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writes:so, i love my bf, right? but hes just a little too much like my step-dad. hes into swords, and anime and stuff like that. i hate all of that crap, but i dont know how to tell him that it makes him a geek... help me? please? Reply to this Question
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reader, dannn  +, writes (12 April 2011):
That sucks.. Could you accept him for what he likes and move on together? Hope you're doing alright.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell we broke up because i couldn't stand knowing that i was changing who he was.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 February 2011):
 LMAO! He wouldn't have stuff if he was pretending. Have fun living a lie and not accepting him for who he really is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok, so i let bf know that it bothered me that he liked swords and anime and stuff, and he told me that he only pretended to like them because all of his past girlfriends have loved it. and he thought i did too. so when i told him i didnt like it, his mother, father, and brother helped clear his room of all of it...and to think that this was all so simple...lol...and thank you to all who have answered.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (19 February 2011):
The news are: you don't love him. Because love is something you feel for someone as a whole. Then, there shouldn't be something that big, being a part of his personality, that you hate.I would accept that you tell me you hate the way he brushes his teeth. Which is insignificant if we talk of his personality. But liking manga, swords and such is and outstanding mark of his personality.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 February 2011):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmWbBqiCxGc
What's wrong with that stuff? Sounds like a fun guy with good taste.
If you don't like it, choose someone else instead of being judgemental.
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reader, dannn +, writes (18 February 2011):
And you "love" him?
If he likes those things he's going to like them, you either accept someone's interests or you don't, he shouldn't have to change to be "cool."
If he wants you to dress up as an elf you can definitely refuse, but why not allow him to do things and you to do yours.
If it bothers you so much find a new boyfriend (I see nothing wrong with being a "geek").
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): Just because he likes things you don't it doesn't make him a geek. I think you should grow up a little. If it bothers you that much then be with somebody else.
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