I lied about my age to my bf, should I come clean?
Q. when me and current flame started talking, i never thought things would get as serious as they have, and i deffinitely did not think they would last past a week or two. he was 2 years older than me and very very mature so i was worried since i was ...
A. 15 July 2010: Seriously, 2 years isn't much.... (read in full...)
My guy bestfriend is in love with me and his girlfriend.
Q. I am inlove with my male bestfriend. We have been bestfriends since 7th grade and we are currently going to be seniors in highschool. We did not admit to our love until the 2nd week of septemeber my junior year(2009). He started going out with a ...
A. 8 July 2010: You both need to grow up a little and let time flow, keep in touch, but until he fully commits don't let him close to your heart.... (read in full...)
Do guys like being called "daddy" during sex?
Q. I was wondering do guys like it when you call them "daddy" when your haveing sex? Or would they think its weird? ALso if they do like being called that during sex would they still like to be called that when there not? Just curious, thanks....
A. 8 July 2010:
I think it's cute, it would make me feel as a man worthy to have your children... but that's just me.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says we're over the "lovey-dovey" stage!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and it was fine at first all the lovey dovey holding hands and kissing. now he says we are over that stage. i don't understand why it stopped. i still want to do all that what should i do?...
A. 8 July 2010: The lovey-dovey period usually last 3 months to 3 years! But, ALWAYS ends. And there's a good reason for that. It's a physiological/evolution thing, that period is made to make love, and therefore babies. The period ends simply so you would stop ... (read in full...)
How can I win back my boyfriend and best friend?
Q. i need help i love my ex boyfriend so much he broke up with me because he couldn face me after he went to someone elses party instead of mine we were going out for a very long time im going nuts with you the thoughts of him and it hurts so so much i ...
A. 6 July 2010: Don't do anything, wait for him to come... it's called gravity.... (read in full...)
How do I approach an 'out of my league' girl to go out with me?
Q. ok so i like a girl that is 2 years older than me and maybe a little out of my league. we are kinda friends. we talk some. i want to know how i should go about trying to get her to go out with me...
A. 21 June 2010: If they talk to you, they are not out of your league.
Out of your league chicks, would not even notice that you exists.... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do..I don't want to hurt anyone...
Q. okay,so im 17 and i have this huge problem. 1-i had a boyfriend...we dated for about a year but during this year we boke up three times and ended up getting back together...i was crazyy about him.oh,and the times we broke up...he actually broke up...
A. 21 June 2010:
Honey, you are lusting over there guys, it isn't love, love takes time to form, at least 2-3 years. You don't need them, you only need yourself. So, take some time away with only yourself and make a decision.... (read in full...)
My period was late by a week, could I still be pregnant?
Q. my period was late bout a week then it came...i thought i was pregnant, could i still can be? cause i haven't been using protection ...
A. 21 June 2010: It's pretty common for the cycle to be broken, can take longer or shorter time, sometimes, it even skip a month. If it is back, you are not pregnant. If you, are still scared, get a test. Also, use protection.... (read in full...)
I have difficulty expressing myself in my workplace...help!
Q. i have a problem in experessing myself expecially when in my working environment. it's as if i have this fobia of receiving a response i might not know how to rspond back.my colugues bad chat me most times and pretnd to be k with me. what to do?...
A. 21 June 2010: You need to practiced your communication skill. There's alot of books on the subject, the latest i've read was from larry king, but there's really a zillion of them. Basically, you can practiced in front of the mirror, or just read a book at loud. ... (read in full...)
Did he cum on my chest because he didn't enjoy the blow job?
Q. I am a 25 year old married woman. Recently, I was giving my husband a blow as he really likes that, when he had me stop, lay on the bed on back, and began to rub his penis over my breats and then shot on my boobs. We had never done this. I had ...
A. 17 June 2010:
Come on! They do that only in every porn video?!? Watch some porn!... (read in full...)
Did I blow my chance with her?
Q. So i work with a girl, we've been very good friends for a long time and we had been growing close but i hesitated to make a move before i was more sure so after a night out she offered me the chance to crash at hers. I said no thinking it mean...
