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*ammy_k
writes:me and my boyfriend have tryed different positions now but when he goes to put my legs on his shoulders and his penis goes in it realy hurts is this ment to happen as i have been told its ment to be really good Reply to this Question
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Just because a position is the best for one person, doesn't mean it's the best for you. Have fun and experiment with different positions and how high you raise your hips and stuff :)
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reader, sammy_k +, writes (13 August 2007):
sammy_k is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhanks for your replis as it has helped to know im no the only one with a bit of pain and i do talk to my boyfriend about it and he stops straight away if it hurts so im ok with that its just when i talk to people they say its the best position and i thought there might have been something wrong xxxxx thanks
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (6 August 2007):
If it hurts ask your guy not to do it again. You dont have to do it just because he likes it ok.
I tend to get an odd stabbing pain in my guy thrusts in too deep so we tend to not go for the deeper penetration positions. I don't think you have anything to worry about with the pain.
Not every single position is really good for everybody. Instead of putting you legs on his shoulders bend your knees towards your chest and put them together, and place them against his chest whilst on your back. He wont go so deep but you will be a lot tighter.
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reader, Emilie +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Hey hun, If it hurts stop! Dont carry on if you find it uncomfortable or painful, some positions are not all that comfortable and diferent peoples bodys agree with different things. If it is hurting it means your either doing something wrong like your too high of the ground or hes aiming wrongly. Have you talked to your boyfriend? If not and you want to try the position again, talk to him and try it slower while talking to him. Tell him if it starts hurting and see if he can move abit, re-adjust his aim etc. and if nothing works then stop doing that position and go to something more comfortable for you. Sex is meant to be fun and you BOTH are meant to have the pleasure, not just him!! So if it is hurting i suggest you dont do it again and just concentrate on you both haveing fun and getting the pleasure out of it :) Hope this helps a lil, Best wishes and Good luck! ps. keep me posted and if you need any more help or advice contact me vai dearcupid through email :) i will always reply! xxx
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