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I don't want to meet his friends while I have a broken leg!
Q. I have been dating my partner for 3 months and he has invited me to a friends wedding in 3 weeks time. The problem I have is that 2 weeks ago I broke my leg in a cycling accident. I feel so embarrassed, My whole leg is in a cast and it's been ab...
A. 19 June 2011: I'm still recovering from breaking my leg my ankel and taring all my ligaments. I had surgery 6 weeks ago and I'm now walking with troubles of course and against dr. Orders but healing fine and everythings good. I'm not saying risk messing up ur ... (read in full...)
How can I convince her that I do truly love her a lot? She has doubts about me.
Q. Hey all i have a lovely girlfriend and we have been together for 2 months and recently she has been having doubts about me, for chatting to girls behind her back and flirting with girls. the thing is, i love her a lot and i show her my feelings ...
A. 8 June 2011: I am like that w my current boyfriend of about a month. I love him and I know he loves me. But he was a playboy to. Just reassure her that she's all you want and that you're lucky to have her. There is not much else you can do but let her know she ... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 1 June 2011: Well my sister is 17 also and I'm around her and her firends a lot. So I know when ther lieing and going somewher other then a friends because they tell me. So if they needed anything I would know wher they were and I could help. But back to your ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my family his real age or wait until they get to know him better?
Q. I've been with my bf for a couple weeks and we've been talking for about a month and a half. But theres a big age diffrence and it doesn't bother me but my family is having a get together in a couple weeks and I invited him to come. He's 18 and I'm ...
A. 1 June 2011: Thanks for the feedback :)... (read in full...)
My dad hasn't worked in 3 months and my family is falling apart!
Q. I feel like my family is falling apart. My dad hasn't worked in over 3 months I feel like this is a big part of the problem. This has been putting a lot of stress on the family my mom is starting and organization for women in need who are abuse and ...
A. 25 April 2011: Times are hard right now with the economy. A lot of people are losing jobs but there is not much you can do for your father besides be positive and understanding and loving. Maybe look for jobs in his field of work online or in the paper. Help arou... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stopped talking to me and a girl answers his phone every time I call!
Q. Hi aunts! So I need some advice on what to do in this situation. Me and my boyfriend of 2 months broke up 2 days ago. He was at a party and I was going out to. Well I called him and was asking who was ther and stuff nothing mean though. And he said ...
A. 25 March 2011: To clarify for denise we were together before the night that girl answered his phone it was that night that I assumed it was over because of everything that happend. But thanks everyone for the advice and the 2 female readers who thought I should ... (read in full...)
Female input needed!
Q. For women only. How would you feel if a guy that you are interested in had 9 inch long penis?...
A. 4 March 2011: I agree that the average size is between 5 and 6 inch. However I've met quite a few that are bigger to much bigger. I don't think its so rare that someone could have a 9 inch penis. Also I completly disagree that most women don't ask what size a guy ... (read in full...)
Female input needed!
Q. For women only. How would you feel if a guy that you are interested in had 9 inch long penis?...
A. 3 March 2011: I go with the old sang bigger is better. But its also important to know how to use it. 9 inch is big but as long as ur not trying to kill ur partner then u should def be able to please her I think ur lucky to be so big n that area its def better ... (read in full...)
The girl who meant more to me than anyone else is back in my life...but I don't know how to take it from here. Pursue her or let it be?
Q. I am writing this because I am extremely confused and upset right now. It is now 6:15 AM, and I have been up due to the fact that I cannot get these thoughts out of my head. Basically I had some “occurrences” with a girl I used to talk to last year, ...
A. 20 February 2011: So she wanted to date you in the beginning and then you cut ties with her but now that she wants to try and talk to you again but leavs because she's probibly confused confuses you? I see it like this.......she likes u this is obviouse she's the one ... (read in full...)
I need romantic, fun ideas for Valentine's Day!
Q. Okay, our two year anniversary is Feb 12, so my fiance is going to do something special that day, leaving Valentine's day up to me. I am taking him to a nice dinner but he just told me that he has taken that day off so he can spend all day with me ...
