He's into really geeky stuff and I hate it! How do I tell him?
Q. so, i love my bf, right? but hes just a little too much like my step-dad. hes into swords, and anime and stuff like that. i hate all of that crap, but i dont know how to tell him that it makes him a geek... help me? please? ...
A. 12 April 2011: That sucks.. Could you accept him for what he likes and move on together? Hope you're doing alright.... (read in full...)
Virgin at 20, should I hire an escort to lose my virginity?
Q. Hi i am a 20 yr old male and still a virgin. this fact depresses the hell out of me. everywhere i go theres people all having so much fun and i feel that im missing the best parts of my life and falling behind on much needed experience. most people ...
A. 22 March 2011: Yeah get best to get it over with, you're putting the pussy on a pedestal (40 year old virgin). Maybe if not an escort a drunk girl at a club? I'm sure the first time being with the person you love is nice but from the people I know that do it that ... (read in full...)
Sex after breakups?
Q. After a break up does it help have sex with another girl??? or should I try for a new relationship?...
A. 21 March 2011: So I had the same question, since I was depressed and distraught over my recent breakup, so I thought I'd test it out on st patties day. I sealed the deal, and wasn't even great sex, but soo worth it. I don't know about the new relationship bit, but ... (read in full...)
Two years and I still don't know if he's the one??
Q. I met my boyfriend in 2007 we went out for almost a year then i broke it off due to trust issues. We got back a few months later. We've been together now for almost 2years. I love him but i'm stil questioning if he's the one. We get along, we ...
A. 18 March 2011: Just take life as it comes, when you look to far into the future things can shift out of focus, scare you, and make you question everything. If you love him, then stick with him and if something happens roll with it. I doubt you'll be getting ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend, but the only thing holding me back from "taking the plunge" is her weight...
Q. Allow me to first say, I FULLY understand the amount of unhealthy pressure and anxiety that society puts on women to look perfect. That being said, here's the low down: I'm 24, she's 22, and we have been dating for roughly 2 years now. I have alwa...
A. 16 March 2011: That is tough, cause how do you bring that up without looking super shallow and making her feel horrible... Hmm perhaps go camping or on a vacation to india? Most people I know that go their for a bit lose tons of wight. O and a side note, remember ... (read in full...)
Advice Please!!! I'm stuck between two men...
Q. I'm stuck in a situation with two options, both seem right but its hard. option number one....I'm engaged to a wonderful man....Lets call him M, he's sweet,fun, handsome and we have a goodfriendship. I love him, but there are a few red flags that ...
A. 15 March 2011: Have you told M that those his cleanliness and hygiene are major issues, even possibly deal-breakers? ... (read in full...)
Is it abnormal that I have this urge???
Q. Hi, I've been in a happy relationship for a year and a half with the most wonderful guy in the world. It seems to me like I have commitment issues because every few months something little happens (not like a fight, we can get through those. I...
A. 15 March 2011: I think you've thought about it fairly well, relationships have their ups and downs, people get cold feet at times, get sick of the other person or have "gut" feelings to leave. If he's treating you well, I think you should definitely stick with ... (read in full...)
Does age really matter? It bothers me!
Q. I know, it's a very common question. But does age really matter? I am a woman dating a men a few years younger than me. He obviously doesn't mind me being older, but it always bothers me! I hate thinking about his age, for awhile I didn't want peo...
A. 14 March 2011: Sounds like you're pretty insecure with yourself, age shouldn't be an issue. It should be the individual that you care about. The only reason age is usually taken into consideration is because women usually mature faster than men, (but this is NOT ... (read in full...)
Cheated, broke up, and unable to move on
Q. I was in a wonderful relationship for over a year and we were really deep in love with one another. Then one day I went for coffee with a guy I used to love and we slept together. I told my boyfriend right after that happened. He decided a week ...
A. 14 March 2011: Don't go to the doctor they'll get you hooked on druggggzzzz. We've lived on earth for how many years and haven't needed depression drugs, why start now.
Thats a super shitty deal, on both parts, was there any specific reason you did it? (not happ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my head and chose the nice guy whom I "like"? Or go for my ex whom I love(d) but who hurt me?
Q. I'm really confused. I don't know what to do or who to pick. I'll tell you the story... I'm 17, and I was with my ex for 7 months. We were really happy at first. My family loved him and we got on very well. He then turned very controlling, he'...
