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writes:Well all these feelings started last night when I went to a concert, and saw at least 20 people who resembled my ex boyfriend, once of which, my friend was getting close with.It sort of hit home that I'm not over him yet, and I really miss how it was.But now it feels like nothing else compares to the relationship we had and nothing ever will. Thats the main worry I have. I thought I was over him, because not after a week he had finished with me, he was with someone else, and I found out he used me, but it's not as simple as that, unfortunatley. I sort of forced myself into hating him I guess.I just wish all these feelings for him would stop so I can move on. It feels like im trapped by my emotions.I know he has moved on, so why can't I?
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 I do not advise you to go out looking for annother relationship to get over him,at the end of the day you know what is really in your heart. As long as it took you to fall in love, it will take just as long to fall out. That is ok, that is all apart of dating and breaking up. You need time to feel bad or maybe even cry if that makes you feel better. Taking time out to think about what mistakes you made will keep you from making them all over again in a new relationship. Keep yourself busy read some good books, go to the movies with friends or a restaurant or try a new night club that you have never been too... Just remember that this break-up is a learning process (and once again I will say) your break-up could have been Gods way of making room in your life for something better to come along. Good luck...
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Funny how it's easy to love someone even after they've screwed you over/used you. Been there, done that. I'm sure someone better will come your way, and even if you are still not over him by then, just wait, love takes time, and when you fall in love with this better person, your love for your ex will start to fade away.
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reader, frizzylizzy  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 It sounds like you're better off without hm. Believe me the pain will go away as soon as you meet someone else... It doesn't sound like he was very nice anyway so you can do much better than him girl you just need to raise your standards.. Hang out with your friends, pamper yourself and eventually you'll forget about this loser who didn't appreciate you.. Good LuckL
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (27 November 2007):
 The second you find somebody else you'll move on, trust me. When you're at your age every boyfriend can seem like "the one" when belive me, they very very very rarely are. Spend time with your friends, enjoy yourself, flirt, just try and enjoy being single!! x
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