banister so he was sorta above me and i turned round and he was staring at me, looking down at me and everything and when i looked away and then looked at him again and he was staring at me straight in the eyes very deeply and i stared at him back and he heald it then when i sorta looked away but not fully he slowly turned his head awaySituation 2signs had been shown that he liked me such as staring and stuff and i thought my name was said when someone asked his lad a question in the library and when he answered one of his mate goes arrr(name), couldn't figure out what had been said and then afew weeks later it was his birthday and me and two other friends wanted to give him a balloon and it meant one of us going to fetch him whilst the other two waited. So i said to one of them "well we'll wait in reception and you can go get him", then one of the other said "no you go get him" and then the other one said "yeah you get him, he likes you best" Situation 3(this ones a it hard to explain)after months of thinking he liked me and signs being shown, also id been accused by his mate of liking him. We were sitting at a table and i sat next to him and his mate(a girl) came up and stood behind us to talk to him. Then his mate(the lad that asked him the question and the one that accused me of liking him) looked at the lad i liked and me and got the girl behind us attention and sorta used eye contact to look at this lad and then move his head over to me as if to say something about us if you get that? and then this lad i liked looked at me and did for a while and then turned round to his mate(the girl) and just looked at her. now was it jst me or did i take that the wrong was as if our mate(the lad) was trying to him that me and this lad liekd each other to this girlSituation 4Well situation 3 happened afew days before we broke up for the holidays in april an then the first day back the girl(the mate of the lad i like) came up to talk to him and she said something not out aloud but not really quietly and he pointed at me. Situation 5whent he lad i like said to this girl "passes your phone" she didn't want to because she didn't trust him(not in a nasty way) and so she wouldn't and so i just picked it up and passed it to him and the lad thats his mate said "yeah just cuz u wanna pass it to your bf" Situation 6(this is two in one)Afew weeks after the queestion in the library, it was close to valentines day and the lad i liked was asking everyone how many cards they had recived.Then we all carried on talking and he went to the shop and this othr lad said "(name)'s got a bird" and then said "and now im in trouble" as if he wasn't ment to say it but he said it as if bird ment someone he liked. Then on valentines day the lad i like was talking to his mate(the lad) and another girl in our class and they were laughing a bit and his mate(the lad) sorta looked at me and they wer eon about something and i'm sure the girl said "tell her!!" and then he was laughing a bit, not a lot and he went bright red.So could you just tell me what you think to all these, some of them weren't recently or anything but they;re just things thats happened nd as i said he has shown signs he likes me such as staring which he still does. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): Sorry babes, but you've done my head in as well.
HE LIKES YOU. ASK HIM OUT ALREADY AND PUT AN END TO ALL OUR MISERY.....
We're all waiting on you, are you blind. He likes you, move it forward and update us when your both going out together.
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reader, frizzylizzy  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 My god that was hard and boring to read!!! End all these situations and just ask him out for god sake... If he likes you he will say yes and if he doesn't you can stop wasting your time with all these "situations" and find someone who likes you..It seems like he does like you so i think you should stop pussyfooting around the "situation" and go for it..sorry don't mean to be tough on you but life is too short to be owndering all these things.. Bite the bullet and you could have a hot date for the weekend ;-}
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