I need to know all the risks of having sex!
Q. I know I'm too young. Thats what everybody says. But recently I've met a boy I really love, he loves me too. Trust me you haven't heard him. He wants to have sex with me. Please answer me. With all risks and everything, thank you. :)....
A. 31 December 2009: Please do not use 2 condoms at the same time. That does not increase safety. It actually increases chance of the condom breaking.... (read in full...)
How do I make up to my gf with actions, not just a simple sorry?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my gf for 4 and a half years now. She has gone back to her home country for 2 months and will be returning in February next year. The thing is that she's hurt by my actions and wants me to make it up to her to ...
A. 30 December 2009: I do not recommend you "flying out to see her." If she was your wife, then maybe. But face it, she is a girlfriend and girlfriends come and go.
I am still not clear how your "actions" could hurt your girlfriend to this extent. Either she is extre... (read in full...)
Can we be good together even though we are so different?
Q. I've currently been seeing my g/f for nearly 2 months and for once shes always been into me more than i have her, which is completly different for me as normally its the other way round, she isnt my 'type' at all and i worry about the fact our inte...
A. 30 December 2009: First, you are going to have to ask yourself a few questions. Does your GF also feel she has nothing in common with you? If do,does she also have a problem with this?
Opposite personalities in relationships can be the best or the worst. If she f... (read in full...)
She didn't like finding out that I had oral sex before her
Q. Hello dear cupid,i'm new on this website so:i've been with my Gf for 3 years. i'm 23, and she is 22.The problem is that recently she asked me strange questions as: how many Gf did you sleep with, did they all give you blowjobs, did you like it.In ...
A. 30 December 2009: I think it is safe to say that she is a bit insecure with herself. I'm sure if you consider her overall plersonality you'd be able to detect other insecurities.
People's insecurities tend to surface most when sex is thrown into the equation... (read in full...)
I need to know all the risks of having sex!
Q. I know I'm too young. Thats what everybody says. But recently I've met a boy I really love, he loves me too. Trust me you haven't heard him. He wants to have sex with me. Please answer me. With all risks and everything, thank you. :)....
A. 30 December 2009: Firstly, I think that if you asking this qustion you already have an idea of the "risks." Had you not considered certain "risks" then you would never have posed your question as it suggests you are aware that there may be "risks" associated.
Secon... (read in full...)
How to cope with breakup when living together?
Q. I am going through a very rough time dealing with a break up. I've been with this girl for 3 years. She is the love of my life. I could imagine being with her forever. There is something so special about her that I can't imagine finding in another ...
A. 12 March 2009: Thanks for your comments. For the most part, I DO NOT ever tell her that I love her or try to make her feel guilty by acting sad around her. I do not call her or talk to her. I'm very aware that those kind of actions will make matters worse. Wh... (read in full...)
GF hanging out with exboyfriend - when is the line crossed?
Q. I need some input on this matter. I've been with this girl for 3 years. We live together, we love each other very much, and I am very committed to her. From the beginning of our relationship she has always maintained a friendly communication wi...
A. 23 January 2009: I am fairly certain that she is not cheating on me. Don't ask me how exactly I believe this. Secondly, I really don't believe in fighting fire with fire. I am not convinced that "giving her a dose of her own medicine" is a healthy way to confront ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next?
Q. Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next? We've been dating for two years. We are very much in love and very close. To me she is the most beautiful and special person i've ever met. We are both attractive fit p...
A. 4 January 2009: No, you had misinterpretted my arguement that diet may be a contributing factor. You had contorted to sound as though I make her feel bad about eating too many carbs - that is not the case at all. Although, I've always jokingly thought it was silly ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next?
Q. Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next? We've been dating for two years. We are very much in love and very close. To me she is the most beautiful and special person i've ever met. We are both attractive fit p...
