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I love her but she doesn't feel the same. What can I do?

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Question - (14 January 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2010)
A male Nigeria age 41-50, *eter Delsene writes:

Hi, can any body help me out? I'm going out with a lady, that i love with everything in my life, in fact I really want her to be my wife. The funniest thing is that she doesn't love me please what can I do? I really love her and I don't want lose her. thank's am looking forward to hearing from you.

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A male reader, Milt United States +, writes (16 May 2010):

Just because she doesn't feel exactly the same way as you right now doesn't mean your going to lose her. Sometimes it takes some people a little time than their partners to fall in love.

Give it some time maybe when you have been together a little longer she might suprise you just don't rush her.

This sure relates to me and I live this thought every moment.

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A male reader, surav India +, writes (7 October 2009):

hi,

Its natural friend. When I was in 10th standard I fall in love with a girl. At that time it feels that she is the one whom I am looking for. But as the time passes slowly slowly we get away from each other. Then in my 12th standard a new friend came then also it feels that she is the one whom I am looking for and the same think happens again she gone away. In degree same story repeats. Although it hurt a lot when they gets away but this is the life. Until your are not matured enough to take responsibility and employed you can't take a girl friend as life partner. Every girl friend will come and go like bus till you are not self independent and responsible person.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008):

Hi Dear Dolly, How are u today? hope ur doing great, I really thank God 4 making us a living soul till today, many people av passed away but we're are still living.

Did u think is by our power or strenght? is the Lord's doing and it is mavelous in our eyes. thank's once again.

I don't really av much to say today, i just wanna hint you about that my Girl, you know what since all this while she refuse to call me, which propt me of sending her a bad message.

I later called her and she asked concerning the message i sent to her, of which i told her everything that is in my mind, did you know the funiest part of it? she was asking me of maney that she is not aving anything on her that i should please send her some maney.

I decieved her to her acc no. should i send it what pls tell am corous. thak's

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008):

i've been there. i love this girl with all my heart, she doesn't even care for me as a man. Keeps on sayin that she loves me only as a friend. It's hard but you have to let go. I think it's for the best.

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A male reader, peter Delsene Nigeria +, writes (18 January 2008):

peter Delsene is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Dear Dolly, How are u doing today? thank 4 every thing, i do appreciate you. you really made me happy concerning your reply today, maybe that is what she really want, i will try my possible best to take her out one of this day love her, compliment her, care 4 her maybe that can change her thoughts toward me. And i promise not to dispoint her now and alwayz. I will hint you back as soon as she turn to me. thank's a lot, please can you give me your personal cell phone number. looking forward to hear from you untill then enjoy your life.

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A female reader, DearDolly United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2008):

DearDolly agony auntI can't tell you exactly what she wants to hear because every woman is different.

But i will suggest that maybe you should take her out for the day just you and her and do something romantic.

Tell her how she makes you feel, Compliment her, tell her how special she is to you.

Dolly.

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A male reader, peter Delsene Nigeria +, writes (17 January 2008):

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Hi Dear dolly, how is your day. thank's for written me back again, you said I should talk to her about how I feel, that i've done for series of time all to no avail,I don't know maybe there's someone out there deceiving her. but I really love her to be the one who will give me my children, but she's driving me insane. please tell those things that she may like, i mean what she may like to hear from me. words that can really turn her to me totally. am xpecting sweet reply from you. thank's a lot. PETER DELSENE

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A female reader, DearDolly United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2008):

DearDolly agony auntYou obviously want to build a future with this lady, which is expected since 3 years is a long time!

I think your best bet is to talk to her, tell her exactly how you feel and what you would like, ask her where your relationship is going and if she wants the same out of this relationship as you do.

I hope everything goes well for you peter.

Keep me updated and contact me if you need further advice.

Dolly.

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A male reader, peter Delsene Nigeria +, writes (16 January 2008):

peter Delsene is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank's Dolly, I really appreciate the answer you thro to my question. Did you know what bafuls me most about this girl am talking about we've be going out for three years for crying out loud and the heaven know how i fill for her for how long am i going to av patience. Please I still need your help concerning this issue.thank's a lot, I appreciate your effort.

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A female reader, DearDolly United Kingdom +, writes (15 January 2008):

DearDolly agony auntJust because she doesn't feel exactly the same way as you right now doesn't mean your going to lose her. Sometimes it takes some people a little time than their partners to fall in love.

Give it some time maybe when you have been together a little longer she might suprise you just don't rush her.

Best of luck

Dolly.

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