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writes:hey im 16 and i like so many others have fallen in love my with teacher but this time its different! He says he loves me too. now im totally confused. he told me last week and iv seen him a few times since but he havnt mentiuoned it again.i first told him that i had feelings for him 3 years ago. and we stayed really good friends which i guess helped. but it still felt like my heart was breaking every time i saw him. his smile, his caring nature. he is so beautiful.Hes married and has 3 kids so the fact he suddenly had feelings for me has totally confused me and i dont know what to do. i love him so much but i cant hurt them..Please does anyone have any advice? thanks. x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Do you really want to hurt his family?? Are you that selfish? You may love him, and it will be hard to get over him but i mean how old is theis guy? Do you actually have a future together?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): So, are you saying that you want him to father your children as well?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Er....hello! What the hell is wrong with you people?!!! A teacher and a 16 year old student?!!!! And the fact that he has three kids AND would have taken at least three years to become a teacher suggests that he is alightly older than 20. Oh and obviously a secondary school.
Hmmm........maybe none of you have kids of this age, but seriously, listen to yourselves. Encouraging a young girl to intervene with a marriage and three children, with a teacher. Any one ever heard of proffessionalism?
Geeze!
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reader, cls1990 +, writes (29 April 2009):
 stay being friends, atleast untill you have left school & he has divorced his wife.
if he has no plans to leave his wife & children then your wasting your time, i know thats not what you want to hear but sometimes the truth hurts.
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (29 April 2009):
The best thing to do is nothing, if you love him, you wont risk destroying his life, i mean breaking up his family and going to prison, thats how the worst cases end.
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reader, iLuvMusic14  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 You should just stay close friends. If you go any farther he he will get in big trouble and posibly go 2 jail. I like 1 of my teachers and he all flirty with me but I don't want him 2 go 2 jial so I just act normal. You should just stay close friends and talk but not go any farther and plus he's marride and has kids. I hope I helped this happens all the time now days.
Good Luck!
Mary
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