A. 4 January 2009: I agree that she needs to practice on her own. She was shy about getting a vibrator but wanted one, so I got for her. I think that she also has difficulty "letting go." For me, I have a very high sex drive. I like to talk about sex, think of it, ... (read in full...)
How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?
Q. How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?...
A. 4 January 2009: In the United States, most states have adopted that it is illegal for someone over the age of 18 to have sex with someone younger than 18 years of age. This may differ depending on the laws in your jurisdiction.... (read in full...)
How can I make my penis scars less noticeable?
Q. Hi im 19 years old male and still virgin. I have a great relationship with a great girl for 2 years atm. She asked me for sex 18-19 months ago, and never stop asking yet. She says she finds me attractive and wants to make our relationship "co...
A. 4 January 2009: To answer your concerns specifically, yes you can treat your scars with mineral oil, cocoa butter, vitamin E lotions. It will help diminish the appearance of the scar. Secondly, no you cannot shrink your balls. Most men would like to have big balls ... (read in full...)
Found explicit pictures while snooping on his computer!
Q. My fiance moved in a few months ago. I was snooping around on his computer and found several explicit pictures of him with other women.I am ticked off! I really didn't need to see any of that! They were is a hidden file created a few days after ...
A. 3 January 2009: The way I see it your hiding something from him and he's hiding something from you. You're meant to be! Just kidding.
Sharing a place together means sharing belongings and space. I'm not going to say that snooping on his computer was wrong. W... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and my partner masturbates to teen porn, what do you think?
Q. I am pregnant and my husband has been telling me to go have sleeps coz I am so tired (which I thought was sweet) but Ive just found out he has been jacking off to teenage porn on line and just trying to get rid of me! I feel so disgusting its ...
A. 3 January 2009: Don't react too harshly! And be sure that you are not jumping to conclusions deeming it "kiddy porn." As long as he is not looking at illegal pornography or engaging in unsafe/immoral sexual practices, you should not be so angry.
In fact, I can al... (read in full...)
Am I making a big deal out of nothing? Or am I right in having doubts about what he said?
Q. Dear all, When I first started a relationship with my boyfriend, he told me that he had dated before. Like any other couple starting out, we tried to be honest about what happened in the past. Of course, being younger then, we didn't really do...
A. 3 January 2009: I have a feeling you may be making a big deal out of nothing. However, the mature thing to do is to approach him directly. Tell him you feel uncomfortable about something and explain clearly what it is. If he loves you he will listen and respect ... (read in full...)
I have a problem with telling lies to my boyfriend...
Q. My boyfriend and i are in kind of a hard palace right now. I have a problem with telling lies to him because i have lied so much in my life they sometimes just slip out and then they come back to bite me in the butt. Right now we are inbetween ...
A. 3 January 2009: Firstly you are too young to be worrying that you won't "end up together." Understand that as you age you will change and these changes will influence the way you feel about the values of a relationship.
Generally, lying is not a good thing wh... (read in full...)
How can I make my penis get bigger and longer without pills?
Q. i am about 6in right now. how do i make my penis bigger and longer without taking pills? ...
A. 3 January 2009: Why do you want to make it longer?
Most women would prefer a 6 inch penis than anything larger because it is easier to suck on and doesn't run the risk of hitting the cervix during deep penetration. ... (read in full...)
He's upset because I took the morning after pill!
Q. I took some emergency contraception pills yesterday after unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I told him that i need to take them and he sounded like he understood. Last night when i was talking to him again, he mentioned that he didn't really like ...
A. 3 January 2009: I understand that different religions and cultures have different beliefs on contraceptive. However, coming from a "western" point of view, you did the right thing.
You need to look after your body and your welfare.
I WOULD NOT UPSET YOUR B... (read in full...)
Do men experience a sore penis after or during sex?
Q. Do guys experience a sore penis after a couple of sexual exercises as well? I've had that a couple of times before and my bf's thing would be fine but this time he told me his penis was sore when we had to continue sex! I was also feeling some pain, ...
