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writes:I am a white female, height 5'7", weight 115 lbs., dating a white man whose last girlfriend was East Indian. He has not slept with anyone since her, and, since my last boyfriend told me that the (East) Asian girls he had slept with were "tighter" than white girls he'd slept with....I was wondering if there were any white men out there with lots of *experience* with East Indian women?I know I sound insecure asking about this, but I am a little insecure b/c, while I am attractive and have a nice body, I don't think of myself as being very....tight in the nether regions... I haven't had children, and am in my mid-20s, but he is not really well-endowed, so I am just wondering if, like some white guys I know, he might be someone who prefers Asian women in general for this reason, or maybe it was just a coincidence. So basically I just want to know, from people who actually have experience in some way in this area, or are East Indian themselves....specifically the White Guy/East Indian girl thing---are East Indian girls *typically* "tighter" than white women? Note: I am NOT asking about White Guy/East Asian girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): I think your boyfriend is a jerk to say this but then sometimes people say the stupidest things without realizing the impact. Now I'm a woman so I haven't slept with another woman but... I have slept with white men and Middle Eastern men who have and in my case at least they have loudly proclaimed the opposite. Now, I've got very white skin and am of a very mixed cultural ancestry but I've always been categorized as Caucasian. My body type is average height and curvy but proportional but on the bigger side short larger bones structure sooo it would seem that I would have a larger pussy . Actually just the opposite I have had a child and I still am uncomfortable wearing tampons. I think men will tell a woman they are 'tight, wet etc' as foreplay but in my case, I've realized it is true even gynecologists have commented. When I was young I was very slim and now big busted curvy however The men I have slept with ALWAYS comment on how wet and tight I am. They seem very surprised by this because of stereo types I guess. But I think it is individual . I have had very petite friends that wear two or more tampons at a time since puberty lol. I lived in Asia and now the ME and I have friends from both backgrounds that have no problem whatsoever accommodating very large men. I do, I have to be aroused and relaxed or it would be painful! I in fact will refuse a lover if I am not wet because it will hurt me and am thankful that my body seems to lubricate easily. I also married an Asian man and for years really didn't know he was exceptionally small because it felt great to me lol. So in my opinion it is an individual thing but I will admit that stereotypes prevail because of the comments I have received from lovers stating that I am tighter than the Indian , Japanese or Middle Eastern women and Asian women they have known they seem to love it but are always surprised and I've heard it enough to know it is true - I am an American BB white woman .
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reader, delgriffith +, writes (1 March 2009):
What a load of crap. I've slept with black, white, american indian, asian, east indian, arabian, and latinas. I celebrate diversity and totally love ethnic women - they make my heart race. I'm particularly fond of east indian women. BUT I have absolutely not noticed any difference in vagina size. I was just happy that each and every one of them seemed to enjoy having me inside them. The only possible pattern that I have noticed is that two of the black women that I slept with were unusually tight. One of them was a good 185 lbs - not a small woman. But then the other four black women I've slept with were pretty normal I'd say. Out of the dozens of vaginas I have enjoyed over the years, there was only one that I remember not being thoroughly enthusiastic about. She wasn't too loose either - she was just too smooth. She was so smooth that it felt unnatural and did not stimulate me much to have sex with her. She happened to be a tall skinny white girl, but I put nothing down to race. Plenty of other white girls I slept with had good texture. Dump his stupid ass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): ur BF is wacko - it depends on the specific lady & not the race - i've had tight normal and loose east indian women. I would forget about his comment & focus on other aspects of the relationship. sorry if this doesn't help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): How "tight" a woman is does not depend on how much sex you have had or what race you are. When women are aroused their vagina's fill with blood and expand. Most often, if a women is "tight," there is a good chance she is nervous and is not as aroused as she could be. As a previous poster said, my recommendation would be to work your kegal muscles. For more information, look up AskAlice. She has some good advice on the issue.
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reader, Cowboy  +, writes (25 October 2008):
 I've only had sex with one east indian girl, and she was 'about average'. I know that doesn't help much!
I've conducted a sizable clinical trial on this subject over the years (although strictly on an amateur basis) and I have found no correlation between tightness and build/ size/ ethnicity, or any other factor. They vary a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): What utter rubbish by InterCntlCHmp.I am an Indian myself.So you have had a lot of affairs huh.The reason you find it difficult to deal with them is they have brains.Anyone with brains can spot that you are crazy.duh.For the female who has asked this question,your boyfriend is just trying to make you feel inadequate.There are many psychos who do that.Please try and learn to love yourself.No comment can hurt you then.By the way what kind of guy talks like this to his girlfriend.If I were you I would have dumped him on the spot.you definitely deserve better.
