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| | *esperate_angel's profile:hello to all, i love giving advice to some friends and recently here in dearcupid. Agony aunts help me a lot to cope up with my emotional problem recently and now im the one giving advices. I thank all the people here in helping others even in a very simple way for atleast lessen their emotional burdens in life and could able to bring smile to somebody's face.
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Will God forgive my dead cousin for her gesture? I am open minded to all different beliefs.
Q. My cousin killed herself. She was 27yrs old. In my church we were always taught that if you kill youself then you are going to burn in hell forever. And I was eavesdropping when some family didnt know I was there and I heard them saying things about ...
A. 3 September 2008: hi to you little girl, im catholic and like christian its the same belief. Yes ive heard of that thing, as a catholic a person who commits suicide could still accept prayers but i believe he/she cannot enter the church for the mass before going on ... (read in full...)
I need some Agony Aunts to keep me in their prayers!
Q. Hi, I'm one of your agony aunts, but this time I need your help. I would just ask you all send me love, strength and support for what I'm about to go through. My husband's viza has not been granted, and we have to go for interview next week. You ...
A. 3 September 2008: hi everyone of us has their own problems even if its very simple. I will add that to my prayers dont worry. Just be strong and keep possitive. God always listens.... (read in full...)
Do people think that 25 years is too big an age gap?
Q. do people think that 25 years is too big an age gap? I am engaged to my boyfriend who is 25 years older than myself. My only problem is my mother does not approve. I just want to see what other people think as I would like to be able to see it from ...
A. 1 September 2008: its not a problem girl as long as you like/love each other why not. and especially if you could still bear a child from him then go. Goodluck ... (read in full...)
Why do I always pee after sex?
Q. I pee every after sex. What about you gals? Is it normal? Please help me to understand why i pee after sex. Thanks! ...
A. 30 August 2008: hello kabayan! thats normal for every girl to pee after sex. ... (read in full...)
He has turned from Prince Charming to a big jerk. What should I do about this
Q. I am a single mother of 3 and I met a guy who seemed very sweet and loving towards my children. He was a complete gentlemen and took me out and treated me like a princess. Well, 2 months have gone by and he has become a total jerk. He made my ...
A. 30 August 2008: hey girl, listen to your instinct. Yes there are a lot of jerks out there but not all take note. some are really just want to use women to satisfy their sex appetite and some men are decent enough that are afraid to do a mess in women. If a guy dont ... (read in full...)
How important are your school friends / your popularity at school?
Q. I am 15 at the moment. How important are your school friends/ your popularity at school? I have lots of friends at school and am sort of friends with everyone, yet I don't seem to really fit in anywhere? I am never inivited to particular gro...
A. 30 August 2008: when i was in that age at school, yes i think sometimes that popularity and friends are important so that you could fit into society. But lately as i move into senior years its not the popularity and how much friends you have which are important, it ... (read in full...)
I don't know if should stay or just leave him. I don't trust him anymore!
Q. Ive known my husband for 15 yrs and married for 6. He went to Ohio 2 weeks ago for work. I knew something was different when I talked to him. He came home told me he didnt love me, wanted to be alone, etc. I was in shock it came out of no where. I...
A. 29 August 2008: i believe and understand that your in a deep heartache right now. most important thing in this situation is try to talk to your husband discuss the problem. Better to give him another chance and forgive him. Dont waste the time you known each other ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man who has a healthy sex life to watch porn?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other very much and have a healthy sex life. I found out today that he watches porn sometimes. He told me without hesitation and I did not ask. We some how got on the topic of porn. H...
A. 29 August 2008: Yes it is normal and healthy for a man to watch porn especially at that age. Some men might find some things about sex which is helpful for them. Hope i help you on this matter... (read in full...)
Poll Question: Would you rather hear a lie that brought a smile or a truth that brought a tear?
Q. im curious.. which would you rather?.... poll question :) a lie that brings a smile? or the truth that brings a tear?...
A. 26 August 2008: truth always prevail. its better to know the reality than living with a too good to be true lies. ... (read in full...)
Virginity Poll: How old were you when you lost the V-card?
Q. tell me...how old were you when you lost your virginity??...
A. 26 August 2008: im 25 when i lost it but no regrets i love that guy.... (read in full...)
The question is, what do I do now? What is my next step? How do I start over again? I'm used to seeing my children everyday....Please help!
Q. I am now 30, so is my wife. We’ve been together for 10 years now, married for 7. Our first child was born 7 years ago. We now have 4 children, or at least she does. Since the birth of her 3rd child I had always been unsure if I was the father. I ...