A. 14 March 2011: I'm curious as to why your boyfriend (ex) started to act controlling or suspicious, if you were hanging out with the James and confiding in him wouldn't that spark a little worry in you ex? I know it's fine having guy friends but why do you have ... (read in full...)
TO MEN: What are your opinions on sex while the girl is on her period?
Q. TO MEN: What are your opinions on sex while the girl is on her period? My bf will sometimes do it but close to the end where you cant tell at all. Or shower sex is a plus but do men not like it?.. does it feel any different to the guy?...
A. 13 March 2011: As long as you let him know, shouldn't be a problem, might even be hot and kinky. But if you don't give him the heads up, he's gonna be freaked right out. Shouldn't feel different, just a lil wet and gets dry and sticky if it goes on for awhile, so ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to be friends
Q. me and my ex just broke up a month ago and she has a new bf. how ever she wants to be friends. she texts me every couple of days to chat,calls me on occasions, and wants to be able to "see me" because i "mean the world to her". Not sure if i can ...
A. 13 March 2011: M8t I haven't heard from my ex lady in a week, it's killing me, I don't know whether or not I should date again (don't really have the desire to), shoot at text telling her she still has some of my stuff, or just keep the distance. You're ex lady's ... (read in full...)
Do you think it can work out between a 17 yr old boy and a 20 yr old girl?
Q. Do you think it can work out between a 17 year old boy and a 20 year old girl?...
A. 11 March 2011: Was just in a long term relationship with a girl who was 3 years older than me, and it can definitely work! Although I understand that for women age seems to be more of an issue than with us men (age doesn't define someone's maturity). So if you ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to be friends
Q. me and my ex just broke up a month ago and she has a new bf. how ever she wants to be friends. she texts me every couple of days to chat,calls me on occasions, and wants to be able to "see me" because i "mean the world to her". Not sure if i can ...
A. 11 March 2011: I'd say respond but don't leave the conversation open to continue. Such as if she texted you "Hey how's your day" being polite back "good hope you're doing fine." shows that you're not ignoring her, but also doesn't leave much room for her to ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to be friends
Q. me and my ex just broke up a month ago and she has a new bf. how ever she wants to be friends. she texts me every couple of days to chat,calls me on occasions, and wants to be able to "see me" because i "mean the world to her". Not sure if i can ...
A. 10 March 2011: In a similar situation m8t, I'm taking the approach or being polite back but not a friend back, so I'll respond to a text or take a call but won't be too responsive. In my situation she started seeing the dude just before she broke it off, and ... (read in full...)
I've never felt the connection like I did with my online guy
Q. About 3 yrs ago i got talking to a guy on a social networking site, i did not know what he looked like or anything about him, but instantly liked hes personality and i was kind of drawn to him, i can`t really explain how, nothing ever happened ...
A. 9 March 2011: People feel connections with people they feel they can relate to or people who can relate to them, (my experience) or sometimes someone just seems to push all the right buttons, has similar interests or other things. Personally I'd say it was a nice ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have a high sex drive and then suddenly it drops off?
Q. For the longest time I have always had a high sex drive. I got together with my current boyfriend and he had a hard time keeping up with me, but always tried and now just recently I feel almost no sex drive at all its there but not intense like it ...
A. 9 March 2011: Can't say I know but I wouldn't say it's abnormal. My girlfriend used to have a much higher sex drive than me but somehow hers diminished and mine surpassed hers. It shifts back and forth from now and then. Can't say I know the answer but 3 or 4 ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend doing this? Should I call him?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me, and he said he's not the guy for me, he doesn't deserve me, I could find someone better, and he wants to be alone without a girlfriend. But he said he still wants me and loves me but he doesn't know if we'll make it to ...
A. 4 March 2011: Kind of depressing they put related questions as "broke up"
But truth is I'd say you've got a shot at it, or at least don't give up..
Being optimistic will help calm your nerves and if it all goes down the drain then you'll really be justifie... (read in full...)
Does he really care? Am I being too insecure? His actions say he cares.
Q. This guy fell for me really hard, actually we fell for each other. But he found me. From day one I knew he wanted to be with me. It took me a little longer. I wasn't ready for a relationship because of what I had been through and certain circumst...
A. 4 March 2011: You just have to give him the benefit of the doubt and trust that he cares about you. Perhaps unblocking him from your phone would be a good start if you want to make amends. Maybe try taking the train every once in awhile to see him, shoot him a ... (read in full...)
