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36-40,
*et_skys
writes:i have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and i cant get him to climax. in all the time that we have been together i swear i can count it on one hand how many times it has happened. he isnt my first and with the others i had no problem. is it me?what am i doing wrong? im at my wits end and will try anything. Reply to this Question
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reader, Yos  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 I wrote a long answer to the same question from someone else here:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-common-for-men.html
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reader, love-him  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Hii, well your boyfriend is most likely going through a lot of stress, this can mean he isnt able to climax. There could be a handful of reasons why he cant climax, and if you both talk about it, then suggest he visits a doctor who can give him sugestions. mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, DearDolly +, writes (22 November 2007):
 I agree with calamitysil, If there has been no problem in your previous relationships then it has to be a dysfunction with him. You could try being more adventurous with you sexlife, try things you wouldn't normally think of doing or fullfil yours and/or your partners fantasies.I hope this helps.Dolly.
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reader, calamitysil +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Sounds like the problem lies with him, not you. Does he get erections, is he able to sustain them enough, or does he keep going and going and never "getting" there? Both alcohol and recreational drugs cause problems with delayed ejaculation. How does he see it?
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