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writes: I've liked a guy for about 2 years and now I think I love him because I cry almost everyday and my heart hurts just thinking of him. I recently told him I had strong feelings for him and he doesnt like me the way I like him. I want to know how do I get over him and stop crying and having my heart hurt? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (7 December 2006):
It takes time to get over someone. But you need to be strong to move on.
Unless you give yourself the opportunity to meet other people, you will always be thinking about this guy.
Keep busy, go out and enjoy yourself. His loss, someone elses gain!
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reader, pica +, writes (7 December 2006):
You said "I think I love him because I cry every day and my head hurts." Love does not equal pain. I think you are and have been infatuated with him. Unfortunately he doesn't feel the same. You'd do best to keep him out of your life and move on with friends and other interests as the other has advised. It is hard but you will get over it. Good luck.
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reader, DearDolly +, writes (7 December 2006):
Just to warn you absolutely everything you look at is going to remind you of him and i know it feels immpossible to get over someone your head over heals about but its not.
Take up a hobby or do something you really enjoy.
Make sure you have a girly night in with friends to take your mind off things and if need be allow yourself 25 minutes of blubber time.
Screw the calories, Chocolate is the best for healing a broken heart and a good bath will help you relax.
Good luck.
Dolly.x
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