A. 3 January 2009: I would first suggest that you try using a lubricant to reduce friction.
Does he use a condom? This would make a big difference in the reason why he is having a sore penis. He could be allergic to latex. His condom could be too small. Many rea... (read in full...)
How to tell her I'm not in the mood without pissing her off?
Q. My girlfriend and I used to rarely be sexual because she would be so stresed / depressed that it would take that drive away from her. Now that shes less stressed she is probably more in the mood, but I have talked to her about when shes not been ...
A. 3 January 2009: You need to be clear and direct with her. If you have a strong relationship built on trust and communication this should be easy for your two to talk about.
What guy wouldn't want his GF to be all over him? - yes I guess this is a generali... (read in full...)
Should I call him back and see if everything is okay?
Q. i am not looking for serious relationship. however i am getting used to hang around this guy and i think we click. friends adviced to me is not to get to know him any further because he will end up hurting me. i not sure whether i had put in real ...
A. 3 January 2009: If he said that he will meet you and he has not shown up, you should call him and see what happened. Even if you are not romantically interested in him, it is just common decency to find out why he is late.
You need to go with your gut feeling ... (read in full...)
Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?
Q. Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...
A. 3 January 2009: I'm almost certain that it IS precum. Some men produce a lot, some produce hardly any. It is clear, odorless, sometimes sticky (but still very watery). It is normal when you are aroused.
You should be concerned if it is discolored, smells, ... (read in full...)
Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me.
Q. Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me. As it was New Year's Day, none of the chemist's were open but we went to the hospital and managed to get the morning after pill and I took it ...
A. 3 January 2009: No I do not think so. You should be fine. But I think it was not wise of you to have sex so soon. For now, i would have stopped having sex until your period so you do not add other variables to the equation.
You need to go on birth control ... (read in full...)
I'm shy when it comes to sex even though I desperately don't want to be.
Q. I've been having sex for about 5 months now with my boyfriend who I love more than anything and don't regret one minute with, but when we do have sex, he's always on top, he desperatley wants me to go on top and try other positions but I feel ...
A. 3 January 2009: You are young and new to sex. Your feelings may be stemming from a deeper part of you. Perhaps it is not sex per se, but you are tangled in some kind of web of humiliation due lack of confidence in yourself.
"I'm embarrassed I'm going to cum beca... (read in full...)
I feel he's more of a friend than a boyfriend...
Q. My boyfriend went away for 5 weeks and he will be back in 2 weeks time and since he's been away I haven't missed him and it's made me think about our relationship. We've been together now for over a year and I don't feel like he's my boyfriend, I ...
A. 3 January 2009: Firstly, do you feel that your boyfriend can't be your friend?
Loving relationships are built on friendship. If you guys can't be friends then all there is is sex. So you need to figure out what exactly is making you feel this way AND why is i... (read in full...)
End it or not?
Q. I am in love but the thing is I have suspicions on my girl. I think she goes and sees her ex, you see she did that to one of my close friends but says it was payback for something. I find it hard to trust her at times but at other times my trust ...
A. 3 January 2009: Does she have a track record that suggests that she can't be trusted? If not, then you are worrying about nothing. Do not create scenerios and delusions in your head as I assure you it will eat away at you fast.
I can, however, relate to the feel... (read in full...)
My guy is obsessed with anal! - Aunts... I need your thoughts!
Q. Hello My boyfriend is obsessed with anal sex. Any naughty texts I receive are always about how excited he is about "being in my ass later". I don't mind anal sex but it seems like it's all I know these days. He does have sex with me the n...
A. 3 January 2009: I can tell you first hand that guys will generally want to try anal sex for many reasons that I'm sure you are already aware of.
If his sexual appetite is making you uncomfortable then I advise you to let him know in a way that will not be threa... (read in full...)
Are there any places where abortions are free?
