Just recently broke up, met a nice guy but am worried about moving too quickly?
Q. Dear cupid, I just recently broke up with my bf of a year and a half. It was a rocky relationship right from the start and he did many things ill never forgive him for involving honesty and respect. He dumped me 6 months ago and came back 3 week...
A. 17 September 2011: here wat u wrote
"Im very attracted to him and he makes me warm and fuzzy."
how many times in ur life someone ever got u there ?
have u even felt this way to the guy who controlled u and left u ?
there r moments in life that happened once an... (read in full...)
How can I be so unhappy and hurt and yet still love him?
Q. I am 39 and my husband is 54. We have an 8 yr old son together, and we have been together for the past 11 years, three years after we got together, he went to prison for 3 years, I waited on him faithfully I might add, and he has been home for 4 ...
A. 23 January 2011: lets just define love first . in ur opinion wat is it ?
well .
check this page .
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/love
look for how u feel toward him there sweetie . if u found it .. we can call it love as i doubt it :)
have u ever tr... (read in full...)
How can she survive on such little emotional sustenance?
Q. Sometimes, at night, when things are calm, I think about this girl who I spent the better part of last year thinking about, spending money on, and being emotionally tortured by. I distanced myself from her starting in October and now only communi...
A. 21 January 2011: lets see ..
"Should I be angry with her or should I feel sorry for her?"
u already sounds sorry for her and thats right ;)
"Has anyone ever known someone like this?"
yah .. most been with ppl like this . men and women . :)
"what goe... (read in full...)
Should I date my friend from high school?
Q. My good friend from high school and I had a "moment" the other day and I am wondering if it is wise to date my friend from high school? We have both graduated college, by the way. ...
A. 20 January 2011: its not bad to date someone from ur past :) at least u know wat he is alike and more things than a new comer into ur life .. u`ll at least know how to work it out with the guy and how to lead ur relationship ... ... (read in full...)
How to win him over?
Q. Hey everyone,im a 21 year old gay guy and i am madly in love with a guy who goes to work with me.Well i am no hottie,well i have kinda pretty eyes and long legs but i am not very hot.But this guy who im talking about is like the sexiest man in this ...
A. 20 January 2011: break the ice and spit it out . but be-careful when and where u do this .
chose right time and right place and say how u feel . thats all ... (read in full...)
We were good friends, and now she is ignoring me! What is going on?
Q. i like a girl who is my classmate i actually have crush on her and she also knows it and at one time we were good friends and now it hapenns is she is ignoring me?...
A. 20 January 2011: u better go with more details mate . all u wrote there is not enough :) second . a wman would ignore a guy if 1.she founf someone . 2.she found out that he found someone . in most its this way . ... (read in full...)
She's always on my mind and driving me crazy
Q. I got together with this girl early last year. I wasn’t to fussed about having a relationship at the time because I was happy how I was but she was a nice girl so I met up with her a few times and we ended up having a relationship. I could tell this ...
A. 20 January 2011: mate :)
all ur call ;) no one did any choices for u :) i know its soo easy on me to tell u to let it go , as i know how hard is this on you . but there is no other way to fix things up unless u had a gun and point it to her head then she may come... (read in full...)
I fell for Mr Nice Guy who promised the world and delivered nothing.....
Q. i am hoping to recieve help. my husband and i have been married only a year. we met on an internet dating site. he was the most romantic caring guy on the planet until we got near our wedding day.weve known each other 3 yrs. i had serious doubts t...
A. 17 January 2011: "i have tried mentioning things that upset me but all he replies is "if you dont like it you can leave"."
god . wat kind of men would tell such a thing to his woman . he explained it all for you . carelessly dont care watever u do :)
just ... (read in full...)
Two guys, I don't know what to do
Q. I use to be inlove with this amazing guy. He told me he loved me back but the 2 hours latter he ask out this girl that he has only talked to about 5 times in his life.So my best freind knew i needed to get over him so her boyfriend and her set me up ...
A. 17 January 2011: there is something to do . follow ur heart .
but remember . who left once will leave over and over again ;)
just follow your heart . ... (read in full...)
Broken family, broken spirit
Q. I'm nearly 16, am British but live in an Arabian country. Looking back, I remember my childhood as happy and stable, but behind the scenes my dad would cheat repeatedly. The final straw came for my mum when he slept with our in-house cleaner who was ...
