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writes:How do I let my boyfriend know that I need some breathing space without hurting his feelings. We have been dating for 3 weeks and he visits EVERY evening? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilie  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Hey hun i know what your going through, unfortanatly me and my ex didnt last very long as he wouldnt back off, we had only been together for a month. The most you can do is meet up with your guy and explain how you feel...that you do love his company but you need to have your "me" time too, rather than being hurt he will appreciate you being open and honest with him. If he takes it badly sugest that you compromise the days you see each other, ie. both of you chose the times in a week which you meet up. Therefore it will be much easier on you both. If he doesnt want to compromise however hes not worth the effort! Hope this helps a lil, best wishes and Good luck! xxx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Tell him exactly what you have told us. You don't want him in there every night. Make sure he understands that you DO love him, but need some time to do things of your own.
The man is all over you and he might not like it at first. But, if you show your love in other ways, he will get it. He doesn't want to smother you, but he is so happy to be with you that he can't contain himself.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Difficult one isnt it. They get so offended if you say you want one night on your own.Just try and explain its a good thing to have some time out from each other, makes it more exciting when you see each other next!Good luckC xxx
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