We started exploring kinks and now I'm feeling that things are out of hand
Q. So me and my girlfriend are fairly kinky and I know she likes BDSM (since a friend took her to an event last year) so I asked her if she'd like to go to a rope workshop in a couple of weeks.. This tipped over a few more dominoes than expected, s...
A. 2 March 2011: I take back the doing well.... Turns out we're broken up now, she's been hanging out more often with this friend. Soo pretty horrible week. ... (read in full...)
How can I improve my self confidence, stop worrying, and be better in school and relate better to others
Q. Hello, I am only 15 at the moment and I have a slight issue with my self confidence. I know I'm not really thin but I don't think I'm fat, I have an hourglass figure and have a little larger reir end and thighs, which is difficult to get rid of...
A. 20 February 2011: I wouldn't worry too to much about it because in my opinion everyone lacks confidence from time to time. Advice that people have told me that seems to help is focusing on oneself (hobbies, friends, exercise any personal interests), and another is ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for that speacial Lady in my Life or just go for it?
Q. I am a guy in his early 20's who is still a virgin and it is getting more difficult every day not to have sex. Should I still wait for that one exceptional woman any and if I do would it mean something to her and enough to be worth it?...
A. 20 February 2011: tough call m8t, i didn't wait for someone special and the thought of it being a special moment seems nice, on the other hand it was nice getting it out of the way with someone where there was no emotional attachments. Either way, it's life and ... (read in full...)
Should I do whatever she wants since I get to keep her?
Q. Hello i'm 19 and still a virgin. I got my first gf a few months ago but weve only met 5 times casue we live a little ways away. I'm nervous about sex being a virgin and all but she wants sex with me as soon as possilbe and threating to break up with ...
A. 18 February 2011: HAVE SEX!!!!!
(you won't regret it)
and on the serious side, communicate, tell her how you're nervous and I'm sure you'll get better with time. ... (read in full...)
He's into really geeky stuff and I hate it! How do I tell him?
Q. so, i love my bf, right? but hes just a little too much like my step-dad. hes into swords, and anime and stuff like that. i hate all of that crap, but i dont know how to tell him that it makes him a geek... help me? please? ...
A. 18 February 2011: And you "love" him?
If he likes those things he's going to like them, you either accept someone's interests or you don't, he shouldn't have to change to be "cool."
If he wants you to dress up as an elf you can definitely refuse, but why not allo... (read in full...)
We started exploring kinks and now I'm feeling that things are out of hand
Q. So me and my girlfriend are fairly kinky and I know she likes BDSM (since a friend took her to an event last year) so I asked her if she'd like to go to a rope workshop in a couple of weeks.. This tipped over a few more dominoes than expected, s...
A. 18 February 2011: Well so far so good. Valentines day was amazing. We've done LOTS of talking, she had a huge exam last week so now that that's done some stress is relieved. She's also moving out of her place to head back home at the end of the month so lots of ... (read in full...)
Is cybersex with others considered cheating?
Q. I met a guy many years ago online and we started to have cybersex. It became very intense and eventually we fell in love. We spent many hours talking on phone, IM, email etc. We plan on getting married but due to some unforseen circumstance have not ...
A. 11 February 2011: Have you met this man in real life? Online dynamics are fairly different from face to face. Yes I would consider it cheating, he shouldn't need that sort of connection with someone else. Because when you are having cyber sex there is that element of ... (read in full...)
Is watching porn while your in a relationship a form of cheating?
Q. Is watching porn while your in a relationship a form of cheating? I've found out my boyfriend has watched porn a few times and confronted him about it. I told him that I feel degraded when he looks at that stuff because he has ME, so why should he ...
A. 11 February 2011: If you're not having sex with him is that really fair? Porn shouldn't be a threatening thing, men and women watch it all the time, usually as a way to turn themselves on to masturbate. He's probably not going to fantasize about the porn stars or... (read in full...)
We started exploring kinks and now I'm feeling that things are out of hand
Q. So me and my girlfriend are fairly kinky and I know she likes BDSM (since a friend took her to an event last year) so I asked her if she'd like to go to a rope workshop in a couple of weeks.. This tipped over a few more dominoes than expected, s...
A. 11 February 2011: Just a side note. the other day she actually met up with a dude from the social networking site... She says he's really cool and I should meet him (so she's not trying to hide anything). But we haven't been spending as many nights together which ... (read in full...)