A. 17 January 2011: hun
they dont speak Arabic in Pakistan :)
and wat ARAB country u in ?
i hope that such a story is not exist at all
but only help u can seek is ur father`s help if its hell with ur mom .
if no one helps go to UK embassy in that country and ... (read in full...)
Am I an awful person for not wanting him to go on a boys holiday?
Q. My bf broke my heart a year ago by lying and meeting up with his ex/saving half-naked photos of her on his computer. We made up and he's been good since then.My trust is SLOWLY starting to build up, but by no means is it there yet. He suddenly ...
A. 17 January 2011: not at all . ur r great ;)
i`d enjoy my woman jealousy cause it only shows that she loves me and care abt me :) even if its annoying sometimes :P but believe me once the relationship goes without jealousy .. it get sooo boring :)
as of wat i re... (read in full...)
Why are women so cruel to other women?
Q. What would you do? Stage four cancer, husband becoming more distant each week. Female @ his place of work keeps "needing" him...to help her buy a gun to make her feel safe, to give her a ride home (pretty far away), keeps bringing him his favorite ...
A. 17 January 2011: am sorry of wat i read hun . felt so sad reading . its not women cruel to others its a shared feeling to both men and women .. they call it being selfish :)
if she thought for one pure min she will hold back but as she is giving him space to come... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to friend with your ex husband?
Q. my marriage is over, I love my hb in many ways...he wants to be my friend after divorced, he said we can be good friends after all this sad situation. It's a good idea be friend of your ex hb? We didn't have a bad end, just things doesn't work as we ...
A. 17 January 2011: when it comes abt good will .. its sure good :)
no one but this man would understand u or feel u "till now lets say"
as long as its not harmful its great as u already judge it . but a question came in mind as am writing this .. "KIDS" if there is... (read in full...)
He wants a little freedom before he asks me out?
Q. i had just recently moved to a new town and i had met a boy a month earlier that month and we both became friends on the spot i had grown feelings for him and i hoped he did to he would hold my hand and rub it with his thumb but my little sister ...
A. 16 January 2011: ur mother will never be busy of giving her own daughter an advice :) try her and lets see wat comes out ;) ... (read in full...)
Why do many women have the chance to marry more than once in their lives when other none?
Q. What does it takes for someone (mostly women) who had a divorce or went through a bad experience to get several chances in their lives and marry once, twice or more and happened to find people who want to marry them. There are others who never find ...
A. 16 January 2011: was it ever abt how u look like ? ... ask ur self . was it ever how the man look like ?
god made us all different in look but wisdom comes when there is SOMEONE for everyone .
my grandma in late 80`s and told me something once .. think it gonna ex... (read in full...)
Can you find out if a person is missing you?
Q. Is there anywya to find out if a person is missing you and paining as you are for them? Especially prideful people? I don't show that I miss him but I miss him so much... ...
A. 16 January 2011: wats wrong if u showed that u miss him ?? thats wat love all abt ;) lust , miss , need .. all are beautiful feelings and there pain is the only pain that makes us feel exist :)
and yes i can find out if someone misses me IF I MISS HIM/HER ENOU... (read in full...)
She is my happiness and I am hers...
Q. I fell in love with my first cousin about 7 months ago. we never really let each other know that we had a crush on one another (we never talked so we were like strangers) so things just kinda lead one thing to another. She moved in with us due t...
A. 16 January 2011: would write a book abt ur situation there . and how beautiful things are .
"I need help to find a way to be together" u both already together :) more close than anyone would think . if u came out of all this u`ll end up together one day :)
as no... (read in full...)
He's gay... but I love him anyway!
Q. ok, so i really really love this boy, but he's openly gay. at a party once he took me upstairs and we just kissed and got drunk together, but another time he told me he wanted to have sex with me, i was drunk so i agreed, he was amazing, and he told ...
A. 16 January 2011: "he told me that ..."
everything been told to u by HIM and u have to keep it a secret . well . many guys would tell girls wat they WANT to be .. but most are not acknowledge wat they even talk abt :P
sweetie . sounds he TELL too much . and u do... (read in full...)
He wants a little freedom before he asks me out?
Q. i had just recently moved to a new town and i had met a boy a month earlier that month and we both became friends on the spot i had grown feelings for him and i hoped he did to he would hold my hand and rub it with his thumb but my little sister ...
A. 16 January 2011: 1st how old is ur boy ??!! a very important Q.
2nd be careful sweetie and dont ever believe anything u get told.
