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writes:I went out with a guy a year and a bit ago,and was completly in love...i lost my virginity to him, anyway a week after he dumped me and went back to his ex girlfriend..i never spoke or saw him again so was have never really got over him.About 2 weeks ago now, i got an email from him asking how i was ect and saying he owed me an apology. we have been emailing and txting eachother other this time because i couldnt bring myself to call him.Anyway all my old feelings are back, also when we talk were quite flirty with each other. and yesterday we were arranging to meet, so i was quite open and asked what he wanted out of this...whether to be friends or more..Well i got an email of confessions this morning, starting with a massive apology. Then he went on to say that he has a girlfriend and she is 7 months pregnant with his child, but he said there relationship is bad atm.He said he really likes me, but we should just be friends for now and see what happens.I was so shocked by this...i dont know what to do because if he has a girlfriend and is starting a family i dont want to come between them, but at the same time i do really like him.Please help any advice is useful xx
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reader, Emilie +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Hey hun, i know what your going through is confusing you as all those feelings have come back but trust me you dont want to interfear with a bloke whos got a child coming into this world. Thats a nono really things will go stale and you will have his gf's child to think about not to mention the gf - mother of the baby. Problems will occur more than you can imagin. Please think about this and try and move on - hes not worth it! If he can up and run off with another girl when he has a 7 month pregnant girlfriend do you really want to be linked to him? Whats to say he wont do it with you??? You deserve so much more than this guy. Hes bad news even if you do love him hun. I hope this spreeds a lil light on the matter. Best wishes, good luck. ps keep me posted and if you have any questions email me via dearcupid! i will always reply :) good luck xxx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (6 August 2007):
 I would stay well away.Email mates maybe, but any meeting up? no.I guess at least hes being honest about the set up with him at the moment, but how would you feel if he was your partner and you were having his baby and he was trying to hit on someone else?The fact he flips back and forth to exes, AND gets one of them pregnant in the end, proves you had a lucky escape. Just think that could of been you, and he could be right at this moment emailing her behind your back.Nah i wouldnt touch him with a ten foot barge pole personally. He doesnt take responsibility for his actions at all and thinks he can keep going back n forth when he gets bored. I feel for his ex/current girlfriend and that baby.C xxxxxx
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