A fling with the boss... but now I'm pregnant!
Q. Hi, I need some help! I did get together with my boss, like a one night stand, but now I've just found out I'm 2months gone! I don't know what to do!! Could someone help me please??...
A. 18 September 2005: First of think about wanting this baby and what you could give it im 32 weeks pregnant its a hard choice to make.
Then if you dicide to keep it talk your boss and tell him your pregnant and ask him if hes gonner support you even if your not toge... (read in full...)
I don't want his girlfriend to hate me... I just want to be his friend!
Q. Hello, I've met a guy recently and we get on really well. In this past week he's called me up and talked to me for over 3 hours. It was a fantastic conversation and we talked again the next day too, but only for an hour this time! We've agreed t...
A. 18 September 2005: talking to him for three hours i wouldnt like it if my boy friend did that with another girlmaby shes had words with him.
Or maby he likes you and doesnt want to talk that much cause he doesnt want to fall out with his girlfriend. Talk to him i can ... (read in full...)
I want my ex to be the father of my baby, but I'm scared it might be my one-night-stand!
Q. I am 13 weeks pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have broke up. What my problem is, is that we broke up a while ago and I slept with someone else, then we got back together. We aren't together now. I am really scared that my one night stand is the fath...
A. 18 September 2005: try go from your dates and to the date you slept with the other guy then the last time you slept with your ex.
If your still not sure and you want to go along with your pregancy then wait till the baby is born and have a dna test.
It wont be that ... (read in full...)
So pleased to be pregnant! But worried the baby is not my boyfriends...
Q. I've recently found out I'm pregnant but something is nagging at me and bringing me down. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year (I'm 17 and he's 21). I really love him but I strayed a couple of months ago (when I got pregnant) and sl...
A. 9 September 2005: you need to confront your boyfriend if you dont and decide to keep the baby and it turns out not his it will only make it worse how far apart did you sleep with this other guy to your boyfriend. Find out how far you are and try work it out if its ... (read in full...)
My 23-year-old boyfriend wants to retire... now!
Q. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 23. He has recently been talking about retirement and pensions and says he wants to retire NOW. I can't understand why he is in such a rush to retire... and, retired at 23?? It sounds odd that someone would want to re...
A. 9 September 2005: it sounds a bit srange he if has the money to retire then do so but if he hasnt why you havent said much about his family i think you need to get out girl move on you dont want to be with someone who retired at 23. good luck... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's sexual abuse still haunts her when we start getting intimate...
Q. Sorry to bother, but I am starting to wonder what I can do to better please my girlfriend. We are both 18 and have been going out for 6 months, but only started having sex recently. She was abused as a child, and the feelings still haunt her. J...
A. 9 September 2005: you need to make her feel safe and sucure (if already not doing) so then she can forget or fight back about her past and concentrat on being with you and enjoying pleasure.
Make her feel loved kiss her more and touch her hands and face more offe... (read in full...)
I started to go down on him and he said "Don't bother"...
Q. I just started dating this guy. We fooled around for the first time the other night and when I went down to return the favor he told me not to bother because he's only gotten off twice like that with his ex-girlfriend. I hesitated to ask if he's ...
A. 9 September 2005: you havent known him long so dont rush in to things or jump conclutions he probably feels shy or self conscious about his body and feels he doesnt want to share it with you quiet yet. Its not you dont worrie give it time if your still together in a ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm in love with someone?
Q. I have a huge dilemma. I am 16 years old. How do you know if you are in love with someone? And what do you do if you have a crush on someone a lot older than you? Please help me! ...
A. 9 September 2005: love is strong when your in love you feel lost without him you think about him all the time when your with him or around him your heart beats faster and you get butterflys.
If you have a crush on someone older than you it depends how older if hes ... (read in full...)
He missed me and made plans to visit... but then his email got less frequent. What does it mean?
Q. This year I became involved with a guy I met online, who lives in another country. After some months of talking, he came to visit me this past summer for 2 weeks. It was a great visit, however he was a little cautious with me. We had a talk about ...
A. 8 September 2005: i think this guy may have lost intrest next time you chat ask him to be straight with you and tell you how he feels you dont want to be strung along. The longer he trys to aviod you the less upset your going to get.
He may just have being busy like... (read in full...)
My wife's "best friend" is a man...
Q. My wife of eighteen years has a male "best friend" at work that she just talks to. She says it is no different than my best friends but I don't have female best friends. I have asked or suggested that she invite him and his wife over for dinner ...
A. 8 September 2005: my mums best mastes a male it dont matter what sex her best freind is as long as shes with you. You dont sound like you turst her you have to trust her or your relationship wont work.
I can see where your coming from saying you want to meet him ... (read in full...)
We don't want to use condoms, but how do I get on the Pill?
Q. Hey, I'm 17 years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 5 months now. I'm a virgin and we have talked about having sex several times and we are both fine with the idea of it. The only problem is that I'm a bit scared a...
