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I am 18 years of age.
I am currently living in Bristol in the United Kingdom.
I am in a 2 year Longterm - Long distance relationship which makes it easy for me to understand the harder side of some relationships.
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In love with my boyfriend's friend...
Q. i think im love with my boyfreind's best freind. and i know this is bad. he says that hes in love with me but i only like him but a whole lot.. what should i do. i want to forget about my bf's friend and move on but i cant. HELP!...
A. 6 June 2008: Ok first you need to take your current boyfriends feelings into consideration and think about how he would feel if he found about you and his friend.
Or you could leave them both because this sounds like a suituation where someone is going to get ... (read in full...)
Shoud I just try to forget him or will he realise what he lost?
Q. im 38 he's 36. met last april. he has a 3 year old son that i got on with brilliantly. the childs mother is the problem and caused lots of trouble as she doesn't want him to move on. it all got too much after 6 months and he bailed out. i was ...
A. 17 January 2008: I think the mistake in this suituation was getting family to fight your battles. They say whatever they want because they know its not going to affect their personal life.
Saying that you've been pushed into the arms of another man is going to make... (read in full...)
I love her but she doesn't feel the same. What can I do?
Q. Hi, can any body help me out? I'm going out with a lady, that i love with everything in my life, in fact I really want her to be my wife. The funniest thing is that she doesn't love me please what can I do? I really love her and I don't want lose ...
A. 17 January 2008: I can't tell you exactly what she wants to hear because every woman is different.
But i will suggest that maybe you should take her out for the day just you and her and do something romantic.
Tell her how she makes you feel, Compliment her, tel... (read in full...)
How do I get myself a girlfriend?
Q. Hi, i have a question. How to get a good girlfriend. I am 30 years old from India and now want to settle my life. Actually my problem is that i am not a romantic type person. Therefore, Please suggest me some good ideas. I want a true girlfrie...
A. 17 January 2008: Unfourtunately you can't find a good girlfriend just like that, base it on qualities you would like to find in a girlfriend. You could try finding some social activities around your area that will then assure you that if you meet a girl there she ... (read in full...)
I still like him, but I made him feel that I don't care but I do...a lot. Advice?
Q. i am fat. there is this guy whom i like but he doesnt like me. he knows that i like him.....he was very nice to me about it but he changed(somethings happened but i dont want to tell them). he sent back a message from my friend for me that i sh...
A. 17 January 2008: Its hard to determine, I think it depends on the type of person he is because most people DO get upset if you make rude comments about them.
If he likes you then i think he will make the first move as he knows you like him back and can avoid an awkw... (read in full...)
I love her but she doesn't feel the same. What can I do?
Q. Hi, can any body help me out? I'm going out with a lady, that i love with everything in my life, in fact I really want her to be my wife. The funniest thing is that she doesn't love me please what can I do? I really love her and I don't want lose ...
A. 16 January 2008: You obviously want to build a future with this lady, which is expected since 3 years is a long time!
I think your best bet is to talk to her, tell her exactly how you feel and what you would like, ask her where your relationship is going and if she ... (read in full...)
I don't want to marry the wrong guy..so who do I pick?
Q. I has been dating with my boyfriend, H for 3 and ½ years. We love each other since day 1 in our relationship. However, I found out that we have lost sparks in our relationship recently although we didn’t have any quarrel. 3 months ago, I met a guy, ...
A. 15 January 2008: If your confused about who you want to be with i think the last thing you should be worrying about is which one you want to marry. Be mature about this, If your really torn between two people i think the best advise you can get is really from ... (read in full...)
If he calls more than once a day...does that mean he likes you?
Q. when a guy calls you daily more than once a day does that mean that he likes you?or does he just want someone to talk ?...
A. 15 January 2008: I wouldn't go jumping to conclusions, he could like you or he could like TALKING to you.
You didn't type much in your question so its kind of hard to determine. Anyhoo..
Good luck.
Dolly
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I love her and I trust her but this guy is getting to me. What can I do?
Q. hi i really need help, i am 20 and my girlfriend is 18, we have ben together for nearly a year and she lost her virginity to me (hope thats the right way of saying it, sorry if that is disrespectfull), she has many guy mates and flirts with everyone ...