A. 26 August 2008: Hi blowfish, your situation is very complicated and youve been in a hard moment. You know when Im reading all what you wrote, it breaks my heart. Its because of the reality that how far you have been hurt in your life. I know this is very ... (read in full...)
He wants to still date this other chick but he also wants me to just wait around. Do I wait or move on?
Q. Me ex split up with me about three months ago. I was his very first relationship ever and he didn't think he could go through with it knowing that there was a "what if". Our relationship was heading straight down the aisle and he didn't think he ...
A. 26 August 2008: He still not sure about his decision whether who he will going to choose. Your the first came into his life and he has another one and he wants to make up with you. If he really loves you he will going to choose you no matter what. Then if he ... (read in full...)
I felt we didn't have closure, I still have questions, haven't talked or seen them in two years, should I leave it alone, or try to find "closure"?
Q. Would it be better to seek closure with someone? or just continue to stay apart completely? We haven't seen or talked to each other in about 2-3 years, but I never really felt we had a clean break from each other, things just got awkward. There's ...
A. 21 August 2008: hello dear, its a fact that break up is very very painful to us. At first its so hard to find closure or acceptance of the reality. We feel hurt because we still love the person and cant let go. Some things are hard to express freely so as not to ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me while I was in Iraq... Is she always going to be a cheater?
Q. 5 years ago while i was in Iraq My wife (18years old) cheated on me and had a guy live with her while I was away. I too cheated out of resentment when I got back but have learned from my mistakes and never want to hurt her again (I admit I have ...
A. 21 August 2008: well jeramy if thats the case your wife is encountering a sexual problem. but if you said that both of you have enough sex then whats the problem?do you have kids?if not she dont have some reason to be busy. both of you will focus on your baby and ... (read in full...)
I need tips on how I can prepare myself for this college and how to make myself a better person!
Q. I'm sick of my friends and everyone. I am going to channel my energy into being able to go to the school of my dreams (F.I.T). Does anybody have any tips on how I can prepare myself for this college?? I've been having problems with so called "...
A. 20 August 2008: hi, your future depends on your hands and not from your circle of friends. You have your own decision in life to push through. What happens in your future always depending on your capabilities and determination. Life sometimes put us in test. Do not ... (read in full...)
How do you get a guy's attention without seeming desperate?
Q. Does anyone have any advice on how to get a guys attention without acting desperate?...
A. 20 August 2008: Hi, just be yourself. Act naturally and modestly as a lady. Guys like girls who are modest and have self confidence on themself. You dont need to get their attention they will just notice you. Goodluck... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me while I was in Iraq... Is she always going to be a cheater?
Q. 5 years ago while i was in Iraq My wife (18years old) cheated on me and had a guy live with her while I was away. I too cheated out of resentment when I got back but have learned from my mistakes and never want to hurt her again (I admit I have ...
A. 20 August 2008: okay if its the case then why not consult a marriage counselling in your country. If you really love each other no matter what happens both of you will always stick together. You have leave your job for her thats enough thing that you showed her ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me while I was in Iraq... Is she always going to be a cheater?
Q. 5 years ago while i was in Iraq My wife (18years old) cheated on me and had a guy live with her while I was away. I too cheated out of resentment when I got back but have learned from my mistakes and never want to hurt her again (I admit I have ...
A. 20 August 2008: hi there, you have a common problem but i understand that its very painful. Your wife is very young but even though her age which is married its sad to say that she's still immature to handle loneliness while your gone. Its a very common situation ... (read in full...)
I am an attractive 32 year old, he's 60 but I feel so insecure. Is he going through that phase where he feels trapped?
Q. I have been with a man (who is separated) for 2 years now. It is an official separation, I know his wife and son, family and we all get along very well. My man and I have had an incredible relationship filled with chemistry, great sex, ...
A. 10 August 2008: Hi again, ohh girl its really funny and coincidence that were almost in the same situation. Like me it happens also when the day comes that im slowly noticing that somethings going on or somehings changed to him. like for example, he's not that ... (read in full...)
His ended his marriage - but won't move out?
Q. i am madly in love with a married man who has young children, his marriage was on the rocks long before i came along we were friends to begin with and we had alot in common as well as mutual friends,. when i realised he had feeling for me i backed ...
A. 9 August 2008: hello to you, thats pretty tough situation. well in my experience, i could say that follow what your mind ask you which is right. if he filed divorsed to his wife then he really loves you. but think of this, we have the same situation the only ... (read in full...)
I am an attractive 32 year old, he's 60 but I feel so insecure. Is he going through that phase where he feels trapped?
Q. I have been with a man (who is separated) for 2 years now. It is an official separation, I know his wife and son, family and we all get along very well. My man and I have had an incredible relationship filled with chemistry, great sex, ...
