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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, I just recently broke up with my bf of a year and a half. It was a rocky relationship right from the start and he did many things ill never forgive him for involving honesty and respect. He dumped me 6 months ago and came back 3 weeks later. But things only changed briefly. He was possesive and controlling and because of these acts i fall out of love with him a good few months ago. I admit i turned cold recently which resulted in him dumping me again. He still just doesnt see why i felt that way. Anyway thats beside the point.A few months ago i met this guy i had an instant attraction to. Of course i never acted on it because i had a bf. Now that im single i have got to know him better. Last night i went out with friends and ill admit i was overly excited because i knew he would be there. We hooked up and i went back to his because i lost my friends. We kissed and cuddled but nothing even slightly more. I was pretty impressed that he didnt try anything and he slept fully dressed and didnt even take his jeans off.I have a massive crush on him and i know he likes me. But im woried because i only just broke up with my bf. I hung out with him today and he kissed me a couple of times and textes me later looking forward to spending time with you. Im very attracted to him and he makes me warm and fuzzy.But its a mere few weeks since the breakup. What do i do, i dont want to let a potentially fantastic guy walk by just because iv only just become single but i dont want to rush anything and i certainly dont want to hurt anyones feelings! I would love to get to know him better but is it wrong being so soon? Im not the kida girl thats scared of being alone so ill look at the first guy that pays me attention, i generally am attracted to this guy. He knows im recently single should i tell him im interested but need to get to know each other slowly or do i need time bymyself? I feel very confused i do care about my ex i always will but i feel like im over him is that possible so soon or is this crush on this new guy just masking it? has anyone else been in a similar situation? Thanks
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reader, EPocket  +, writes (17 September 2011):
 here wat u wrote
"Im very attracted to him and he makes me warm and fuzzy."
how many times in ur life someone ever got u there ?
have u even felt this way to the guy who controlled u and left u ?
there r moments in life that happened once and never repeat it self . and for love ... that beauty creature we keep curse if we got fooled with and worship once we dive in it .
am not a woman to answer ur question as u asked it . as of wat i know . just follow ur heart .
a tip. the most important abt every relationship is honesty . if he is honest . and u`ll know ur self . guess he deserve a chance
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