A. 15 January 2008: If you've talked to her about this and she carrys on doing things that are making you uncomfortable then why are you still with this girl?! You sound like a pretty decent guy and she sounds like she doesn't care about how you feel aslong as shes ... (read in full...)
What are the after effects of interrupting a diet, on your birthday? Should I turn down the cake?
Q. hi i have been trying to lose weight for about a week and i am not expecting any results as i am not on a drastic diet, jsut healthier eating. I want to be much slimmer by summer 08 and i want the weight to stay off. however, it is my birt...
A. 15 January 2008: Don't deprive your body of what it craves if you want the cake you eat the cake plus its your birthday everyone pigs out on their birthday.
You won't balloon out or notice a difference the next day i promise.
Have a good birthday!
Dolly.
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I love her but she doesn't feel the same. What can I do?
Q. Hi, can any body help me out? I'm going out with a lady, that i love with everything in my life, in fact I really want her to be my wife. The funniest thing is that she doesn't love me please what can I do? I really love her and I don't want lose ...
A. 15 January 2008: Just because she doesn't feel exactly the same way as you right now doesn't mean your going to lose her. Sometimes it takes some people a little time than their partners to fall in love.
Give it some time maybe when you have been together a litt... (read in full...)
I just broke up with him and he hasn't spoken since. Should I text him or what?
Q. If there was anytime i need some help i need it now, i just broke up with my boyfriend and i dont just feel emotionally sick but i also feel physically sick...like i cant breathe and my stomach is in knots. This is the worst feeling in the world and ...
A. 31 December 2007: I wouldn't think he would still love his ex, men do stupid things like this all the time and lie about it to protect our feelings which is sometimes the wrong thing to do.
Just DON'T contact him, hes in the wrong let him do the chasing.
Dolly... (read in full...)
I know I should move on from my long-distance ex but just feel I can't.
Q. How to i get over my ex? We split a month ago after going out for 4 months, it was long distance but we fell in love but he broke it off as the distance was gettin to much and he couldnt keep affording to come up as i'm only 16 and not allowed ...
A. 31 December 2007: To be honest its going to be hard but i think you should move on, you obviously still really like this guy and he knows it and i wouldnt allow yourself to be strung along believing that you could get back together soon, him talking to other girls ... (read in full...)
Need advise in my long term relationship.
Q. ok ive been with this guy for almost 3 in half years. we have been together ever since we we're young. i havent had a normal teenage life. ive never been able to go out and party with my friends or even hang out with any of them. he doesnt likeme ...
A. 8 December 2007: It sounds as if your boyfriend is attention seeking and it can be irritating if he wants your attention 24/7 like a child.
Reasure him that(if you do) talk to other boys on the computer then it is only casual conversation and that he should trus... (read in full...)
How can I know whether she is having another relationship? She is avoiding me all of a sudden.
Q. Hi I'm having a problem with my relationship. She is a different country girl. we were very happy for months and all of sudden she is trying to avoid me when I'm trying to talk to her. And I don't know whether she is having another relationship. Pls ...
A. 23 November 2007: I think your best bet is to well ask her why shes avoiding you. Tell her how you feel and ask if you've done something wrong.
Just because she is avoiding you doesn't always mean that shes having another relationship.
And if shes making you have... (read in full...)
New to the city. (Birmingham) How do I meet people?
Q. hi everyone, im back for another question.haha. well i was so impressed with the answer for the last one. :) as some of you may know im new to the area (birmingham) but i find it very hard to meet new people and make friends. i know i need to j...
A. 22 November 2007: Do you have any hobbies? Sports that you enjoy? I'm sure they would have something that would take your interest, Try looking online or in the local newspaper for social groups. Hope this helped :) Dolly. ... (read in full...)
Should I give the "favorite customer" my number?
Q. I am 18 years old and work part time at a supermarket at the checkout. There is this guy who comes in all the time and always comes through my checkout! Always! I think he is pretty cute and he seems nice from what I have seen of him so far, from ...
A. 22 November 2007: From what you have said this guy is obviously making passes at you. I wouldn't be freaked out, your friends plan sounds perfect. Hope everything goes swell! Good luck. Dolly.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't climax with me... What am I doing wrong?