A. 7 September 2005: hi sweetie dont be worried of going to the doctor for the pill its normal its not anything to be ashamed of it shows your mature enough to have sex. a comdom can split but the you can still get pregant being on the pill my friend did and she didnt ... (read in full...)
I'm disturbed by my new boyfriend's daughter who just won't stop flashing!
Q. My new boyfriend has a 24year old daughter, who keeps flashing him. He tells me when she does and finds it hilarious, but I find it a bit disturbing. Once she called him into her bedroom and when he entered she was bent over butt naked! Another time ...
A. 6 September 2005: i find it rather disurbing to 24 and shes flashing infront of her own father, thats kind of sick and for him to just find it funny and laugh. Sorry but its a bit srange, i think u need to confront him and tell him how you feel if i flashed infront ... (read in full...)
Our age gap doesn't bother me, but it bothers him!
Q. My partner and I have been together for five years. I'm 28 and he's 52. For me the age gap is nothing, it's my feelings for him that matter. But the age gap affects my partner. My friend says he'll be drawing his pension in 13 years and I'll...
A. 6 September 2005: if you like (love) him then the age gap shouldnt matter to either of you i think he probably feels that your going to run of with a younger and more active man prove to him your not and hes the only one.... (read in full...)
Why does my girlfriend go from nice one minute to explosively aggressive the next?
Q. I really dont know what to do. I've been with my fiancee for two years now and I'm starting to have doubts about our relationship. When I'm around her it's like I'm walking on eggshells. One minute she can be nice and the next minute she can expl...
A. 6 September 2005: your fiancee sounds insicure and sounds like she doesnt trust you.
Wen you say you have talked to her have you ask her if shes stressed depressed or got any family problems maby its just her hormones maby shes being hurt in the past and scared you ... (read in full...)
My dream guy is 19, and he lives on the other side of the world!
Q. I am 15 years old and fell in love with a guy over the internet who's 19. I trust him and care about him a lot and couldn't imagine my life without him and he is in love with me. I would love to meet up with him but the problem is he lives in Austr...
A. 6 September 2005: sorry but its not going to happen internet love is soo diffrant from real love you may not think it but it is.
Its easy to say he loves you but he probably dont he may think your pretty and easy to talk to but you havent actually met in pers... (read in full...)
I'm madly in love with another woman, but how do I cope until she decides about her own marriage?
Q. Can anyone help me with this...? My wife sits home every night and drinks scotch. I guess I use that for an excuse, but I have fallen in love with a woman who is married and we are madly in love, mentally and physically. I'm lost, confused and miss...
A. 6 September 2005: what a mess. I think you need to talk to your wife first you cant go on lieing and pretending the longer the worse it will get. Then you need to talk to the women you love and ask her to do the same if she wants to be with you.
Then take it from... (read in full...)
I fancy my mate's brother, but everyone knows I also fancy another boy...
Q. I'm a 14 year old girl and in the 6 weeks holidays I started hanging round with a group of 16 year old boys. I started to fancy one boy. They all knew about it, including him, and the flirting went on for a month. Then eventually I asked him out. He ...
A. 6 September 2005: if u want a boy and he wants you go for it do u really care what people say or think. ben he sounds as if he dont want to go out with you or maby he does but he shy end of the say you asked him out and he said he dont know move on girl if you like ... (read in full...)
She says she regrets cheating, but I'm having difficulty dealing with my doubts about her...
Q. I have a real problem with my relationship, but first let me provide some background information. I am only sixteen, and my girlfriend is of the same age. This is the first major relationship I've ever had. My first everything is with this gir...
A. 5 September 2005: Alcohol can do that to some people it doesnt mean anything. I think you should give her a second chance thats if you like her enough. But you got to think the thought of her cheating on you will stay with you for as long as your with her and deep ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has written me out of her life...and she says there's no chance of changing her mind.
Q. Dear Cupid I have been going out with a great girl for just over three years, but she has decided that she doesnt want to be part of this relationship any more, and she has ended it during a disagreemen we had about something very minor. From ...
A. 5 September 2005: she oviously has made up her mind that the relationship is over. you need to move on not try win her back it does sound like you really was in love AT A TIME thinks change if she loves you she will come back to you.... (read in full...)
It's wearing my boyfriend out, dividing his time between me and his son!
Q. I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He is very nice and says he loves me. I also love him. The problem him being 58 and has a 16 year old son. I am 50 with no children and dependents at home. He says he did not think that he would...
A. 5 September 2005: give him time he hasnt know you that long and he might be still getting over his wife. Your probably the first women after his wife and he just needs to adjust and get used to the idea of haveing a new women around just give it time. hope everything ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him, since he doesn't care about my feelings?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and now he is saying that he wants to go back to just dating. We where almost living together when he decided this. Now he went away for the weekend with friends and I didn't hear form him...
