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writes:Hey... it's currently half-term at my school, and after half-term I want to go back, and be completely different. At the minute I'm always quite awkward, I'm tall and am always falling over my own feet, everything I say never seems to come out right. And I'm not really that confident. I'm happy with my body, and am not physically insecure, but I just think that I need to exude (?) more confidence, and turn people heads. I've been told that I'm gorgeous and that I could be breath-taking, but I always seem to say the wrong things, or not know what to do or say.When I go back to school, I want people to say, WOW! Not because I'm different, just that they notice me. Any tips or hints?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all comments, however, I've tried all of these things. I'm told i have lovely hair, and buy expensive make-up and alter the school uniform to look more sexy. My friends are hilarious, and I'm always smiling or laughing. I thought that maybe I was too hysterical.. kind of thing. Like more of a mate vibe than a omg you're fabulous one? Idk.. what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): smile! a lil smile goes along way just smile and be nice to everyone then everyone will like you, and knowing everyone likes you gives you so much confidence frees you to act yourself around anyone. but not if u av yelow ( or brown) teeth then keep your mouth shut.!!!TIGHT!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): i used to be like u but im not tall. but i would always go to school with no effort in the mornings.then after half term i done my hair different and wore different makeup and stuff like that .when i went back everyone gave me compliments and all the boys noticed me.gd luck chic
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (28 October 2006):
 Nothing we can tell you will give you confidence, by what youve said your like me, as in nothing i try/say comes out at i mean it too, only thing i can tell you to help with your confidence is be yourself, dont try and be somebody your not, after all, who's better at being you, than you?
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reader, fATTYNATTY +, writes (28 October 2006):
 awwww, i was like this, but im small not tall lol, ermmm! jus be your self, be nice, smile alot! goood vibes always make people notice, be positive :)
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (28 October 2006):
 Don't try too hard, you sound beautiful. Just try to smile wherever you go and you will turn heads. Try to be yourself. People will soon see natural confidence and the attention will come.
If you try too hard, you possible will make mistakes.
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