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Since losing my virginity, I'm constantly craving sex... is this normal?

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Question - (2 January 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i first had sex a few months back with my boyfriend, but sinse we did, i've been craving it constantly afterwards, its not an issue for him as he's obviously not going to say no as a teenager, but is this normal/natural to happen or is it just me? i'm just curious 'cause its starting to get quite annoying.

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (13 January 2009):

I lost my virginity to a guy that i am still with 4 1/2 years later. When we first started i wanted and got it about 8 times a day. After about six months it started to go down a lot. now i wanted a couple times a week. It will go down once its not so new. just stay safe because a baby will kill that sex drive.

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A female reader, -NothingLasts4ever- United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2009):

-NothingLasts4ever- agony auntYou're the same as me. When I first started having sex, all I wanted was sex. After a while it will go away, but you'll still want to have sex, just not as much.

It's just your hormones, it's normal and nothing to worry about. Just make sure you use a condom.

xx

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A female reader, shannon4747 United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2009):

it is completely normal! your not being stupid...

me and my boyfriend had sex a while back and i want it whenever i see him... its normal to get an urge quite often.

as long as you have protection.... your urges can be satisfied

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

THE SCIENCE: After sex you get hormones from the process and you become attracted to the person you did it with for up to a period of six months

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A male reader, dasonras United States +, writes (2 January 2009):

You are young and raging with hormones. In short, I do believe it is normal for you to crave sex. Generally, as long as sex does not get in the way of other important things like school, being with friends, hobbies, and being true to yourself, craving sex is not wrong.

However, you need to understand the responsibilities and committments to having a sexual lifestyle. You are very young and you may not recognize the seriousness of owning a sexual appetite. Your actions will not only effect you physically and emotionally, but they will also effect those around you.

Sexual experiences are the best when they are full of meaning. People not experienced in sex tend to approach it selfishly and use it only as means to fulfill a physical desire. But, sex is really about expressing a highly emotional and physical connection toward someone you love in a safe and responsible manner.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

I was 16 when I lost my virginity to my 1st boyfriend. It was something new and I felt I loved it. I loved the feeling and the excitement of it. When I asked my boyfriend if he wants to do it, he just replied, "what do you think of me, a sex machine!" OMG! What a jerk!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

Lol. At your age if something gives you pleasure you want to keep doing it. Obviously this gives you pleasure. It's normal. Just be safe and use condoms to protect from stds in the future and make sure you get on birth control!

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