A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I am inlove with my male bestfriend. We have been bestfriends since 7th grade and we are currently going to be seniors in highschool. We did not admit to our love until the 2nd week of septemeber my junior year(2009). He started going out with a girl that he had told me was a hoe and talked and had sex with his friends. She had played him the year before by talking to him and 2 of his bestfriends at the same time. When he told me he was with her he told me in pieaces and calmy he knew I didn't like her. I always got along with all his gf's and had a good relationship with them. Welll while he was with her the week of homecoming that being the 2nd week of sept as I said before, he wrote me a note saying I was the love of his life and that heloved me dearly, pretty much confessing his feelings. The day of homecoming his gf did not go and he ended up kissing me and taking me out on the couples song, I could of sworn he would leave her for me. Today is july 4th 2010 and he is still with her. His girlfriend was jelous of our friendship deleted me off his facebook he had several arguments with her becus of me. He never failed to defend me bt he failed to leave her. He says he is inlove with her and me. Is that even possible. I no longer talk to him because he gave me false hope and still says he loves me. I miss him dearly, I mean he was my bestfriend. Now what do I do? I feel hurt, and alone. P.S help.3
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reader, celestial +, writes (8 July 2010):
You both need to grow up a little and let time flow, keep in touch, but until he fully commits don't let him close to your heart.
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