Q. Are there any places where abortions are free?...
A. 3 January 2009: Usually not. However, usually the earlier it is done the cheaper it will be. Early termination could be as easy as taking morning after pill. 5 months down the road, when there is a physical body growing, it is more costly.
check out planned ... (read in full...)
Am I a weird sex freak?
Q. I'm an 18 year old boy and started having gay feelings a few years ago but no one knows. I'm still a virgin and want 2 shag a girl but recently I've been watching loads of shemale porn. I don't know why but a hot girl with a dick really does do it ...
A. 3 January 2009: You are not a "weird sex freak." As long as you don't endulge in anything illegal such as rape, kiddy porn, etc, it is normal to have specific urges and fetishes.
No one can determine your sexual orientation but yourself. You may be gay, straight... (read in full...)
Did he take advantage?
Q. Background Info: A lad I'm good mates with, questioned me a lot about about the lad I was going with and seemed to flirt with me at school. He's cute and a good friend to me. Whenever I would be out with my bf and he was there he used to look at ...
A. 3 January 2009: Without being there it is tough to say.
What I can say is that if you have the slightest feeling that he had taken advantage of you/your situation, that I'd trust those instincts. ... (read in full...)
Lost re period problems...
Q. I last had my period in November and it is now January. My period hasn't come in December and it still hasn't come in January and I'm a virgin. I haven't had sex but this has to do with finger popping... should I be worried? What should I do?...
A. 3 January 2009: If you have not had sex and/or have not gotten semen inside of you, then it is impossible to have become pregnant.
Sometimes hormonal changes, diet, and other physical factors can effect a girl's menstruation. Sometimes you can get it but it w... (read in full...)
I need help from the girls!
Q. Hey this question is short and to the point for girls... why do you guys wear the kind of underwear you do??? I'm wondering because my girlfriend is really plain with her underwear so I don't know how I can change that or even if I can!...
A. 3 January 2009: The issue might be deeper than just fashion. How long have you been dating? How sexually active are you? It is difficult to figure out how to change if we do not know really what is the problem.
I can tell you that some girls like sexy underwea... (read in full...)
How can I make my boobs bigger???
Q. How to make your boobs bigger ??? I'm 13 and my boobs aren't very small they are actually not bad and my bf everything was gud he is one year older and a lot of girls like him but he always loved me cause he knows me well and we were together 8 ...
A. 2 January 2009: The problem you have is not with your boob size. It is with your confidence and ability to make responsible decisions.
Please re-read your post very slowly and see if you can pick out any phrases that seem silly and childish.... (read in full...)
Any information about making the experience of sex beautiful, satisfying, and pleasing for her?
Q. Ladies, Can you reply? I have been seeing a woman who is more than years older than I am. I really like her and would really like to experience sex with a more mature and experienced woman. And in particular I would like to experience sex w...
A. 2 January 2009: It really all depends on your sexual experience. Have you been with many women? Older women?
... (read in full...)
He treats me more like a slut than his GF.
Q. hey i really love my boyfriend, but he doesnt treat me the way i want to be treated. the way he talks 2 me is always dirty (sexual) and i want him to b more romantic and chivalrous towards me. he says that he is romantic cos he gives me pres...
A. 2 January 2009: You first must bring this to his attention in a serious and clear manner. Be very specific with what it is he does that is making you uncomfortable.
He may very well not realize he is upsetting you.
Also, examine the way he behaves and resp... (read in full...)
Since losing my virginity, I'm constantly craving sex... is this normal?
Q. i first had sex a few months back with my boyfriend, but sinse we did, i've been craving it constantly afterwards, its not an issue for him as he's obviously not going to say no as a teenager, but is this normal/natural to happen or is it just me? ...
A. 2 January 2009: You are young and raging with hormones. In short, I do believe it is normal for you to crave sex. Generally, as long as sex does not get in the way of other important things like school, being with friends, hobbies, and being true to yourself, ... (read in full...)
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