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reader, InterCntlCHmp  +, writes (23 October 2008):
Hi there,
I have had wonderful relationships with many women from various parts of the world. Fijian, Punjabi, Ismeili, Gudrathi, Persian, Azerbijan, China, USA, Japan, Spain, Belize, Mexico, Native American, Croatian, POlish, Irish The whole lot seriously.
'Tightness' all depends on the girl it has nothing to do with race after all women from all over the world give birth through their vagina's and while baby sizes may vary from nation to nation the average baby is still a lot larger than any man's penis. Women can stretch no matter where they are from.
Indian girls however (the ones that only eat veggies) have the sweetest tasting parts and their bosy chemistry is all -round sexy I would also say that if I had to choose from my experience Indian girls give the best blowjobs and are all round better in bed.
Down side though is THEY ARE FUCKING CRAZY!!!! very difficult women to deal with on the long term; but gorgeous all the same.
-Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): Hi, I am an East Indian female. Based on my sexual experience and feedback, I would tell you that East Indian women are about the same as white women when it comes to "tightness". Asian (Chinese, Japanese) etc, are on average, "tighter", but not East Indian girls. Try doing some Kegal exercises (contracting and relaxing the pelvic muscles, as if you are stopping and starting to urinate). This will tighten you and you can try doing this while having sex, it will make your guy feel good. Otherwise, don't worry, if he's not well-endowed, that's his issue. He's a white guy and your a white girl, you're supposed to fit together exactly how you do. Not every girl has large breasts and not every guy has a large penis, but the world goes on. Don't worry so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): black pussy is tighter altogether. it's also wetter and has a wonderful aroma!
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reader, desperate_angel +, writes (6 August 2008):
 hi im an asian girl, so obviously i have a petite body compare to western. Its simply because of the body frame why it is tight. females organ are less tighter depending on one's sexual life and as ive told here is the body frame and the measure of the hips. we are unique, we have our own body structure. Be happy your taller i wish i am taller too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): I am East Asian myself and I am tight, but I am also small framed, so the body structure (width of hips etc) might have something to do with it. Also, I have only been with two men and have not had intercourse all that often. It may just be a myth but I have always heard that a vagina gets less tight the more 'action' it gets. Some argue though that if a mother of 4 can hold a tampon, a vagina would never feel too loose for a man's penis. But one thing to keep in mind is that when a woman is sexually aroused, her vagina stretches, so that plays a role too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): Hi
Answer...he has a small dick and is trying to make you feel insecure by suggesting you are not very tight,so he feels better and more adequate than your previous boyfriends. He is full of crap! and you should reverse what he has said by using the size of his dick in comparison to other men, see how he likes it....he should not have said that to you. Certain exercises can tighten a woman down there, it is not a breed thing, and whats more don't let him insult your intelligence just because he's thick, but obviously not in the penis department.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): Maybe I'm missing something, but I don't really understand the reason for the note at the bottom of your question. If you're not asking about white guys/East Asian girls, what ARE you asking? There's confusion in my brain I'm afraid.Anyway, to try to answer what I think is the question, 'East Asian' covers a whole lot of territory from east of India to the Phillippines so it's difficult to be specific. The further east you go, in general, the smaller the women (and the men, Sumo wrestlers excepted) and consequently everything about them is smaller or tighter. They also have a lot less body hair - not that it's relevant - and look a lot younger than their actual years to western eyes. Maybe he's transferring his insecurity about being at the end of the queue onto you by suggesting you're loose. There's one way to improve things though, and that's pelvic floor muscle exercises which you can also employ during sex. Do that and I don't think there's a man out there who would think you're loose, whatever his size!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 August 2008):
Well unless he has had sex with several hundred east indian girls and done a survey, it could just be that she happened to be tight, and you are less so.... born like that, I mean.
Everyone is different. If he mentions it again point out that your last boyfriend was much bigger in the trouser department than him.
Girl's vaginas vary in size as much as men's penises.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): Ill ignore WizardOfWaz because hes forgetting that you are asking about genetic heratige not skin colour.
Anyway there are some research about male endowment(which is close to female edowment I think) in this subject and its important that you realize that it doesnt mean 100% of the males of that ethnicity have the same charictaristics..
Example: while Indian males are said to be statisticly less endowed, a small % of them are probably above average size.
Same could be true about Indian females vagina size but I dont think anyone actually made research about that.
Im sure some white women are also tighter than indian women even if its less likely so please dont beat yourself over that, if you are both attractive and confidant to eachother thats what matters most.
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