Q. i have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and i cant get him to climax. in all the time that we have been together i swear i can count it on one hand how many times it has happened. he isnt my first and with the others i had no ...
A. 22 November 2007: I agree with calamitysil, If there has been no problem in your previous relationships then it has to be a dysfunction with him. You could try being more adventurous with you sexlife, try things you wouldn't normally think of doing or fullfil yours ... (read in full...)
Been married for 11 years and we are having marrital problems. I think it's time to get out. What do you think?
Q. I feel like it is time to get out. I have been married for 11 yrs. with 2 kids.(Whom I love dearly) We have had marrital problems in the past do to my actions. 8yrs later, I still get comments like-where have you been, your girlfriends? why ar...
A. 16 January 2007: It sounds as if the trust your wife should have for you is non-existant which is exceptable and is probably the main reason why she is making comments about your whereabouts. Try talking to her and tell her that her comments are pushing you away, ... (read in full...)
My long-distance BF is jealous of my male friend who lives close to me!
Q. first off I'm 17, and he's 22. I have a boyfriend from another country, and of course long distance relationships tend to be hard. but then again. he says he loves me and i say i love him. but i met up with a friend today. who i used to fanc...
A. 7 December 2006: Its completely normal for your boyfriend to be jealous of your friend. And probably will be jealous of any male friends you will have.
Men are more insecure than women. Fact.
Your boyfriend is probably confused because he can't be there for you ... (read in full...)
He Broke up with me so he could date my friend!!! I dont want to lose a friend but im confused!!
Q. I just got out relationship with this guy, that I am not sure if I still love, or hate. We went out before, but I broke up with him because I wasn't feeling the love there between us. But i evolved a crush on him after the brake up, and we got back ...
A. 7 December 2006: Firstly you need to just forget about your ex. If he really cared about you he wouldn't run off with your "friend".
Secondly you need to be certain about "Vinnie's" feelings before you try to take things further.
Explain that you don't want to ... (read in full...)
He doesn't feel the same... how can I get over him?
Q. I've liked a guy for about 2 years and now I think I love him because I cry almost everyday and my heart hurts just thinking of him. I recently told him I had strong feelings for him and he doesnt like me the way I like him. I want to know how do I ...
A. 7 December 2006: Just to warn you absolutely everything you look at is going to remind you of him and i know it feels immpossible to get over someone your head over heals about but its not.
Take up a hobby or do something you really enjoy.
Make sure you have a g... (read in full...)
Im due to be married next year, but stuck to my guns on staying a virgin, thing is im now confused about it, should I just give in now ??
Q. Hi I am 23 and to be married within the next year. I strongly didn't wanna have sex till marriage coz I believed in being responsible for my actions and not getting carried away. So I am still a virgin. My boyfriend who is not a virgin has tried...
A. 7 December 2006: Don't give in.
It doesn't sound as if your boyfriend is fussed that he has to wait untill your wed.
Stick to your beliefs, Wait untill your married, Then you know its going to be that extra bit special.... (read in full...)
6 Years ago I fell for this girl, we are friends but I love her.. Im hurting, how do I deal with this ?
Q. Well, 6 years ago (when I was 15) I began to like a girl and she liked me too but I've never told her anything so nothing happened.then we became friends and now, after 6 years,I still love her and I'm jealous of everything she does.When she's with ...
A. 7 December 2006: Its very sweet that you've held on to this for so long. Take her somewhere quiet. Pluck up the courage and tell her everything, She may still have a little soft spot for you too.
Best of luck.
Dolly.... (read in full...)
My bf can't handle my past and doesn't want to hear anymore about it - we love each other, so how do we solve this mess?
Q. i need a solution so plz be fast help me out.i have a loving bf the problem is my past troubles him a lot he thinks of it all the time and comes wth weird thoughts,how do i stop himhe lves me a lot and i love him too, and i dont wanna lose him no ...
A. 6 December 2006: Make it clear to him that talking about your past makes you uncomfortable and ask him to respect your wishes.
Its understandable that it irritates him, He probably thinks you can't open up to him.
Just tell him your looking towards the future w... (read in full...)
