Our song is his and his ex's song too...what does this mean!?
Q. Please help even if this is a silly question! I don't know what to think. I've just found out the mine and my boyfriend's song was his and his ex's song! What does that say about him? Should i worry that everyone time we listen to it he is thinking...
A. 4 January 2010: could depend on the song, but could just be one of those 'this reminds me of people i like' thing... i wouldn't worry, but if you do too much, broach the subject casually.. or change the song! X... (read in full...)
My girlfriend went traveling and came back single!! I don't know what to do! Advice, please?
Q. i was going out with a girl for 6 years up until last may when she traveled to Australia for 7 months. everything was fine before she left in that we promised to stay together etc, loved each other etc. while she was traveling she met another guy ...
A. 4 January 2010: this is a really unfortunate situation for you, and as much as you want to hate her she probably had some of those 'changing' experiences. Evidently it's good to try to move on, but it probably won;t happen for a while. and she may crawl to you soon ... (read in full...)
He said it was a drunken mistake while we were split up...what should I do?
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year n half and it went great we were so happy until last night i found out he was seeing this girl twice whilst we were split up (but we knew it wouldnt last long and got back together within a week.) I am so ...
A. 25 March 2008: I think you should just talk to him, honestly and frankly..
I know how it feels to mess up like that, and to lose someone you love as a result, talk talk talk..sometimes these things work out and sometimes they don't. What I would give for a chan... (read in full...)
How do I build trust back?
Q. I'm meeting my ex boyfriend on Friday, for a chat and a general 'What happened to us' conversation... which we do need because it was all very messy and we haven't spoken in a month ( at all) and not properly since December. It was my fault the...
A. 18 March 2008: I know but it won't be super intense..
we were together for a year and half, it wasnt just a few months or a flighting fancy. Itwill be a-ok..... (read in full...)
He's not a creep, he's HOT! Is he just playing me?
Q. OK theres this guy I know. I've noticed he's quite flirty-which doesn't bother me in fact he says he flirts with everyone. Now he SAYS he's just playing yet he winks and looks at me longingly. He's also offered his place for me to 'esc...
A. 17 March 2008: creeps can be hot too! In fact its probably easier to be a hot creep than an ugly one because more peopel are willing to be creeped out.
anyway, i think he's noticed you are vulnerable and is either trying to peck at you when he can or tryng to... (read in full...)
How do I build trust back?
Q. I'm meeting my ex boyfriend on Friday, for a chat and a general 'What happened to us' conversation... which we do need because it was all very messy and we haven't spoken in a month ( at all) and not properly since December. It was my fault the...
A. 17 March 2008: nono its not that i don't want anything.
I just don't really deserve anything!
I would love something to happen I'm just not going to gt my hopes up.
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Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!
Q. hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want t...
A. 17 March 2008: The law makes no difference to any kid in the UK, its a stupid law, people will have sex if and when thy are ready. The law is there, lets say, as a 'guide' for when the gov thinks people are mature enough to have sex. I know people who are still ... (read in full...)
Deep secret from my past!! Will it effect my future
Q. I believe i was abused when i was very young by my father. I am still a virgin because I choose to be but I wonder why I am not really interested in having sex. I am scared that what happened when I was little(eventhough I cannot remember it because ...
A. 17 March 2008: I sort of know how you feel.
I was abused by my brother and cousin, and I worry it means I'm not that interested in sex. My last boyfriend of a year and a half constantly complained that i wasn't affectionate enough and it made things very diff... (read in full...)
My friend touched my girlfriend in his sleep, what do I do?
Q. i dont know what to do.we were at a party and drank alot.my best friend couldnt drive home and i said he could sleep over.he shared the bed with me and my girlfriend.in his sleep he touched my gf and kissed her neck and the touched her vagina.he ...
A. 17 March 2008: I don't think its weird that you shared abed together, I've done that before and its not something you think about because you all know nothing will happen! Who would'nt rather be on the bed than on the floor! Normally you ask the third person if ... (read in full...)
When did I conceive my baby?
Q. I had my baby on February 28, when would I have conceived him?...
A. 13 March 2008: 9 months before? - I guess?
Was he early or late?
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Dealing with a wounded ego after I bested my BF
Q. I think my BF is being really pissy over something I didn't think was a big deal. We were talking the other day about sports we no longer take part in but used to enjoy and I mentioned that I used to do judo in college and was pretty good, even ...
A. 13 March 2008: re-match and let him win.
Boys and their ego's geee..!
He doesn't have to know you weren't trying!... (read in full...)
I'm losing a good man to date others who are just after one thing. Am I crazy?
Q. ok i need advise, please don't judge me: i've been in a relationship for almost 2years, we were close friends and i loved him and i still love him, i just think i'm not in love with him. I'm full of guilt because i have been dating as if i was single...
A. 13 March 2008: you sound like I did at the end of last year,
in hindsight, communication is what I needed and talking to him, just generally.. about anything will help.
Sometime things just break down on their own, and sometimes we make it so..just try to ensur... (read in full...)
My heart is broken, what went wrong?
Q. At the moment, I'm feeling so low as I seem to have so many problems and so much stress, and to make it worse I've just split from my boyfriend. I can't express how much I loved him, but somewhere something went wrong, and we couldnt carry on being...