3rd ur mother is the one who would give the best advice u may ever get ;) no one here would give u a better advice . so keep her info... (read in full...)
Am I taking this the wrong way?
Q. I'm in the Navy currently on a deployment. Right before this deployment began, I had fallen in love with a girl. The feeling was mutual as she was the one to tell me she loved me first. Just before I left, we had promised to communcate as much as we ...
A. 16 January 2011: u r not taking this wrong way nor u got strange feelings . all u feel abt is RIGHT . been there once and all i did is just doing wat she want as i found out that she had someone :)
well . 4 passed .. 2 to go . do not mess ur life thinking this now ... (read in full...)
Why can't we be more dirty and sexual?
Q. I can't tell my boyfriend that I'm horny or that I want him because he acts shocked and says I'm so rude or obcessed with sex. Is that normal? He says he has a low sex drive, but is it normal to not even want to discuss anything sexual, like ...
A. 16 January 2011: if ur mate isnt the one to be this way with ,, who will u be with !!!
nothing wrong abt you :) maybe its his life experience or childhood or could be count to many othe reasons .
if u just want the guy the normal is to be as FREE as u can without ... (read in full...)
Should I call, even if I am not sure I want to be with him...?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for three months now and whilst he is a lovely lovely guy, I don't think we are right for each other long term. I decided last week that I should give it one last good shot with him to see if we are suited and will last lon...
A. 16 January 2011: i do like it that u know wat you want out of ur relationship ..
i admire that in you . and look very mature to me :)
be honest and drop him a call and u`ll uncover everything nothing better than this to do :)
both of you seems old enough to ju... (read in full...)
I still love my ex, but an old friend of mine has told her I was cheating when we were together and its not true!
Q. i need help as many of you know i am deeply in love with my ex we had a nasty break up pursued a friendship then rekindled our love even though we didn't make it official. Now heres the problem she was texting an ex friend of mine and decided to g...
A. 16 January 2011: be smart ;)
u`ll find a way ... (read in full...)
Should I pretend it doesn't matter that she's not consistent in her feelings for me?.
Q. I have been kind of attached to this girl for a while and we text and talk all day. We have known each other about 5 years. she is very caring and does think a lot about me. But her actions have terribly confused me. She makes me feel that i am the...
A. 15 January 2011: "Maybe she is using me to kill her time, it doesn't matter as long as i am enjoying her company."
are u enjoying her company ???!!!
wat exactly are u enjoying ?
thats one ..
wat do u expect out of this ? ur kids mother ? a girl to hang out w... (read in full...)
How do you get to a woman's heart?
Q. I've not been real big in the dating world here recently so I need some advice. How to you get to a womans heart?...
A. 15 January 2011: JUST BE YOU
if she take it :) she will for a long tirm ..
if not ;) u dont need her .
the mistake that many fill with is lake of honesty and trying to fake things of the other party .. nothing much to tell .
women are complicated and some... (read in full...)
Should I go after my ex or wait till she comes to me?
Q. My ex broke up with me couple days after xmas i tried talking to her but i been keep in contact with her aunt and her uncle i really do love her and want to be with her my question is should i text her or wait til she texts me or should i keep ...
A. 15 January 2011: "her aunt told me to leave her alone"
"I had people tell me to let it go"
mate ..
seems u talked many abt this matter and its WRONG . everyone would read wat u write here will get u to hear the same !!
wat r u looking for ? someone to tell u ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel that everything that goes wrong is my fault?
Q. Why do I feel guilty ? I just feel like everything that goes wrong in this world is because of me. I feel guilty and uneasy, what can I do to get rid of these feelings? They're ruining my mood, my social interactions, my life......
A. 15 January 2011: u better explain where these feelings come from ..
being guilty for no reason .. is A PROBLEM .
the only thing that goes wrong cause of u is ruining ur life with this feeling .
give things the correct reasons and all will work fine :)
... (read in full...)
Any ideas to get my ex back?
Q. so im going to explain my situation first. . my ex boyfriend and i were dating for 6 months, i know that sounds like a less amount of time, but we were the best of friends and before i met him i didnt go searchng for boys he came to me which made...
A. 14 January 2011: after all and you still want him back :) earth filled with guys out there . he is not the last and as he did this to u ... wat is his use to u ? sometimes it takes alot of pain to learn . :) my own opinion .. u`d not need him . wat if he... (read in full...)
