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writes: I am 13 weeks pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have broke up. What my problem is, is that we broke up a while ago and I slept with someone else, then we got back together. We aren't together now. I am really scared that my one night stand is the father of my child. Even my ex is doubting that he is. It would totaly destroy me if he was. I don't know what to do. I don't want to worry about it for the next 6 months but it's all I can think about. I want my ex to be the father so much. He'd make a great dad. I'm only 19 and have been wanting a baby for so long. In fact, it's all I've ever wanted. I know the truth always comes out eventually. I'm just scared of what that might be. Can anyone help? x
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reader, tatiana +, writes (20 September 2005):
It is going to be the way it was meant to be dear. Things happen for a reason. Your boyfriend can still be the best dad ever regardless if that is his child or not. You will see in 6 months, 6 years or 16 years you will be happy it turned out to be the way it was, because there could be no other child that the one you'll have wheather it was with your one night stand or your boyfiend. What I am trying to say here is that what if this is your one night stands baby, and what if this child will find a cure of cancer for example it was meant to be this way for a reason. What reason you will definitely discover. Nothing to be scared about. Cary out the plan - as soon as this baby is born it will not matter - it shouldn't. You take care of yourself, don't stress - take care of the baby. It is not good to worry when you pregnant.
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reader, pops +, writes (19 September 2005):
Talk to your doctor, there are tests that can be done invitro to determine the paternity of your child, although they are not done unless there is some other medical reason to do them.( draw the fluid from which a sample can be used.) Otherwise you are going to have to just wait. You won't be the first mother who found out her child was fathered by a passing stranger. Good luck.
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reader, daniella +, writes (18 September 2005):
try go from your dates and to the date you slept with the other guy then the last time you slept with your ex.
If your still not sure and you want to go along with your pregancy then wait till the baby is born and have a dna test.
It wont be that bad if your ex isnt the father i mean you got your baby at the end of the day and shes yours. good luck
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