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writes: I'm a 14 year old girl and in the 6 weeks holidays I started hanging round with a group of 16 year old boys. I started to fancy one boy. They all knew about it, including him, and the flirting went on for a month. Then eventually I asked him out. He said he didn't know and kept saying that for ages. I now know it will never happen, but I have feelings for one of the other lads who is my best friend's older brother, and during the summer holidays he kissed me whilst playing a game and I know he likes me too. But the thing is, the whole of the 6th form at my school know I like the other boy so I can't do anything about my mate's brother because it will look like I'm trying to get at Ben and I'm scared I will lose my new friends who are the best!! Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): hi dont worry i like my best mates brother and he dosent give one just talk get the stuff he likes and then you'll be fine but can you help me i have a crush on a boy and i think he likes me but we avoid eachother should we do that and i can't get him out my head
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2005): i would tell your mate that is your mates brother ask him out and dont be affraid its ok to like lots of lads like in your top 5
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reader, Delila +, writes (7 September 2005):
You are great, you have plenty of back bone and you're not a bit afraid to go after what you want. Your confidence must have been a bit shaken when the first boy said no. Give yourself a bit of time to build up your confidence again. Then when it feels right ask your friends brother out if thats what you want to do. Tell all the girls that you are gone off the first guy and that you fancy sombody else now, you don't have to tell them who it is in case it doesn't work out. If he says no, there are probably a lot more boys on your list of fancy-ables.
Go Girl.
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reader, pops +, writes (7 September 2005):
Slow down. If you want to keep all your new friends, don't be dating any of them. Nothing will get guys to break up faster than a girl who picks first one, and then another. You are way too young to be dating at 14, so cool your jets. The boys you are hanging out with at 16 are probably not as mature as you are. Leave the dating go until you all get a lot older. Enjoy being 14. It changes very quickly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2005): Sounds like you need to be careful in the situation you are in. If you are not you will get a bad reputation. You best bet, just be friends with them. If one of them gets interested in you they will ask you out, boys don't like to be chased, the harder you chase the harder they will run. Then if one of them shows they are interested you can show them you are interested without letting everyone know it.
Wish you the best!
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reader, daniella +, writes (6 September 2005):
if u want a boy and he wants you go for it do u really care what people say or think. ben he sounds as if he dont want to go out with you or maby he does but he shy end of the say you asked him out and he said he dont know move on girl if you like this other lad go for it
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reader, society girl +, writes (6 September 2005):
Time is your best friend at this point. Let everyone know that you do not expect to persue the first boy. The chemistry is just not right. Stay alone for a while and this will let everyone know that you are single and available. Your best friend's older brother will also see that you are available and little by little you can let him know that you are interested in him. Don't be impatient, good things come to those who wait.
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