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writes: Ladies, Can you reply?I have been seeing a woman who is more than years older than I am. I really like her and would really like to experience sex with a more mature and experienced woman. And in particular I would like to experience sex with her. Any advice about letting her know this/letting her know that I am interested in sex with her/asking her for sex? Any way of doing this in a non crude way? Should I tell her face to face/ in a love letter or on the phone? Any information about making the experience of sex beautiful, satisfying, and pleasing for her? Any information about making the experience of sex playful? Any advice for helping her have an orgasm?
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reader, EmRaIrKiAe  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Okay one not on the phone or in letter but definitely not the phone major turn off.
If you guys have touched each other than maybe you should let things progress and try oral instead then things won't be moving too fast.
If you guys have done oral then have a convo with her and find out what her views are on sex whether she wants to how she feels about it or if she's ready but don't really push into her past experiences if she doesn't mention it first. If you make the whole thing casual instead of awkward her reaction should be positive.
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reader, salvadda  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 I read what you wrote. It seems to me that you forgot to mention if this woman likes/loves you, are you friends? I didn't even get yours/her age. To be brief. If you realy care for this person, just be friends. If you realy think it's worth it, you will wait it out and let her feel close to you, and most of all trust you, it will be wonderful for both of you. If sex is the only thing you want from her, is it worth hurting her?
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reader, dasonras +, writes (2 January 2009):
It really all depends on your sexual experience. Have you been with many women? Older women?
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