We started exploring kinks and now I'm feeling that things are out of hand
Q. So me and my girlfriend are fairly kinky and I know she likes BDSM (since a friend took her to an event last year) so I asked her if she'd like to go to a rope workshop in a couple of weeks.. This tipped over a few more dominoes than expected, s...
A. 11 February 2011: So I talked to my girlfriend over lunch today about it and she was fairly understanding. She was upset that I wasn't clear about it in the beginning and for going back on what I had inferred earlier, but she understood my point of view and was ok ... (read in full...)
We started exploring kinks and now I'm feeling that things are out of hand
Q. So me and my girlfriend are fairly kinky and I know she likes BDSM (since a friend took her to an event last year) so I asked her if she'd like to go to a rope workshop in a couple of weeks.. This tipped over a few more dominoes than expected, s...
A. 11 February 2011: So I talked to my girlfriend over lunch today about it and she was fairly understanding. She was upset that I wasn't clear about it in the beginning and for going back on what I had inferred earlier, but she understood my point of view and was ok ... (read in full...)
Why did she marry me if she now wants to live the single life and date other men? Should I continue to stand by her and wait for her to come back?
Q. "this is very long but please bare with me, its important and i could really use any sort of advice" hey, im 22 and been married for just over a year, my wife, 24, and i have a 1 year old boy together. we both used to be so incredibly happy, i...
A. 10 February 2011: I really don't have a good answer but just thought I'd say I'm rooting for you and really hope things work out. What she's doing isn't fair to you, and I've seen many woman do similar things where they're "finding themselves" and society seems to ... (read in full...)
He won't like it that I went out to the club -- should I tell him?
Q. So my frineds and I go Out To eat And after That they want To go To the club of course I'm the driver for tonight I'm engaged and I know if I tell him that we when to the club he is going to flip but I'm not drinking nor am i dancing with any guys ...
A. 30 January 2011: I wish that's what happened to me last night.. You're in the clear, you did absolutely nothing wrong. You shouldn't feel guilty for going, and if he flips out then he's the one with issues. You shouldn't feel the need to confess but if he asks why ... (read in full...)
Second thoughts about my relationship...why???
Q. hi im having second thoughts in my current relationship. we have been together for 2 years and still counting. he always showers me love and care and we are constant on the phone as we are staying in different states.i know i love him with much ...
A. 30 January 2011: The second thoughts don't seem to have anything with the current situation, or do they? As much as I'm horrible at taking this advice myself, I'd have to say not to look to far into the future, if you love him now that's great! And if he's an ... (read in full...)
Request for any ideas on how to spice things up please?
Q. How to "Spice" it up? My boyfriend said he wanted to experiment, do new things. He is tired of the same ole same ole. We will do anything but actual full on intercourse, we are waiting on that one. Well we are kind of out of ideas. We tried the ...
A. 30 January 2011: Have sex! Waiting isn't worth it. If not, you could blindfold each other and touch each other. Try out some BDSM (doesn't have to be whips and chains) but a little rope play and such. Sounds freaky but you'd be surprised at how fun it can be.... (read in full...)
The best way to please a guy?
Q. Dear readers, I want to know what is the best way to pleasure a male in bed? what would make him very happy?...
A. 30 January 2011: Spontaneous blow-jobs is a great start, o the list goes on, but maybe have sex in front of a mirror (burns those images in both your minds), maybe tie him up or vice versa, just enjoy yourself, nothing pleases a dude more than knowing you're having ... (read in full...)
Are men really ok with small perfect breasts?
Q. my boyfriend is a boob guy.. i know that he loves boobs,..big boobs especially. Im about 34b. i lost a lot of weight and lost most of my breasts( i was 180lbs now im 125). they are perky, he tells me he loves my boobs but always comment's on boobs ...
A. 30 January 2011: Being a man, I can only offer my single opinion, but it is from the man's perspective nonetheless. Men do notice stretch marks, but that's usually not an issue, think of it as you having a mole or something, it's just the way it is, the fact tha... (read in full...)
How can I bridge this terrible predicament?
Q. I am a middle-aged man, I have a daughter who was born when I was in my teens. Her mother and I were High school sweet hearts and I loved her very much. My daughters mother was unfaithful to me many times, I tried to make it work but I could no ...
A. 30 January 2011: Sounds pretty rough, you have my condolences. Now who am I to give advice but I like your approach on not wanting to taint her mothers image, (although I'm sure the truth has got to come out somehow). First off I'd try and meet with your daughter, ... (read in full...)
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