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writes: i'm trying to figure out this girls feelings towards me. she is my best friend, and i love her to death, but i think we could possibly see each other as more than just that and i need opinions. she's in a relationship, and i'm not anymore but was for the past 2 and a half years until fairly recently. but we'd talked about it before, and admitted that in the past (months ago), we were crazy about each other but were too afraid to tell the other for fear of rejection or losing each others friendship. but since then, we'd had crazy sexual tension between us. but recently, we talked about it and agreed on just being friends and none of the other sexual tension stuff because it makes things difficult. our final verdict was just friends. and that's where we last stood. but last night, we were driving home from out of town, and we just started talking about everything from the past. about how much we'd liked each other and stuff. and it gave me a rush of emotions back towards her. we were laughing with each other at the stupid things we'd done to get each others attention and just how much we liked each other. our friend was in the back seat just going "i feel like i'm listening in on a phone call that i'm not supposed to or something...". but anyway, could that have just been conversation or does that sound like maybe there was more to it? i could ask her, but that's really difficult and i'd just like some opinions before i go and verbalize anything. thanks.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (3 December 2006):
 If this girl has the same feelings with you, maybe she is not that happy with her relationship which she needs to end if that is the case.
From your comments, you are both really into each other and should get together.
It is not fair on anyone to keep these issues unresolved.
Try to talk to her openly and find out if this is an option. You have known each other for long enough do dismiss this as a temporary crush.
Hope it all works out.
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reader, fATTYNATTY +, writes (2 December 2006):
 aww well it sounds like theres something there. anyone would agree. and i'm sure she's feeling the same way about you and is just really hoping you say something. Maybe try dropping some relativly blatent hints about you two?? looks like you were doing well though anyway with that ;) so yeah, just carry on and maybe flirt yor way into her admitting she likes you still, i'm sure that would give you the confidence to ask her out?
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