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writes: I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. It's strictly a friends with bennies and we only see each other about once a month because we live a distance from each other. I have fallen for this guy and don't know how to handle it. He obviously don't feel the same or he would try to see me move often. We chat online a lot and phone sometimes. Should I tell him how I feel? Reply to this Question
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reader, DearDolly  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 This is a main problem with no strings relationships, You obviously both knew where this relationship was going from the begining. Tell him how you feel but do not get your hopes up for what you want to hear.
Good luck.
Dolly.
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reader, jabey +, writes (6 December 2006):
rather than tell him how you feel. I would ask him how he feels about you first. Then see what his answer is. If he says he thinks the world of you etc. maybe then you could jokingly say have you ever thought about taking this relationship further? See how he responds. He may feel the same way as you but, worried you dont have those feelings. By asking him first it saves you any embarrassment. Maybe also you could tell him you have gone out for a drink with someone else, see if this makes him jealous and he may feel threatened, this might make him step it up a gear.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 i think it will only be fair to u if u tell him, but tell him physically so that u can be able to read his body language.
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