A. 17 June 2010:
Invite her, then!... (read in full...)
I'm shy, how can I approach him?
Q. how do i ask a guy for his msn ? am a very shy person ...
A. 17 June 2010: Just write a note to him, with your email! = P... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my ex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend (whom is my ex now)at the time were perfect in the beginning. the thing is he left his ex to be with me but something was telling me that him and his ex were def more than just friends afterward. id ask him plenty of times and ...
A. 15 June 2010: No... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I need space without hurting his feelings?
Q. Dear cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and we've become extremely dependant on eachother. We're with eachother 24\7 and if we're not, we constantly text. But now i feel like, if i've text him just to say hi or whatever, he'll strike u...
A. 15 June 2010: Just a fact, even the best songs can become boring if you play it too many times. Distance is key to a good relationship. If you have pizza everyday you get tired of it, but if you hadn't had any in months it taste awesome! You need to find a ... (read in full...)
My guy friend acts weird--does he like me?
Q. Hello, is there something my guy mate isnt telling me? A bit of background info....We don't talk a lot, there's a group of 4 of us that usually go out into town at night. He's always acted strange with me, he's known me for quite a while and he o...
A. 15 June 2010: You already know the answer, don't you?... (read in full...)
My vagina has this smell which is making me uncomfortable..
Q. i have this ugly bad smell at my vagina, dont know why but i have it. I shower atleast 2 times a day when i have my period sometimes more, even if i take a bath. After intercourse i shower before intercourse i shower after intercourse the smell is ...
A. 15 June 2010: Coconut oil has being used to treat infections since of its anti-bacterial/fungus properties! My 2 cent.... (read in full...)
We use the pull out method for birth control but now I'm worry I might be pregnant!
Q. Possibly pregnant-but don't know how to find out.. I'm a 20 year old university student who recently had intercourse with my boyfriend. Due to medical issues I can't take birth control and he can't use condoms. We have been using the pull out ...
A. 15 June 2010: The pull out method is a terrible idea! There's always some sperm coming out before even ejaculating!... (read in full...)
How can I stop my underarms sweating?
Q. hi. im 18 and have a problem that has been getting on my nerves, my armpits keep sweating, it happens within 10 minutes of getting out the bath. i wash well and everyday, im very hygienic. the sweat doesn't smell, it just ruins me from wearing nic...
A. 2 June 2010: Try sage tea.... (read in full...)
My girlfriends still in "friend mode"
Q. I'm in a relationship and some help. Here's how it started i asked her if she liked me more than a friend and she said no, Well she already knew i liked her. Well the next day came and she told me she loved me. A day after saying she didn't like me. ...
A. 15 September 2009: The relationship is still very young, just wait sometime, in 3-6 month you'll just laugh about it!... (read in full...)
Will the guilt over cheating on my girlfriend ever subside?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 8 years now and I truly love her. She is the girl of my dreams and she feels the same about me. The thing is I cheated on her about 3 years ago with one of her friends. I really don’t know why I did it as I was ...
A. 1 September 2009: Key line: "I will NEVER cheat on her again."
You have learn from your mistake, keep your guild, it made you better, embrace it, keep it as a reminder...... (read in full...)
Oral sex with cousin and I want to do it again!
Q. ok guys, basically what happened was a few months ago me (im 14) and my cousin (shes 13) were alone. we started making out and one thing led to another and i was performing oral sex on her and she was performing oral sex on me. i want to stress w...
A. 31 August 2009: Cousin's relation has only being taboo in the last century and it's not based on anything but hate. 80% of all marriage in history were between first cousin. 20% of the actual world population is married with their cousin. Cousin have less ... (read in full...)
Cousin is confiding in me..how do I tell him I'm attracted to him
Q. I am in love with my cousin we kissed when i was 10 and he was 12 and i didnt see him for like 7 years and now that we saw each other everything is soo awkard between us he will give me eye contacts and stuff but we didnt do anything he would te...
