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writes: Hiim 19 years old male and still virgin. I have a great relationship with a great girl for 2 years atm. She asked me for sex 18-19 months ago, and never stop asking yet. She says she finds me attractive and wants to make our relationship "complete". She just dont let me go down on her or something like that if i dont get anything, she tells me it feels her kinda bad. But i never let her see me naked, because i feel very shy about my penis. Its 5.5 inches, hope this is not an issue, at least for some girls as far as i read. The problem is, it is deformed. Im circumcised, and got it a bit late (when i was 9). There is a scar under my penis starting from the head to the balls. Is there any cure for it? Because its big, and includes too many area.Also my balls are too big, and in my opinion it just looks.. bad. Is there any way to make em smaller?
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (5 January 2009):
 Hi, Okay so what did she say? did you show her? why don't you let her make all he decisions rather than worrying about it yourself? if she doesn't want to she'll make it lite on you, you probably wont even know and i highly doubt she'll dump you over it dude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): hi there again, im the original poster. Thank you for answers, i decided to tell her the problem, because i really want to have sex with her.
Anyway, i will never be confortable enough about my "equipment" and i think i will never let her go down on me. Can plastic surgery solve my problem? Because i think i will never feel confortable enough in bed and that would probably affect the sex life..
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reader, ams  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 I wouldnt worry about your size, or the scar. Explain it to her. Maybe even mention that you are self conscious about it, girls sometimes find it cute that a man is willing to admit some insecurity. But use your discretion, you know her best. =) but chances are, if she really loves you, she wont be grossed out or anything.
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reader, Griffo +, writes (4 January 2009):
I don't think she will be too fussed about it. Just talk to her, she's your missis so she'll be right. Sound like you guys have a good thing going :)
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 January 2009):
 I've never heard about a situation that the testes are considered too big. The larger the better. Your "equipment" is otherwise quite normal, despite some reasonable scarring I would think. Don't worry about it. In my opinion, that should not preclude having an active sex life or marriage. Best wishes.
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reader, dasonras +, writes (4 January 2009):
To answer your concerns specifically, yes you can treat your scars with mineral oil, cocoa butter, vitamin E lotions. It will help diminish the appearance of the scar. Secondly, no you cannot shrink your balls. Most men would like to have big balls than small ones, so be happy about that.
You need to be direct and clear with her. Let her know that you are insecure about your scar and that is why you have been reluctant. I guarantee you that she will understand how you feel and will not mind at all. You've been together for a while now and surely you have been able to develop a healthy relationship based on communication and trust. Letting her know will take the weight off your shoulders and give her a clear answer as to why you are putting it off.
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reader, Western3589 +, writes (4 January 2009):
 time heals scars and nothing else, as for the sack thing im sure your just looking at it wrong. if she is not giving you oral she should not have a problem with it.before she sees your penis though make sure she knows about the scar and it happend years ago and nothing is wrong with it.
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