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writes: Hi I am 23 and to be married within the next year. I strongly didn't wanna have sex till marriage coz I believed in being responsible for my actions and not getting carried away. So I am still a virgin. My boyfriend who is not a virgin has tried to have it with me many times and everytime I turn him down. I know it disappoints him coz we are to be married and it's a serious relationship with no issues. He just can't understand why I do it although he doesn't fuss about it coz I know he likes me for many other reasons and not sex. I feel really shitty to disappoint a guy who does everything to me.Then again I don't wanna go against what i strongly believed. I'm a bit confused.Maybe he's annoyed with the fact that I do nothing to satisfy him physically but he takes all that nonsence coz he's so very fond of me and wants to marry me...Should I stick to my beliefs or just go ahead with it or talk to him about it..
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reader, scared16 +, writes (19 December 2006):
 don't give in. you have come so far already. not many people have the will power to do what you are doing. welldone! your fiance obviously loves u 2 not make a fuss about it. keep waiting not only will your wedding night be fantastic but he will respect you so much more x x x
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (7 December 2006):
 If you fiance has known from the start he had to wait for you, he will respect it to the end.
That is what you have choosen to do, then stick to it. Unless you have changed your mind, you can look forward to that first special night.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): Stick to your guns!!! Your wedding night will be so special. I think that is fantastic, i wish i had done that. Don't be pressurised into this right now when you have come this far.
Have a very happy wedding!
Take care
xx
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reader, DearDolly +, writes (7 December 2006):
 Don't give in.
It doesn't sound as if your boyfriend is fussed that he has to wait untill your wed.
Stick to your beliefs, Wait untill your married, Then you know its going to be that extra bit special.
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