A. 9 August 2008: Hi there, we are mostly on the same situation and funny were the same age but the guy involved to me was 13 years senior my age. in your situation it is normal because some girls are really attracted to mature guys, and besides he still not legally ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous and guilty what should I do???
Q. Im sleeping with a married man and Im 14 years old. Ive fallen in love with him but recently he's been really really close to his wife in front of me and i just feel jealous and guilty. help?? what should i do??...
A. 6 August 2008: hello sweety, your so young for this kind of relationship. well ive been in that situation recently and its true that was painful. If you know from the start that he's married and you also know his wife, then dont waste your time on him. mostly ... (read in full...)
We've been married for 18 months and she's still a virgin! What can I do?
Q. Hi, I have been married since March '07 (nearly 18 months ago), I love my wife to pieces but am extremely stuck on this. She was a virgin when we started going out, but the problem is she is still a virgin now. We've been together since '03, and...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi, you should be very proud of that. Imagine she's virgin. Be patient my friend, maybe she's still not ready to engage in an intimate way or maybe she still not ready to have a baby. If you really love and respect her...just wait and be patient ... (read in full...)
He said he was divorced. Now I know the truth I want to tell his wife. Am I being fair?
Q. dear cupid, i was just recently broken hearted by a guy 13 years older than me which i found out later that he's married and with 3 kids. he lied to me, he keeps on telling me that he's divorsed and no kids. i respect him so much and care for a l...
A. 6 August 2008: hello to all, please give me an advice about my recent situation. how could i forget him?give me some steps to move on im still hurt right now. I know its wrong to still fall in love to a married man (which i only found out recently thats hes ... (read in full...)
What is the secret of a happy life?
Q. i still not feeling beter. i always worry about silly things.i don't find joyful life still now even if i got a job.what is the secreat of life?...
A. 6 August 2008: well for you to be happy in life...count your blessings especially the ones around you who loves you no matter what. happiness resides in our heart and in our soul, we are happy if we are able to care, to give and to appreciate some simple things in ... (read in full...)
How can I make my beautiful young sexy wife agree to have sex with my friends?
Q. I have been married since 3 years and have a 2 yr. old son. There is something going on inside me, which turns me on. My wife is very beautiful, young, sexy, but she is a homely girl. I want to see my wife having sex with 2-3 guys at a time in front ...
A. 6 August 2008: ooops, this is something weird. please ask yourself first if you really love your wife. what would you feel if its the other way around will you agree? Respect her decesion thats it... (read in full...)
He said he was divorced. Now I know the truth I want to tell his wife. Am I being fair?
Q. dear cupid, i was just recently broken hearted by a guy 13 years older than me which i found out later that he's married and with 3 kids. he lied to me, he keeps on telling me that he's divorsed and no kids. i respect him so much and care for a l...
A. 6 August 2008: as of now im learning to move on. yes it really hurts me so bad about what had happened. I just hope things will get better sooner and i will finally go on with my life. thank you to all who help me with these matter. god always forgive and so do i. ... (read in full...)
Are East Indian girls typically "tighter" than white women?
Q. I am a white female, height 5'7", weight 115 lbs., dating a white man whose last girlfriend was East Indian. He has not slept with anyone since her, and, since my last boyfriend told me that the (East) Asian girls he had slept with were "tighter" ...
A. 6 August 2008: hi im an asian girl, so obviously i have a petite body compare to western. Its simply because of the body frame why it is tight. females organ are less tighter depending on one's sexual life and as ive told here is the body frame and the measure of ... (read in full...)
I can't help but feel insecure and inadequate. I keep comparing myself to her.
Q. There's this guy I've known for a long time. We were going to pursue a relationship. The problem is he has a high sex drive and I'm a virgin at 22. He's alot older and he's 28. The fact I'm a virgin - it's a issue to him. I want to take my time and ...
A. 6 August 2008: hi there, this is only my opinion since we are brought up in entirely different race (im from the east). we are in the modern age but of course for you its very important to give it to someone who really deserves. somebody you will trust and love. i ... (read in full...)
He said he was divorced. Now I know the truth I want to tell his wife. Am I being fair?
Q. dear cupid, i was just recently broken hearted by a guy 13 years older than me which i found out later that he's married and with 3 kids. he lied to me, he keeps on telling me that he's divorsed and no kids. i respect him so much and care for a l...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi everyone! thank you to all the wonderful peopleon who answered me, and gave me a pieces of advice for enlightenment. Although im so emotionally hurt by now and trying to move on, i always listen to what my heart dictates on me. I forgive him but ... (read in full...)
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