A. 5 September 2005: your both young and you will both feel that you dont want to be together all the time or sometimes you want other people talk to him and find out what he wants from your relationship and then dicide.... (read in full...)
I think sex is disgusting. Can I still find a proper relationship?
Q. Hi I'm 16. I think that sex is disgusting and I'm not to keen on kissing either. Am I the only one and is there any chance of me finding a proper relationship? help and thanks...
A. 5 September 2005: Your not the only one loads of girls and boys your age feel that way its normal. Wen you do find someone you like and that likes you you will feel ready for the stage of kissing and when your ready sex so you have nothing to worry about.... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about him, but he's 43!
Q. I am 15 and I am in love with a 43 year old man. I don't really know him that well, but I do know that he is really nice and kind. I find myself thinking about him nearlly all the time. What should I do?...
A. 5 September 2005: its just a teenage stage hes a fully grown man you may think you love him but think about it hes not going to want to be with you in a relationship is he i mean hes oldenough to be your dad. You need to get over him and look for someone thats more ... (read in full...)
I get nothing but criticism and accusations from my boyfriend. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I am a 19 year old male and I'm in a relationship with a 40yr old male. We have been having problems now for months. He spends more time with everybody else with me. He's nasty to me, he puts me down, he tries to stop me talking to my family and ...
A. 5 September 2005: he sounds like a real control freak i think you need to move on sweetie. If he loved you he wouldnt try to be so imature al the time and acuse you of things you just dont do if you cant love someone if you dont trust them. Hes inscure simply if he ... (read in full...)
Help! Things are moving too fast. I'm 12 and my boyfriend is 17...
Q. Hi, I need some advice about my boyfriend. I'm 12 and he's 17, we've been together for 2 months I really love him but things are moving a bit fast for me. We haven't even told my parents yet and he's talking about having sex! He has had sex with...
A. 5 September 2005: dont be pressured in to doing anything you dont want to if he likes you enough and respects you then he will respect your dessisions.
If you dont want to sleep with him talk to him about it if he starts saying anything like a propper girlfriend woul... (read in full...)
Do I tell what I know about my sexual abuser?
Q. I have a problem from my past which is coming back to haunt me. I was sexually abused by a family 'friend' when I was 6. I never told anyone and after a few years, I stopped seeing him so he couldn't do anything to me anymore. I never told my ...
A. 5 September 2005: i think it very brave of you to write in and ask for help. If you really want to talk this in to the open do so but you need to think its being a long time and bringing it all back up might make you upset depressed and angry but if your scared do ... (read in full...)
My girl can't make her mind up whether to choose the other lad or me!
Q. hi I have just had a big uproar with my girl. It all started cos she said that she had feelings for another lad, but she does not want to lose me. I still love her and now she is trying to make her mind up. How can I help her choose me? ...
A. 5 September 2005: leave her to decide for her self think about it could you be with someone that has feelings for another guy? Give her time your both young and your hornmons are everywhere if she picks the other guy still be friends just move on. your young and you ... (read in full...)
My cousin is in love with a teacher...
Q. My cousin's in love with her teacher... She's a junior high school student and she's in love with her teacher in the same school. I can't stand about this event. I want to inform this to her mother but if I do, her mother will punish her in no ...
A. 5 September 2005: its just a crush nowt to be worried about its not like your cussien is gonner get theis teacher just leave your cus she wil soon get over it and move on... (read in full...)
Since being pregnant, I'm totally uninterested in sex and affection...
Q. I've been seeing a lovely guy for over 2 years now. We live together and I'm now pregnant to him.(We're both 28.) The thing is, since being pregnant(now 10 weeks), I've gone completly off sex/affection/kissing etc. Now I'm worried cos I don't wa...
A. 5 September 2005: im pregnat 29 weeks and i was like that with my boyfriend i couldnt kiss touch or have sex with him so theirs nothing to worry about its probably just your hormones the feeling for your guy will come back just give it time and talk it through with ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get my family to accept my relationship?
Q. Dear Cupid, My relationship is cool, except that my family doesn't approve of it. What should I do?...
A. 5 September 2005: to push your family to be cool about who your dating those things take time and adjustment its a big thing watching your kids grow up and your family only wants the best for you. Let them figure out that who your dating is rite for you and respects ... (read in full...)
Is my sexual obsession with my sister-in-law healthy... Or not?!
Q. Dear Cupid, I really need to know if I am "normal" and if this problem I have is common among married men. Cut the story short, I have been having sexual fantasies about my wife's older sister for almost a year now. I'm so afraid its getting u...
A. 5 September 2005: i think what you need to do is think over do you really want to be with your wife when you fanasiseing about another women let alone her sister.
What you need to think about is would you be happy with her sister. Maby you need to sit down and al h... (read in full...)
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