A. 26 January 2011: The best valentines day I ever had was amazing. We went to dinner which u could always start early and go to lunch....but then we went to go bowling for some fun we both liked to bowl. Then we got some wine rented a movie and went back to our app. ... (read in full...)
Should I put myself out there or take myself out of the game?
Q. I feel really lonly latly. I've always been the relationship typ ever since I was yung. The longest I went single was a year and I was about 19 to 20 and it didn't bother me then because I always had a lot of male attention. But I love being with ...
A. 19 January 2011: thanks for ur help. I'm going to try and stick through this for a while longer till I'm comphy enouph being by myself before starting another relationship. Or at least putting myself out ther for the option. ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? He's the hottest guy on this planet
Q. I've been bi for a few years. I've been currently messing around with one of my friends, but he has a girlfriend now and doesn't want to mess around. I told him i completely understand. There's this guy that goes to my school. He is the hottest ...
A. 17 January 2011: I'm not sure on this one it could go both ways. From how he acted if this was a guy girl situation and both parties were straight I would say he like her. But ur not sure from what I'm reading if he's into guys.plus he has a girlfriend. Weather or ... (read in full...)
Should I see what kind of games he's playing? Or just break up with him right away?
Q. Well I,m 34 yrs and I,ve been seeing this guy 4 three weeks Then later I found out that he was cheating on me.I broke u With him bt after a month we broke up I called him Jst 2 checkup on him and fact I was missing him, He then started sh...
A. 13 January 2011: Agreed he's just using u to fill his lonlyness but now that he's not lonley he doesn't feel the need to talk to u. I would brake it off right away.... (read in full...)
Guy seems all into me till I tell him I like him.
Q. I told a guy friend i had feelings for him twice in a few months. The 1st time he said he was sick of relationships, he's been sleeping in my bed, and we have done things together and cuddled etc. The 1st time i told him he was distant for a few ...
A. 12 January 2011: He was just asking a friendly question. Probibly trying to forget about what happend and go back to normal. And then u got defensive and he prob got mad that u couldn't just say o its nice or I kinda liked it better before. If u can't be just his ... (read in full...)
If a woman isn't moaning, does that mean she isn't enjoying the sex?
Q. hello, i just wanna know what does it mean when the girls dont moan while making love ? i know this girl and we are f*** buddies. but when we have sex she doesnt moan or like scream or something, i mean if she was really enjoyin it or feeling ...
A. 10 January 2011: I know u wanted a male opinion but I thought id tell you my thoughts. Personaly I'm not very loud in bed. If the man is vocal somtimes I join in but I still enjoy the sex w my fwb even though I don't moan a lot or screem. Some people do and some ... (read in full...)
Guy seems all into me till I tell him I like him.
Q. I told a guy friend i had feelings for him twice in a few months. The 1st time he said he was sick of relationships, he's been sleeping in my bed, and we have done things together and cuddled etc. The 1st time i told him he was distant for a few ...
A. 10 January 2011: ya i would wait about 2 weeks before attempting to text him and when u do talk to him I wouldn't say to much at first just a hello and how r u would be about it. I think hell come around and eventually u will probibly have to let him kno ur okay ... (read in full...)
Is he on a rebound relationship?
Q. dear cupid i was just wondering if my ex is on a rebound relationship and is there a chance i can get him back. he went on a couple of dates with this girl and is now in a realtionship with her since the end of november. she is the total opp of...
A. 10 January 2011: It doesn't sound like a rebound to me sorry. It wouldn't make sense for him to go away for a trip to london with someone he didn't care for and was planning on using to get over u. Its a slight possibility maybe but I wouldn't count on it.... (read in full...)
He wouldn't tell me about her texts if he was planning to cheat right?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and we love each other a lot. About a month or 2 ago, a girl from his past (not ex, just hooked up) contacted him asking to hook up again. He told her he had a girlfriend but she continued to ...