A. 31 August 2009: Cousin's relation has only being taboo in the last century and it's not based on anything but hate. 80% of all marriage in history were between first cousin. 20% of the actual world population is married with their cousin. Cousin have less ... (read in full...)
Am I supposed to be paying the photographer or the other way around?
Q. hi i was wondering if anyone would be able to help me on this,, well the thing is i made a profile up on a modelling and photography website, just to see if anything would come out of it !! i made it aware that i didnt have a portfolio, a few minuts ...
A. 27 August 2009: It's Simple! To whom does the end product goes? If the picture goes to you! You have to pay for them! If the pictures remain for the photographer he has to pay you.... (read in full...)
I need help! Wife is cheating!
Q. I've been married for 6 years and its been hard. My wife and I have two kids. Now, a couple of years ago she cheated on me when she went out with some friends to santa monica to spend the night. She sadi she thought someone gave her sonething ...
A. 26 August 2009: Do not stay in a relationship for your children. It makes unhappy families. As a women she has cheated on you. Sure you still love her, but she doesn't respect you. You need to find someone else that you will love and love you back as you deserve. ... (read in full...)
Cousin is confiding in me..how do I tell him I'm attracted to him
Q. I am in love with my cousin we kissed when i was 10 and he was 12 and i didnt see him for like 7 years and now that we saw each other everything is soo awkard between us he will give me eye contacts and stuff but we didnt do anything he would te...
A. 26 August 2009: -Uncle Phil: Actually if it's illegal to marry in your state you can marry in another one. And then they are obliged to respect your union. It's a dum dum law anyways based on lies. ... (read in full...)
Cousin is confiding in me..how do I tell him I'm attracted to him
Q. I am in love with my cousin we kissed when i was 10 and he was 12 and i didnt see him for like 7 years and now that we saw each other everything is soo awkard between us he will give me eye contacts and stuff but we didnt do anything he would te...
A. 26 August 2009: There is "nothing" wrong in loving you cousin! It's beautiful. So enjoy it! ... (read in full...)
I hate him for making me like him!
Q. This guy I know has been treating me differently. I hate him for making me like him. He probably doesn't like me anymore but he does things to make me think otherwise. I hate how he talks to other girls who are his friends and not me. I liked him ...
A. 26 August 2009: Ask him out! Tell him how you feel... Stop torturing yourself. Stop missing out on something that could be so wonderfully sweet.
Sure, expect to be hurt. But, don't waste any more time wondering... What if...... (read in full...)
Help! I came out to my best friend by text last night, don't know what to do now?!
Q. I'm an 18 year old female, and after weeks of struggling to find the perfect moment to tell my best friend I'm gay I decided to tell her by text last night. I was to scared of her reaction if i told her face to face, so I decided it was better to ...
A. 26 August 2009: Honey, you shouldn't be scared! You are afraid that she might not accept you for who you are. But, you forgot, she is your friend. She told you it herself. So, if she really is your friend she will always accept you no matter what you do. After, all ... (read in full...)
Becoming distant with the world, seeking authentication beyond myself
Q. Good evening/morning... I have a feeling I might regret this, but I wish to share some of my thoughts in the form of questions with the rest of the member-base, out of being semi-anonymous. ^o^ As I age, I feel more and more distant to common s...
A. 26 August 2009: 1) How do you live within a society or community, as you grow distant from it?
-aha! my friend, there are as many communities as there are different life forms on the earth! Yes, there is even communities for people that feel distant from it all.... (read in full...)
I feel so lonely and have no idea how to find a real relationship!
Q. helloo I posted a few months ago on here about a bad experience i had and what i learnt from it. To cut a long story short, I have a lonely life no close friends and never been in a relationship. I was also very into porn and visited a brothel ...
A. 26 August 2009: Try some dating site and chat with plenty of girls. Found the one you're the more comfortable with. Realize that she wants the same thing that you do.... (read in full...)
I'm unbelievably shy and cannot bring myself to ask this woman out!
Q. ok this may take a while but the way im feeling, i really need to express myself. The first thing you should know about me is that im unbelievably shy. I've liked this woman for about 6 months now and i have no idea how to take it further. ...