A. 12 March 2008: I just find that crying helps... a big big sob every once in a while does make one feel better.
And just pull all your friends closer, explain to them that you need them to keep you busy so you can take your mind off him and do fun things.
It's ... (read in full...)
What is my ex gaining by shunning me??
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-laying-low-and-just-concentrating-on-college.html was the original post I left... Any ideas on when its safe to talk to the ex again? I really miss him and have been miserable for a long time. If you had been ...
A. 12 March 2008: hmm.
thanks.
Bit rude but i asked for your help so i shall take it.
and thank-you to the first person too. ... (read in full...)
Meeting with my ex's friend for the first time in nearly a year.
Q. Hi everyone. Tomorrow I am going to a university for an interview. This university is located about 50 miles from where I first met my long distance (240 miles) first love at a train station in her home town 3 years ago this summer. She brok...
A. 11 March 2008: Congratulations! I thought I had left a comment before but can't see it now so maybe it didn't work. Im glad it went well for you, and goo luck on uni stuff, I'm doing it now too and its tricky! It's nice to clear the air isn't it? xX... (read in full...)
I've lied to a man I really love, and now I feel bad. What can I do?
Q. I've just divorced my husband. We have been married for 20 years. My husband is selfish and unkind. I stay for the security. He made me feel unattractive so I started to cheat on him. It didnt make me feel better but just feel guilty and cheap. ...
A. 11 March 2008: as long as your sure it won't come out from a friend or another source i;d say keep it under wraps,
we all do things that are out of character sometimes.... (read in full...)
Should I just accept that I am just a friend to her or keep going after her??
Q. Hi, Theres this girl I really like in the year below me. We get on really well, and are becoming good friends. We email each other practically every night and she knows how much I like her. Shes a year younger and has never had a boyfriend before...
A. 11 March 2008: If you said you were into her and she didn't say the same I guess your only option is to back out..quite possibly, by backing out she will be forced into telling you how she really feels, maybe say something like.. 'i like ou so much that i need to ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him my true age before the situation turns more complicated? I'm not 16 just yet.
Q. So i have a pretty minior problem. First off i am 15, (turning 16 in may) and the guy i am talking too is 18 (turning 19 in may also) we have kissed once or twice, and we talk constantly. he wants to take me out on a date, and seems pretty honest ...
A. 11 March 2008: you have to be honest because its sort of now or never.. hopefully he will change his view or maybe you two can be together again when you are older... good luck! XX... (read in full...)
Missing my ex boyfriend... how to deal with this?
Q. pls help! missing my ex bf.. how should i deal with this? Question Details: anybody who got hurt in love and can understand my state pls reply this.. this is not joke and im in a very sad mood... i feel like calling my ex bf...im feeling restless...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm goign through a similar thing at the moment, where my boyfriend and i broke up over something he thinks was HUGE but, although bad, wasn't that awful at all... ( at least not after a year and a half of being together).
Im struggling with the... (read in full...)
Missing my ex boyfriend... how to deal with this?
Q. pls help! missing my ex bf.. how should i deal with this? Question Details: anybody who got hurt in love and can understand my state pls reply this.. this is not joke and im in a very sad mood... i feel like calling my ex bf...im feeling restless...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm goign through a similar thing at the moment, where my boyfriend and i broke up over something he thinks was HUGE but, although bad, wasn't that awful at all... ( at least not after a year and a half of being together). Im struggling with ... (read in full...)
Meeting with my ex's friend for the first time in nearly a year.
Q. Hi everyone. Tomorrow I am going to a university for an interview. This university is located about 50 miles from where I first met my long distance (240 miles) first love at a train station in her home town 3 years ago this summer. She brok...
A. 11 March 2008: I don;t think you need a gift, just tell her how thankful you are and she will understand. If its from the heart it will be obvious to her... good luck!... (read in full...)
First should I stay and try to help him get clean or should I leave before the baby comes?
Q. I need some advice. I am 22 years old and my boyfriend is 26. I am 16 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend and I moved in together and I found out that he uses prescription drugs and cocaine. He also drinks alcohol. I found out about all this when I was 5 ...
A. 6 March 2008: I think your best bet might be to take him to a proper counsellor person or maybe a drug conversation class or something? I'm sure there will be places in your local area where you can get expert advice on this...as for what you need to do? Check ... (read in full...)
A guy marrying a lesbian?
Q. I have fallen in to a situation here i have too many conflicting issues to know what is right to do. I had met a girl some time ago and we became fast friends and became very, very close and shared a small intimate moment, however she, is gay. ...
A. 6 March 2008: WHat happens if you meet someone else that you love and loves you the same.. would you be able to leave her? What if she meets someone she loves that loves her back? I'd say that you probably wouldn't want to be somebodies 'back-up', not f... (read in full...)
I got myself in a bit of a tangle. I have got 2-3 boyfriends and a fiance!!!
Q. please help, I got myself in a bit of a tangle. I have got 2/3 boyfriends and a fiance, my fiance lives abroad, my first boyfriend I have been with him for 4 years but it has been a rocky relationship on and off and my fiance I don't even know him ...
A. 6 March 2008: Which one do you like most? Which one make you happiest (not your parents) and which one would you ultimatley leave the other two for? ...is it any of them? Or do you just need a fresh start? ... (read in full...)
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