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30-35,
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writes:My boyfriend and i are in kind of a hard palace right now. I have a problem with telling lies to him because i have lied so much in my life they sometimes just slip out and then they come back to bite me in the butt. Right now we are inbetween things right now we aren't just friends but we aren't fully together. I love him so much and i know that he loves me and i believe that him and i are meant to be but im afraid that we wont be in the future and im really scared because i love him so much he is my everything and i dont want to be without him and i dont know what to do if we dont end up together Reply to this Question
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reader, dasonras +, writes (3 January 2009):
Firstly you are too young to be worrying that you won't "end up together." Understand that as you age you will change and these changes will influence the way you feel about the values of a relationship.
Generally, lying is not a good thing whether it is to friends, boyfriend, family, to yourself, etc. If you have a problem with telling the truth there must be a deeper underlying issue you are battling.
Why do you lie? Do you lie to other people, not just your boyfriend? If not, then why do you feel you have to lie to him? Do you not trust he will like the truth?
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