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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend's ex-wife called me and told me that my boyfriend may have another child and that he is going to court next month about it. When I asked him about it he said he was waiting for the right time to tell me. We are suppose to get married next year but how can I get past feeling hurt and betrayed?
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reader, Emilie  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Hey,
can i just say, i feel thats disgraceful and unacceptable to keep such a secret from you.
This was a big secret to keep and i cant blame you for feeling hurt an betrayed. If i was in your position he would never have lasted the night. You need to have a heart to heart with him explaining how you feel. I would also put the wedding off for a while until you are certain you want to be linked to this man who can keep such an important thing from you.
If he can keep his child exsistance from you he is sure to be keeping other things like this to himself in the future. Im sorry if i sound harsh but he may not be trust worthy now and even in the future either. I hope things work out. Best wishes xxx
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reader, sweeite +, writes (4 August 2007):
thats bad he if can hide that from you then im sure he can hide many more things from you. i think you should put the wedding on hold till you and only you feel is the right time to tie the knot
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reader, DV1 +, writes (4 August 2007):
 That's a huge secret. If he's keeping that secret, he'll keep more in the future. It definitely should put things into doubt. I would cancel plans for a wedding for the time being...
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