A. 26 August 2009: Here my trick... Write down how you feel on a letter. A letter only for you no one else. It will make your head clear and ease up your heart. Now, it could take a week but that letter is going to resonate into your soul. Then you only need to give ... (read in full...)
I can't have a sexual relationship because of premature ejactulation! Does anyone else have problems with this?
Q. I cant stay the distance in bed and because of this I cant maintain a sexual relationship. I'm 36 and have a major problem with premature ejaculation. Because of this I've ended up in some very embarrassing situations and have never been able ...
A. 26 August 2009: Please send me a private message. I can help.... (read in full...)
My verbal abuse has caused my ex to become a different person, how can I fix this?
Q. In my past relationship, I verbally abused my wife. At the time I apparently never noticed what I was doing and I've finally come to terms with this over the past few months and I've been working on it tremendously. What really concerns me though... ...
A. 26 August 2009: You to need fix yourself before you can fix your relationship. Verbal abuse comes from anger and one way to get ride of anger is by exercising. So, run 3 miles every day, it will make you feel good and will get rid of the excess energy and ... (read in full...)
I got too obsessed with him and now he won't talk to me
Q. what would u say to a guy who thinks u are crazy but he is a freak and sexy and u wanna come and see him on monday so u can work things out with him. but if he doesnt reply to the texts or emails but if he did yall would argue wat would u do knowing ...
A. 25 August 2009: How did messed up?
Stop talking soo much to him...
Step back a little...
Let him come to you..
It takes two to dance, one step forward(toward him), one step back (letting him come back)...... (read in full...)
Could our friendship ever turn into something more?
Q. hey everyone, i am 20 and in last year of my degree. I have fallen for a guy (overseas student) in my class and its not easy. I have known him before the start of uni because he is a regular and active member in our community gatherin...
A. 25 August 2009: Ask him out for a date? Make your intentions clear? Tell him you fancy him or watch him walk away...... (read in full...)
I've got a bumpy clit. What to do about it?
Q. Um, Hello. I Just realized I had a bump near where my clit is. and I dunno how it got there. When I went to lay back down, I noticed my underwear Rubs against that part a bit hard. Maybe that's why it's there? When I got back up and tried to fix my ...
A. 25 August 2009: Get new underwear. It's mostly is hardened skin cause by rough friction same things as when you were bad shoes. Put some moisturizing lotion for the time being. It should be gone in a couple of weeks.... (read in full...)
What should I do if my girlfriend is having phone sex with another guy?
Q. She usually sends erotic messages to him right when he gets out of work. They are co-workers, so she knows his schedule. I found out she was sending him dirty stories about themselves and ones she would make up. How I found out was that she would be ...
A. 25 August 2009: Tell her she's hurting you. And you cannot understand why she needs another man to be mentally/sexually aroused with. Ask her if she still love you.... (read in full...)
Does this count as rape?
Q. I am a 20 year old male who has been screwing around with my 35 year old married neighbor for 5 years. She is a beautiful woman who has introduced me to many things sexually. She is very kinky and very persuasive. Over the years she has given me ...
A. 25 August 2009: StudentOfLife is right.... (read in full...)
Is it love or passion? I am confused!
Q. well i dated a guy for a year and he broke up with me because i cheated on him with a cousin, i found another guy that i tend to love as well but am not too sure of whether he really want me as a long term material. the thing is ,my ex boyfriend was ...
A. 25 August 2009: Honey, find the man you love the most and only commit to him. Can't you keep your pants up for a moment of lust over the man you love?... (read in full...)
His ex can't seem to move on, what can I do?
Q. Dear Aunts, Ive Been With my boyfriend for 3 or 4 months now he was my best friend before we started dating.We are madly in love.Both of our last relationships ended because our exes didn't like the fact we were so close. My Ex Has Mo...
A. 25 August 2009: Honey, that's her problem not yours. You only need to ignore her. Let her, negativity flow around you like water on rock. Just warmly smile at her when you see her. Just embrace the love you have for your lover. Anything else is just noisy wind. ... (read in full...)
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