A. 10 January 2011: In most cases yes you are right. If a man wanted to sleep with a past fling he wouldn't tell his gf anything about it. It wouldn't make sense for him to tell u all about her wanting him then turn around and sleep with her. Not to say it couldn't ... (read in full...)
Guy seems all into me till I tell him I like him.
Q. I told a guy friend i had feelings for him twice in a few months. The 1st time he said he was sick of relationships, he's been sleeping in my bed, and we have done things together and cuddled etc. The 1st time i told him he was distant for a few ...
A. 10 January 2011: It sounds to me ur male friend doesn't know what he wants. But I think its clear on what he doesn't want and that is commitment. He obviously cares for u for he told u this but caring for someone and wanting to be with someone is a big leap. Give ... (read in full...)
How can I make friends with benefits more?
Q. I have this on and off again sexual relationship with a guy who recently became my friend on Facebook. His actions are really confusing. Sometimes he shows he wants to see me again and then doesn't follow through. When we are around each other ...
A. 9 January 2011: I'm in the same boat kinda. My fwb of like 3 years ya long time has changed this time around. I knew were I stood n the past but recently he started taking me to meet his friends and taking me to the bar and paying for everything and meeting some of ... (read in full...)
Will the pain of this break up ever go away? Will I ever be able to smile and laugh again?
Q. My bf and I broke up 2 months ago and I'm completely lost. We broke up because he had stuff to do ( he's in a band and said he didn't have time to treat me like i should be treated) and I wanted to travel. He never wanted to really do the things I ...
A. 7 January 2011: I've been ther and it sucks really bad. Its going to take a longggg time to fully get over it. I was with my ex for 6 years and I am 22 also. But we broke up a year ago and I still think about him from time to time well honistly still often. But its ... (read in full...)
Why do the corners of my eye bleed?
Q. So I have a weird question.... why do the corner of my eyes bleed? First my best friend told me her eyes were bleeding about 6 months ago and I thought she was crazy but she whiped the corner of her eye one day and showed me and it was like purple ...
A. 3 January 2011: Just from the inside out and I plan on seeing a dr ill let u all kno wut the problem is. And yes we ware eye makeup... (read in full...)
What did he mean by he realized he was shallow?
Q. yesterday was my boyfriends birthday, when we went to lunch he told me about the party he went to the night before to celebrate his birthday, i was unable to go. he was going on and on about all these funny sexual birthday cards he got. i bought him ...
A. 16 December 2010: Well my b day was yesterday too:)) so I feel for him and from what I understand he is saying he knew he was a lil shallow but he didn't think u thought he was that shallow to not like ur mushy card he took it as an insult that u thought he wouldn't ... (read in full...)
I hate sex because of the problems it caused in my parents marriage, how can I deal with this?
Q. I hate sex because my parents had problems in their marriage due to sex. It has left me to feel negative about sex and the whole relationship concept which revolves around sex. I feel afraid of entering into any relationship for the fear of things ...
A. 6 December 2010: That's sad. Being in a relationship is so much more then sex. I'm not sure what problems your parents had with sex but you are your own person and you shouldn't rule out sex and relationships because of your parents bad experiences. You should go ... (read in full...)
Demanded my boyfriend gets a paternity test on a potential child..am I in the wrong?
Q. Am I wrong for tell my boyfriend that we won't live together or take any big steps in our relationship until he gets a dna test on a child he doesn't know is his or not? We've been together for almost a year....
A. 11 June 2010: no ur def not worng this is a huge thing and is something that will effect ur relationship depending on the outcome and ur life so i woulod say stick to your grounds. good luck to u:)... (read in full...)
This isn't love when he treats me like crap...what can I do about this?
Q. I`ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he treats me like shit. Sometimes i really dont believe he cares for me. I moved in with him about 2 years ago and he has bad anger management problems so we keep getting into fights over stupid things. He ...
A. 13 May 2010: i found this website about a year ago and it was the people on hear that opened my eyes and gave me the support and answers i was looking for and my first question was very similar to yours. im happy to say i have been single for a year and im me ... (read in full...)