Help me before I hurt the one I am with to be with the ex
Q. I am into a girl but she lied to me that she had no man in her life and I opted to end the relationship after I discovered it was a lie. She has been trying to get back by calling, coming to my Hse, she has changed her way of dressing and looks ...
A. 14 January 2011: is it a kind of payback or something? my friend .. u cant get stuck with both . u got to chose . its hard but u have to .else u`ll lose both and it happened countless times . no one can keep both wat r u seeking herE ? someone to tell u who... (read in full...)
I still love my ex, but an old friend of mine has told her I was cheating when we were together and its not true!
Q. i need help as many of you know i am deeply in love with my ex we had a nasty break up pursued a friendship then rekindled our love even though we didn't make it official. Now heres the problem she was texting an ex friend of mine and decided to g...
A. 14 January 2011: bring them both together and get everything cleared out to everyone .
ASAP .
thats it .
nothing else would get ur girl to believe u unless u do this .
... (read in full...)
So many lies.....Can I ever trust my wife again?
Q. I have been married for 3 years and just found out that my wife has done nothng but lie to me about almost everything including 2 1/2 of the years the marriage she has been texting and running in to one of her old boyfriend and about 6 months ago ...
A. 14 January 2011: ok mate .
sounds very hard on u besides am shocked with the amount of patience u got .
to me it sounds u love this woman and dont want things to get developed into the wrong way .
well
here is something to do .
make ur mind up and give an ... (read in full...)
Everything she tells to me, she tells to her male friends! Surely there should be a difference between her boyfriend of over a year and her male friends?
Q. Ok so I don't know if I'm overreacting or if I have a valid reason to feel the way I'm feeling and sorry if this is long. Me and my girlfriend have a very good relationship, we can talk to eachother about anything, our communication is...
A. 14 January 2011: many things are nor quite clear in ur question mate
1st. how u know that she tells them ? she tells u ? they tell u ? or its just how u feel . or she do it in-front of u ?
2nd. how deep these personal things are ? anything related to me is... (read in full...)
My emotional boyfriend is cramping my style!
Q. How do I tell my boyfriend that I need more space? First of all, we go to school together. I'm usually busy with classes all day long and always have lots of homework to do. Him, on the other hand, is taking soley English language classes (he is ...
A. 14 January 2011: a SIMPLE Question .
DO YOU WANT HIM OR NO ??!!
if no .. just spit it out before it gets deeper .
if yes .. well . its simple sweetie ... life is filled with things to do and enjoy . nothing called that u owe him anything . if he cant lead it :) u... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm in love with my 1st cousin!
Q. I am afraid I'm in love with my first cousin. I think he feels the same way but when he tells me he loves me in text messages and emails I am afraid to question it. We have been seeing eachother intimately for 4 months now. We have known each ...
A. 14 January 2011: why not sweetie ..
love seed been plant long time ago and guess its getting bigger now . just follow ur heart and it will lead you :) but remember the man comes as close as u allow him . and no one would ever be able to tell u how serous he is. ... (read in full...)
How do I apologize to my friend?
Q. pliz help i have a gal of mine so we have fought so i want to apologise to her so what are the spets to take so that i will not srew things up i love so much but it seems that she already have a boy friend and again im confused on the things to say ...
A. 14 January 2011: kinda missed up there ..
all u need is to go honest . as much as u can and things will go in the right way .
if she have another .. she is not urs then . u better move on .
if not she will admire ur honesty mate . we all do :)
make it as simple... (read in full...)
How can I read his moves?
Q. My boyfriend and me have been dating for about 7 months. And we haven't gone very far. Mostly because i'm scared. And i'm not reading any signals he's sending me. And i'm afraid our relationship is growing weaker. Can you guys help me know the sign...
A. 9 January 2011: dating him for 7 months and dont know where u want to get this to ???? come on make up ur mind first then go lookin for moves .
once u know wat u want out of this u`ll know wat to do next . u want to live with him or live with u or just want it a... (read in full...)
I feel I have no choice but to leave him and move on
Q. Hi, I have been thinking for a while now and feel it is time to move on with my life and break up with my boyfriend. i love him a lot but they way we are with each other is very unhealthy. He says he hates me and i tell him he needs to stop bu...
A. 9 January 2011: hun
sometimes in life words become useless as on now . u already made up ur mind . and just waiting for someone to tell u to go ..
lemme tell u this .. the moment u leave u`ll feel free and the moment u`ll find someone else .. u`ll forget a... (read in full...)
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