Are accidental burps/farts a turn off to guys?
Q. a bit of a strange question i know, but is it completely off putting for a guy when your girlfriend accidentally burps/farts while they're with them? and i dont mean on a regular basis, just a once off thing where its just loud and undeniably came ...
A. 22 May 2009: Accident maybe but I find it offensive and I know you can control those outburst or head to the bathroom. When a man looks at a woman he sees a thing of beauty and sexy curves. If one of those curves starts spouting fumes and weird noises I would ... (read in full...)
How can I force my girlfriend into dropping some weight?
Q. Ive been dating my girlfriend off and on for two years. We are both in our 40's and she is a couple of years older than me and has two grown up kids. We get on really great and spend a lot of time together, although we don't live together. She is a...
A. 22 May 2009: I am a man and I think you need your ass kicked. 10lbs wow really overweight. What if you got overweight, had an accident and was disfigured what would she say your ugly now I don't want you? I think not and you need to realize how lucky you really ... (read in full...)
"Dearest" in an email.... what does this mean?
Q. My Husband was exchanging some fishy emails with a female co worker a while ago, we sorted that out eventually and he promised he will stop that, just yesterday I found an email from her addressing him with "dearest", what's this, what does that ...
A. 22 May 2009: Still sounds fishy to me. Cyber cheating is still cheating!!... (read in full...)
She says she'll wait 2 years but she cheated when we were apart over a weekend!
Q. my and this girl have been together for about 9 months. i love this girl but i've got into some trouble now im getting sent away till im 18. i'll be leaving 2 hours away from her an im 15 alomst 16. in 2 years i can come back to be with her. she ...
A. 22 May 2009: Better listen to the rest of the posters go ahead take a big swallow and tell yourself you must move on.... (read in full...)
Emotionally abusive, can I change him?
Q. i've just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. we always had to do what he wanted to do, everything was always my fault, there were rules on what i could and couldn't do, he took away my property and stopped me from leaving. i feel lib...
A. 22 May 2009: He wasn't like this when you first met because he was good at hiding it. It will not get better only worse. The decision is simple.... (read in full...)
How to make a good wife to my husband during sex time?
Q. How to make a good wife to my husband during bed or sex time?...
A. 22 May 2009: All men have egos. Tell him how great he feels and how big he is even if he is not. Talk dirty but not trashy and always make some noise of enjoyment.... (read in full...)
He wants a threesome and I DON'T!!!
Q. I'm a 25 year old woman and my husband's 26. We've been married for He told me that he wants a threesome with me and another guy involved. I told him outright no, but he insisted we should do it. I asked him if this was just a ruse so he could...
A. 22 May 2009: He is bisexual and already thinking of cheating, run and run fast!!!!!!!!!!!1... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if he's cheating..he won't have sex, says its because I'm being mean!
Q. Ok I have asked a few questions on here before and I got another! I got to start off saying I love my boyfriend very much all and all we have a good relationship! Except he has lied to me that I know of once involving another girl! He was not ...
A. 22 May 2009: You can spy if you want too but if a guy doesn't want sex he is getting it somewhere else. Sorry but that is harsh reality. He is not worth it apparently this is a history that he will repeat over and over again with whomever sticks around.... (read in full...)
How can I make the kiss better?
Q. hiya, me and my boyfriend have kissed 4 times, hugged 4 times and we snogged 2 times. how can i make the kiss better if feels as im making it really bad? but he keeps wanting to kiss so he musn't think that, but what could i do to make it better? ...
A. 22 May 2009: http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-kiss-someone-passionately click this link and hopefully it will help.... (read in full...)
If he thinks I'm that nice why can't we try again?
Q. I'm confused I wrote a few weeks back about my ex breaking up with me, because I dated someone for 4 months. For those who may not have read my earlier writing... You see when I met my ex he was married and living with his wife and told me they ...
A. 20 May 2009: You fell for the oldest trick in the book. Get on with your life and you should have started 4 years and 8 months ago.... (read in full...)
I'm good firends with my mate's girlfriend, we slept together and like each other, what should I do?
Q. I have known my mate for around 5 years and we have lived together for 2 years. I haven’t seen him for a few months because he is currently abroad. He has been with his girlfriend on and off for around 6 years. They have been back on for at least a ...
A. 20 May 2009: I have seen this happen so many times. Guess what she will eventually do you the same way. and btw your not a friend you have no self control and he needs to kick your azz.... (read in full...)
Advice needed... Should we get back together or just remain friends?
Q. okay my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me and its probably been a month or so and well she didn't break up with me we just kinda broke up with each other anyway we broke up cause she liked someone other guy (my cousin), she smoked pot, she ...