I hunger for his heart, and he seems to keep it hidden!
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. He is five years older, extremely intelligent, motivated, and mature, and also an artist like me. He is my first relationship, and thus far it has been a very stable one. We talk our misunderstandings ...
A. 3 May 2010: you have his heart he has told u this and i think if u move your stuff out and ask for time apart it would only seperate u 2 and make him more distant then he already is i think u guys seem to be doing good and maybe he is giving u all he has ... (read in full...)
Custody and domestic violence issues
Q. i have never been to court for the custoday of my 5 yr old and my 2 yr old and im there mother but when me and there father split up my son was in pre school so we decided together to let him finish the last yr of his pre school in the same school ...
A. 16 April 2010: thanks for the feedback i have a lawyer already and to rainorfire ur advice helped alot i do have a good male friend who is going to come with me i do want him in there life and i want my boys back home more then anything my 5 yr old had speech ... (read in full...)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 10 April 2010: thank you all for your feedback i would never get back with him or do anything sexual with him i plan to talk to a councler and look at my options i dont want to take it to court i am thinking of talking to a lawyer about our kids though and seee ... (read in full...)
He was a manwhore..do you think he still is?
Q. hey there!, Well there is this guy i dated back a few months ago and well we broke up cuz he lives 2 hours away but now he is moving down soon, well he was sorta a man whore in 8th grade and now hes in 9th and he told me he isnt like that anymore ...
A. 21 May 2009: mine did to when i was in a relationship n i told my boyfriend i just havent changed it yet he could b dont get me wrong it just sounds like he isnt from what you wrote. does she have a my spce n if so i would just write her n tell her everything ... (read in full...)
He was a manwhore..do you think he still is?
Q. hey there!, Well there is this guy i dated back a few months ago and well we broke up cuz he lives 2 hours away but now he is moving down soon, well he was sorta a man whore in 8th grade and now hes in 9th and he told me he isnt like that anymore ...
A. 21 May 2009: hes a player girl id stay away been with many of them i kno how they work if he hid his comments after u posted that n shes still number then not only does he not want her to c wut u wrote but he doesnt want u to kno he still w/ her if shes before ... (read in full...)
How can I get the confidence to approach girls without feeling rejection
Q. i am 22 and very insecure. i have never had a proper g/f and find it hard to approach girls for fear of rejection. i portray myself as a carefree individual but that could not be further from the truth. i take negative comments very personally. i ...
A. 17 May 2009: self confidence truly is everything when u aproach a women u dont have to be the best looking the most athletic u just have to be urself not shy or afraid if u think a women is atractive or u like her start a conversation w/ her make her smile being ... (read in full...)
No luck with relationships
Q. Hi everyone, I was wondering if maybe you could give me some advice. I never seem to have any luck with relationships. I have many large groups of friends and enjoy socialising. I like to think that I'm a friendly, caring and outgoing person w...
A. 14 May 2009: i feel the same way and im 20 i just got out of a bad relationship and this whole dateing/relationship thing drives me crazy i started to talk to this guy and idk if its going anywhere or if im wasteing my time i think its not us women its the men ... (read in full...)
How can I help my brother? He was only trying to protect me?
Q. I'm 21 and most people think I live a very privileged life. I have a twin brother and people call us spoiled, bratty and out of control. I will admit that we have pushed our limited with family, school and the law. But now we both are paying f...
A. 18 March 2009: yes i think you should tell your parents and lawyer even though your brother said not to its the whole reason behind it and if u dont help the lawyer out how in the world is he suposed to help him? another thing ur brother was only protecting u even ... (read in full...)
Please help me! Should I get back with my ex ?
Q. I honestly don't know what to do! My ex boyfriend who I dated for a year and broke up with because he cheated on me with one of my close friends and one of his ex's. Also because I found out he would flirt with a bunch of girls and his ...
A. 16 March 2009: im sorry i disagree with the last person no matter what he does now will not change what he did sure hes sorry and hes making it clear but nothing he says or does will take back what he already did. trust is everything in a relationship and with... (read in full...)
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