She asked my bf if he wanted to go to the bathroom with her - should I tell my bf she made me mad?
Q. One night my b/f and i were at a club with his 2 friends and the friend's cousin who i have met about 3 times. At one point she is gonna go the ladies room with her friend and she asks my b/f do you need to go to the bathroom? To me that is being ...
A. 6 December 2006: I can understand that you may be upset over what she said to your boyfriend but it doesn't sound as if she was trying to imply anything by asking him if he needed the loo.
Still tell your boyfriend that it annoyed you a bit so next time you may go o... (read in full...)
I moved 200 miles away from everyone I love to be with him - he just goes out to smoke up w/ friends and is still on a dating site!!
Q. I met my boyfriend last year on an internet dating website and after spending one weekend together, we were inseparable so we both decided that I should leave my job, my friends, my family and move the two hundred miles so that we could be ...
A. 6 December 2006: Your obviously not happy where you are now. It was wrong of your boyfriend to tell you to move out on your own into a city which is probably foreign to you. Try talking to him and tell him that he needs to get his priorities straight. Tell him If ... (read in full...)
He wants a baby, but didnt mention marriage, He knows I wanted to be wed first, so what do I do ?
Q. i'm in a dilemma with my boyfriend - he rarely talks about our future and what it holds for us regarding marriage. I dream of getting married and having children and settling down. I know he wants children but i'm not so sure about marriage. When we ...
A. 6 December 2006: Untill your sure that you and your partner are fully committed to your relationship i wouldn't suggest bringing a child into the world just yet.
Getting married before starting your own family is the more sensible idea. Explain this to your boyf... (read in full...)
Hes cheated several times before, I told him he needs to earn trust, but hes hanging out with other girls again!!!!
Q. I'll give u brief intro of things so u know whats been happening - boyfriend cheated on me many times in 3 years whilst long distance, so we parted. 2 years later we decide to try again (he back home long term). I say he has to earn his trust back, ...
A. 6 December 2006: This has got dump him written all over it. Your boyfriend obviously can't keep to his promises and isn't taking you seriously. If he can cheat, He doesn't care about you or your relationship together. You deserve alot better. Get someone that is ... (read in full...)
She is very open with her other boy mates, but not with me
Q. Im 15 and i live in cornwall uk, ive been going out with my gf (15) for 5 months now and i love her to bits and i think she loves me alot (well she tells me alot, the thing is im quite shy and shes not with the touchy feely kind of things (ive ...
A. 6 December 2006: Taking a break from your friends would be a good start.
Try asking her to go round your house or vice versa.
Get talking about where YOU would like to go with your relationship. If you get more time alone she might confide in you instead of her m... (read in full...)
I don't think he feels the same by his actions but should I tell him how I feel???
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. It's strictly a friends with bennies and we only see each other about once a month because we live a distance from each other. I have fallen for this guy and don't know how to handle it. He ...
A. 6 December 2006: This is a main problem with no strings relationships, You obviously both knew where this relationship was going from the begining. Tell him how you feel but do not get your hopes up for what you want to hear.
Good luck.
Dolly.... (read in full...)
My new wife says that "all men are the same and want one thing"!
Q. My wife and I are newly weds but she is becoming extremely jealous. I have never been a flirt and don't have many female friends. I shower my wife with affection but she becomes suspicious if I have any sort of communication with another woman, even ...
A. 6 December 2006: It sounds as if your wife isn't very secure about herself this sometimes comes from past relationships where partners have been unfaithful and knocks the self esteem.
You just have to keep resuring her that she is the only one for you and tell her ... (read in full...)
He's lied to me..he calls me names and now I'm wondering-if he has someone else? Any advice?
Q. My bf of 3 years and 4 months is telling me he wants a break and he doesn't know if he wants to get back together. We fight A LOT and he said that that's why. Is he having someone else? He lives an hour and 15 mins from me. I 've never been to his ...
A. 6 December 2006: It sounds as if your boyfriend lied to you to protect you from something he thinks you don't want to hear. Lying about smoking is small compared to being unfaithful.
Sometimes arguing can be healthy, Not every relationship can be perfect.
One t... (read in full...)
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