A. 20 May 2009: How about not. Sounds like you need to run away far and fast and you already know this or you wouldn't be asking for help. People always say they change but I would say less than 1 percent actually do permanently.... (read in full...)
I'm seeing my teacher secretly...
Q. I'm 16 and I've left school. I'm currently on study leave and are going back for exams on certain days this week and the next few weeks. me and a male teacher (24 years old) were always reallly really close, it might sound wrong but we kinda st...
A. 20 May 2009: I am not going to waste alot of typing on this one. You know its wrong or you wouldn't have asked. You need to let your parents know right away! He is an intellectual much older mentally and physically why do you think he is interested in you? ... (read in full...)
Am I stupid for wanting to stay?
Q. Okay here it goes. My hubby wants to separate cause he met a girl on internet. He says it means nothing, but I don't know if he has met her or not. About 8 years ago this happened. Am I stupid for wanting to stay?...
A. 20 May 2009: It will only get worse. You can either stay and suffer or leave and find some one else. Or two can play that game as long as you play bad cop and let him think it doesnt matter. If you ruin a guys ego its hard for them to accept trust me.... (read in full...)
Why does my girlfriend enjoy making me jealous?
Q. Hi, my girlfriend likes making me jealous. She talks about different guys a lot, even her ex-boyfriends and people she used to like. It's getting really annoying, because sometimes she acts as if she still likes them, to see what i would say. I am g...
A. 20 May 2009: This sounds to me like an insecurity issue. She need reassurance and way to much of it apparently from you that you care. Tell her it doesn't help the relationship but hurts it and you want it to stop or the relationship will suffer.... (read in full...)
I don't trust my boyfriend's ex!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for a few months. and he has not given me any reason not to trust him. however, his ex is still in the picture. she still calls and texts him. he will tell me that she calls and texts but he always does it in a ...
A. 10 November 2008: Sounds like she wants him again because he has a new gf. If he really cares for you he will change his number and have no contact. And honestly it takes two to tango so it sounds like you don't trust either of them.... (read in full...)
I don't think if I ever have an affair again I would let it last that long.
Q. Here is my story. I've been married for 24 years since the age of 17. My husband is a wonderful man, we have a beatiful 22 year old daughter who lives away. Sex life is almost non-existent. No one initiates it anymore, but when it happens it's goo...
A. 10 November 2008: Im sorry I am old fashioned. You should have left your husband before hand. He used you and you used him, end of story. The new eventually wears off any relationship and what you have left is what matters companionship. Loyalty is a key ingredient ... (read in full...)
I've got a problem involving one of my best friends and my flatmate
Q. I've got a problem involving one of my best friends and my flatmate who is also one of my good friends and need help :( I started at uni about 3 mothns ago and was lucky to find myself in a flat with some lovely people. We all get on really we...
A. 10 November 2008: Maybe just keep yourself out of it is the best way not to get blamed for anything. If you try to discuss this with either the story will get changed later and you will be the bad guy or girl. Let them make their own mistakes and when it is brought ... (read in full...)
I love going down on her, but she has a serious smell.
Q. My girlfriend is asking me to go down on her and while I love going down, the problem is my current girlfriend has some serious odor issues going on. She showers twice a day and says she has been to a gyn about any possible infection. She tells me ...
A. 10 November 2008: Overactive glands. Possible yeast infection and easily missed if the doc wasn't told. She probably needs antibiotics. Most people can't smell their own body odor so you can either live with it or find a nice way to let her know.It may hurt her ... (read in full...)
I told my mom we were in a relationship when we weren't. Now she wants to talk to him. Help!!!
Q. I made the mistake of saying that this guy and I were in a relationship when we're really just friends (with benefits, but my mom doesn't know that), and now my mom wants to talk to him! He was really sweet about the whole thing and agreed to ta...
A. 10 November 2008: Tell him your Mother is very old fashioned and you were put on the spot. You did what you had to do and will he cover for you? Im sure he will understand.... (read in full...)
Is it normal that my boyfriend is still a virgin?
Q. The guy that I am currently dating is 22 years old and is a virgin. I asked him why but he just said that he doesn't know. He told me that he has three girls before. I am wondering if he lied to me about that. Is it normal for him to still be a ...
A. 10 November 2008: Very rare but it can be a good thing. If he is very religious it makes sense. If not then he may just be embarrassed because he has no clue what to do. Find a way to inspect the package lol. Accidentally go into bathroom while he's taking shower. ... (read in full...)
I can't sleep until I know... did he like her more than me?
Q. I need some clarification so I can sleep. Did he like her more than me? A guy I've known for a while and had a brief 'relationship' with is a player. He recently was dating this girl, however who sent her some presents, texted all the time, planne...
A. 10 November 2008: Does it matter? You knew all this and still went out with him?
He has no respect for females and it will continue. Get even with him, move on date someone else, make sure to show up with your date in his presence and rub it in.... (read in full...)
Why wouldn't I be able to leave someone who is verbally abusive, lazy, and reclusive?
Q. Hi! I have been married 29 years, but unhappily most of the last 15. I have seriously tried to leave him twice, but once I let him talk me out of it, and the last time, for some reason, I talked myself out of it. I don't hate my husband, ...
A. 10 November 2008: I am sorry to hear a story like this. The biggest reason he is probably this way is he hates himself. His disabilities,etc and he takes it out on you. You feel sorry for him and that is not a marriage. He has been in your comfort zone for many years ... (read in full...)
His porn habit is making me feel bad about myself.
Q. Ok. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. We just had a baby. About 10months ago i found out he was role playing with other woman on the internet and was constantly beating off to porn when i was not around. He promised he would quit but he ...
A. 10 November 2008: It is normal but not as often as you make it sound. Most men do it but would never admit it. It doesn't always mean he wants to cheat or will cheat.If your holding back on sex it could be part of the reason or maybe he is just bored with the type of ... (read in full...)
I lied to my boyfriend and blamed my friend... how do I come clean a year later?
Q. Ahh! I hope someone can help, I'm going crazy! Let's see... I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now, and our relationship is quite good. I lied to him quite a while ago, while our relationship was still pretty new, and I know I need to...
A. 10 November 2008: No matter how many times you tell him nothing happened he will never believe you. You have lied for over a year. Some things are best left unsaid. However if you can't stand it anymore tell him. If it were me I would not do that because your asking ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for her or just give up now?
Q. I met this girl that I like a lot and we were flirting all the time until I finally asked her out. And everything was fine for the first few DAYS. She had broken up with her last bf a few days before that because she was planning on asking me out. ...
A. 10 November 2008: You need to move on and move fast. She is a player whether she knows it or not. Don't be another toy waiting around to finally get some attention.This behavior will never end, you are being used. Don't let this truth hurt you it happens to the best ... (read in full...)
Choosing between two of my exes...
Q. alright so this is about two of my exes. i feel like i'm in love with both of them. alright so yesterday i broke up with my boyfriend and i've been talking to one of my exes -we'll call him mike- and i've felt so much feelings for him, i mean we ...
A. 10 November 2008: Im sure your not going to like what I have to say and probably heard it b4 but your too young. Been there done that and seen happen time and time again. Leave poor Mike alone.He needs to move on! So do you. You can't hurt people you care about over ... (read in full...)
My communications with this married guy, is it wrong?
Q. I made a friend almost 2 years ago when I close a deal with the army. He's GI and married. We got along pretty well. He then split to his home base and since then been keeping email contact. We are business related still b/c of the deal but we are ...
A. 10 November 2008: If he is hiding this from his wife there is a reason. He wants more and your the only one who will get hurt. Tell him you would like to meet him and his wife for dinner. I bet he will come up with several excuses. Men and women can be friends but in ... (read in full...)
Was he playing with me, or does he think that we should take our time?
Q. i'm actually thinking about starting a relationship with someone. but i don't know if he really cares or not. when i was talking to him as a friend for a while he really didn't show any interest. my phone was turned off for five days. when he found ...
A. 10 November 2008: He was testing the waters to see how much control he has. You must tell him that you were not sure about it and by not showing up that he confirmed it for you. Tell him you went out with friends instead and had a great time and met a nice guy. Trust ... (read in full...)
What can I do to help myself develop an interest in someone other than my ex?
Q. Does anyone have any advice for things I can do to help myself develop an interest in someone other than my ex? We dated off-and-on for about two and a half years. I was sure I wanted to marry him. There were times when I think he was definitel...
A. 10 November 2008: Not only your heart but your ego has been bruised, this makes it much harder to let go.If you thought about cheating then you were not in love to begin with. In his defense I have to say my girl were gone that long I would be doing the same thing he ... (read in full...)
Should we talk about it, forget about it or break up?
Q. So me and my gf have been going out for around five months. It started in the summer where it was all doing fine. Then school started and we go to different ones so we couldnt see each other that much which made it kind of hard but we still talked ...
A. 10 November 2008: If you want to really continue the relationship, tell her you met someone else (never stray from this even years later). I hate to say it but she already has, she may deny but the signs are there. Tell her you enjoyed spending time with her but you ... (read in full...)
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